Quoting and stacking realities
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Quoting has you say things through someone's else mouth - has you quoting somebody. This has the advantage of making the more timid or insecure girls feel more at ease with the content you are about to deliver and thus much more receptive to your suggestive talk, as you are not talking about her neither yourself but a "friend" of yours (this is also a good tactic to use when delivering a harsher than usual content (see the articles about "Sexual talk"). In order to understand what you are saying, she will have to apply everything you say to herself anyway, so don't worry about her not experiencing what your "friend" experienced:)
On the other hand, using quotes might be a slight hindrance to your success with more open-minded and adventurous girls, who wouldn't mind you describing them your or their feelings, because should a direct speech be accepted, it is always much more powerful than speaking through quotes. With such a girl describe her feelings and she goes "Goosh, this guy really understands my feelings!", or describe your feelings and she goes "Goosh, this guy has such deep feelings!". She'll be wet either way:)
As you shall see in the "Falling in Love" pattern, you can also quote an article, a lecturer, a TV-show, a book etc. All these quotes added up is called stacking realities - the way she will perceive it is that if the book says so, the article says so, the lecturer says so, his friend says so etc., then it must be true.
The reasoning behind quoting is to give the more shy and emotionally fearful girls more distance to feel more at ease with any given subject - to not have either her or you overtly involved in your descriptions (don't worry, her and you will be involved in those descriptions in her mind:). Another way of making her more at ease with any given subject is to use the hypothetical "If you were to...", "If I were to..." constructions, which now have the two of you overtly involved in whatever you choose to talk about, but only in a hypothetical way.
For example, use a "If I were to ask you…" in front of a "…what's the most important thing for you in a relationship…", the implication being that you're not really asking, finish that with a "…how would you describe it?" and you end up with a much more effective question of "If I were to ask you what's the most important thing for you in a relationship, how would you describe in?" than a blatant "what's the most important thing for you in a relationship?" on its own could ever be.
Talking about sex
Using sexual stories to get her horny
Update. Examples of quoting to use sex-talk. Ross Jeffries:
"I found this letter on the lawn that my neighbor's daughter wrote. She is only 14 . . and I read, "You really shouldn't think about going down on a guy as you talk to him (on the phone) and you shouldn't think about making love to a man passionately (who you hardly know: who you are casual friends with.)"."
"Some men are so crude. I can't believe what I saw this dude do the other night. He walked up to this girl sitting at the bar next to me and said to her "Imagine us totally making out and you getting so incredibly turned on by it. If you were to feel that right now, try not to think about having me eat your pussy all night long and getting really horny." I can't believe a guy would ask a women to think about that all night long."
"You know, I have heard of guys being really crude towards women but you wouldn't believe what I saw last night. Well, I was sitting at this bar minding my own business when I saw this stranger walk up to this girl who was sitting next to me, look her right in the eye, and say " If I were to say to you that I'd like to eat your pussy all night long, would you get hot and horny or would you slap me and run away." Can you believe it! Did he really expect her to feel an incredibly lust inside, and enjoy imaging being made loved to all night long."
"My neighbor Cheryl acted so weird to me the other day. Do you know what she asked me? . . . She goes "John, Imagine you and me totally making out." And I'm like, "Cheryl, your 10 years older than me. And she says "wait, see this through your own eyes. Imagine you and me really enjoying ourselves passionately making out" I said, "No Cheryl, this isn't going to work out. And she says, "NO NO NO, just imagine it for a moment, just imagine us making out and you getting so turned on." Did she really expect me enjoy thinking about that over and over again, to the point where you can't get it out of your mind. If she does that again, next time I think I'll play it right back to her. Like say something like "Tell me Cheryl, What's it feel like when you experience fantastic sex when you're with someone who, you know mmmmm really knows how."
"You know I think it's so strange how people come up with things right out of the blue. My neighbor looks at me and says STOP and just . . . picture the . . . two of us . . . absolutely in love. Able to feel . . . totally connected, completely drawn to each other. What would it feel like then if I was kissing you exactly the way you like it, touching you exactly the way you like it, holding my body close to yours. God, did she really expect me to have those thoughts _____ Now with me, I know it takes time. I would never feel that right away. Its the kind of thing you go home and think about. You just picture it right up there in your mind find yourself dreaming those wonderful dreams of love with this special person
you are now connecting so powerfully with. But you can't think about it on the spot as well."
"You know, sometimes I think women are so strange. I can't believe you all. Well, the other day, I was talking with my friend ____ and she looked at me and she said, "If you were to imagine we were in love, what are the two of three things about me that you could say that just cause you to fall in love with me the most." Now I can't believe, that's not the kind of thing you ask someone to think about on the spot. It's the kind of thing you might find yourself pondering. You know, maybe when you're doing everyday things like driving your car or taking a shower and you find that you think about it to the point where you can't get it out of your mind. I know its a wonderful thing to feel a growing desire for someone (sp) to the point where you imagine yourself with them in a mmmmm special way. But really, people shouldn't do that."
"You know I ask women what they think is the worst pickup line they have ever heard. Well, this woman told me what happened to her once .. this guy walked up to her in a bar, looked her right in the eye
and said "imagine me going down on you just the way you like it all night long and you were getting so hot and so wet that you were begging to have me inside you". Did that jerk really expect her to have those thoughts ... with me I would never say such a thing."
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