Have and reveal secrets
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If you've ever wondered, how to reconcile the seeming discrepancy between the two most common things you've heard about women, namely:
- women like mystery in a man
- women like to know secrets about a man
then here's an explanation by Kate Reynolds from Mindlist:
"A short time ago there was a thread
about revealing secrets as a way to gain rapport. IMHO this really
is a great way to establish rapport, but it can be carried too far.
I (and perhaps other women) like the idea of layers. Like peeling
an onion, we like to think there is always more that we don't know
yet. So, sharing a secret is fine as long as you convey the idea
that there are lots more - and that you are willing to give some
up for a price. I grow bored when I think I know all there is to
know about someone."
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