Feeling Drawn patterns
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Pattern I. Ross Jeffries:
"Isn't it interesting how everyone is so different yet in so many ways we are all the same.
I mean for example, I don't know what it is you do, when you decide for yourself that you really want to be with someone, and you know it's what you want, cause you find yourself imagining it ... you picture it in your mine and you look forward to it for all the right reasons. Reasons that are right to you because you know its what you want, but I think you know a person can find that when that's what's taking place, wow, what a difference in the way they think and just how readily you then begin to make time for this special person you are now connecting so strongly with.
Its a totally different experience, its like you feel almost magnetically drawn to this person, you know what I mean? And sometimes I think a person wouldn't even know that that's what's taking place until afterwards. And you look back on it as one of those amazing memories you treasure/cherish for the rest of your life ... now ... with me as I think long and hard about it I think that's the process of discovering that a person is being drawn to another person."
Pattern II. Ross Jeffries:
"You know, how you can have thoughts that cause you to feel fascination. Like, I was thinking about how, for many people falling in love can sometimes take months. But have you ever thought about what it would be like for you to fall in love instantaneously where you feel like you were talking to your soulmate (point).
I mean, imagine there being someone who was selected for you, picked out long before you were born. I mean if you were to feel that way, now.. I think you may be surprised to find yourself beginning to almost feel magically enchanted; and you might find yourself wanting to be with this person in a very special way.
Because, when a person feels they have met their soulmate, like when you imagine this person being your dream lover (sp), I think you would feel a mysterious yet powerful loving connection taking place between you and him that when . . that's really happening . . with me in my way of thinking what is happening is . . you go inside yourself (down into your subconscious) and you find all those values that are most important to you in a relationship and you think about the qualities in a personality you want your ideal lover to have (sp), and then find those and link them up with the person you're talking to (sp), in such a way that a picture of him (frame), for whatever mysterious reason gets locked permanently in that special place in your mind where you deeply love and care for someone (sp), to the point where as that picture gets bigger and brighter and the sounds inside you mmmmm intensify, you might find yourself thinking of other things, where all your resistance is falling away and you just can't control yourself and you just want to go wild with it.
Isn't that truly the mystery of falling in love that we all dream of?"
Pattern III. An example of simple attraction pattern combined with a kino approach/close. Best used after having established rapport, having created states of pleasure and having made her already interested. Daniel, ASF:
"You know... sometimes... when I meet someone I get this feeling inside (PTS)... I don't know what it is... but I know it feels good (PTS)... and I can't help but want to get close to that person and get to know her... (point to her)... do you ever get that feeling when you meet a guy (PTS)?
(Let her say stuff... if its positive move on, if negative do some more rapport building...)
Passion and desire (touch her neck)... the feeling that you cant hold back... you want to touch the person (PTS or if u feel brave take her hand and make it touch your chest)... the desire builds and builds (touch her arm)... your mind goes numb because the feeling is so pleasurable... (touch her arm)... your legs get shaky (touch her hips) and your tummy feels weird (touch her stomach)"
(Note: she should be fucking dripping... and if she ain't you shouldn't have launched these without establishing anchors and rapport. If she's ok, smile and look in her eyes and DON'T say a fucking thing for 3 seconds)
Passion and desire.. (touch neck and pull her a little closer)
(KINO TIME, kiss etc. BTW its more effective if you are both sitting down...)"
Pattern IV. Ask the girl what does it feel like to be attracted to somebody - by feeding her with the answers yourself to make her feel exactly that, while you have already linked those feelings to "being attracted to someone". Devious:) Daniel J. Mocsny, ASF:
""When you find a man attractive, where do you feel it first? Do you feel butterflies in your stomach? Does your face start to tingle? Does your throat tighten up a little and make it hard for you to speak? When you realize that you find a man attractive, how do you behave around him to let him know you are interested before he has let you know he's interested?"
You can learn a lot from observing how she reacts to these kinds of
questions, in addition to whatever she says. For example, if these
questions make her obviously uncomfortable in an unpleasant kind of
way, you should go talk to another woman. On the other hand, if she
launches enthusiastically into a wide-eyed description of how she
feels and acts, and she begins fixing her attention on you and smiling,
then you are successfully flirting with her.
If you can get a woman to talk about the process by which she feels
attraction and expresses it, that gives her an opportunity to
move her mind into that state."
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