Judge her by her actions, not her words
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It happens ever too often. You're with a girl and she SAYS she's gonna have to go home. Once you reach her house, she doesn't seem to have the slightest of intention of leaving you. In silent agreement you move on to "take a loot at" your house:) Or she SAYS she doesn't sleep with a guy on the first night, or she SAYS it is too soon etc etc. Now these were all positive examples of what she SAYS is necessarily not what she wants or eventually DOES:) But nothing to complain about, right?:)
Wrong. Because the opposite is quite common as well - although she promises this and that, makes excuses, is sorry ("Oh, I'll call you", "Oh, I was soo busy, I just didn't have any time!", "I lost your number, what was it?", "We'll do it next Tuesday, I promise!" etc) but NEVER delivers - which can leave an AFC hanging on and hoping 'til retirement and then some.
In the words of Ross Jeffries: "WATCH WHAT YOUR PROSPECTS DO AND NOT WHAT THEY SAY!! Especially with women who are excellent excuse makers and bamboozlers. The ONLY real key to a prospect being qualified is THE ACTION SHE TAKES! ALWAYS LOOK FIRST AND FOREMOST AT HOW A WOMAN IS TREATING YOU AND IF YOU ARE BEING TREATED WITH PRIORITY AND RESPECT. ONLY THEN LOOK AT THE CHARACTERISTICS AND QUALITIES YOU LIKE IN THAT WOMAN!
One of the primary differences between "jerks" and "nice guys" is what they focus on. The jerk is first and foremost focused on how he is being treated and each move he makes is put through the test: "will this increase or decrease the priority she gives me?". If the answer is decrease... THE JERK DOESN'T DO IT!!! Nice guys (chronic masturbators) by way of contrast, focus on the characteristics they like in the girl. They ignore or overlook rude behaviour from her. They act to show their appreciation and interest in her rather than to get respect which is why, like Rodney Dangerfield... THEY DON'T GET ANY!!!"
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