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&#62;So, you're an 'edge junkie', huh?

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<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;So, you're an 'edge junkie', huh?</em></span>

Yes, I derive my greatest pleasure from the chase and eventual capture of men I
&quot;can't have&quot; for one reason or another.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;  But first, you have to GO FIRST. What are your end values? &quot;I seduce my</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;doctor to get <u>            </u>&quot;</em></span>

I can only say I want to sleep with him...this is the ONLY man I've ever known
who I can simply <b>think</b> about and come...don't even have to touch myself.  So
I feel that fucking him would be the ultimate sexual outlet.  I have expressed
this to him.  He seemed uncomfortable when I did and stammered that he was
&quot;flattered.&quot;  (We are both married--I wasn't talking about love or
relationships.)  In my next encounter with him he was sure of himself--said his
oath and ethics preclude him from even considering me that way.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;office, which he will refuse. The</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;doctor/patient relationship is no small obstacle to overcome.</em></span>

For sure.  This was his rebuttal upon my initial inquiry.  Do you have any
advice on how to overcome this, all things being said?
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; his character will be the obstacle to the very thing you</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;want.</em></span>

Very well said and probably very true in this situation.  It's about <b>him</b> and
his mind and my need to <b>have</b> that. Certainly not just a physical attraction
on my part.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;  While suggesting you go out and snag a few other guys instead will</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;probably not appeal to you,</em></span>

Working on those &quot;consolation prizes&quot; already but Doc remains my one sexual
fixation for now.  

Thanks, Vince
Melissa

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<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Why do you think surgeons and lawyers are usually reserved for</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;attractive women?</em></span>

I thought everyone knew this.  Doctors and lawyers, so-called &quot;professionals&quot;
are the types of men who can have whomever they want.  On a larger scale, look
at Hollywood. How many times do we see an ugly, rich man with a gorgeous young
woman?  Skanky rock stars with supermodels?  It's the same type of thing on a
smaller scale.  Women, typically, would sacrifice their souls for the love of a
doctor.  I think I speak on behalf of many, considering my social life thus
far.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;If it's that type of male you specifically go after, what is it about a</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;surgeon or lawyer that attracts you so much?</em></span>

I love a brilliant mind.  Even unattractive physically, a man who is ambitious
and smart is a total turnon.  Personality, too.  Knowing I can land a man who
no doubt has his &quot;pick of the litter&quot; makes me feel powerful and sexy.

Thanks for your tips, but I'm happily married.  My husband is the best and
allows me to explore my sexuality--my wants and desires--in an open and honest
relationship.  So finding a man isn't an issue with me--seducing one is. 
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From: mrsex4unyc@aol.comedr4d (MrSex4uNYC)
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<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I am a bit curious as to more the dynamics that are going</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;on inside a chick's head in such situations, which is why I brought</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;it up..</em></span>

that's the point of THIS WHOLE SHIT maniac.

there ARE NO DYNAMICS to a woman's head.

a woman follows her emotions.

you CREATE her emotions and she will naturally DESIRE to act on them (or 
haveYOU act on her)

you can not THINK that their minds work analytically like ours do.  it's 
a TOTALLY different process.

she stands in front of the tv when the football game is on.  we think 
&quot;THIS BITCH HAS <b>GOT</b> TO GET OUT FROM IN FRONT OF THE TV!&quot;

you don't bring her flowers.  she doesn't think &quot;this guy needs to go 
out and get me some flowers&quot; she thinks &quot;HE DOSEN'T LOVE ME ANY MORE... 
IS IT MY WEIGHT?... IS HE CHEATING...&quot;

see?  it doesn't make any sense because SHE gets an EMOTION from actions 
and words, then she acts on that, whereas WE act on the facts of the 
situation.

that's why she can't tell you about processes.  some things you did made 
her naturally feel like being kissed then feel like being felt up then 
feel like being fucked.  she never LOGICALLY assumed that you were going 
to do it, but when you did it, she liked it and was confortable enough 
with you NOT to stop you.


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<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;&gt; when I feel like feeling you up... you get felt up</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt; when I feel like kissing you, you kiss me back</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt; when I want head you suck my dick... venus, does that make sense to</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;you?</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Do you give this to the chick in these words?</em></span>

HAHAHAHA nope!  :)

too mechanical.  too many FACTS... chicks can't process facts... they 
need emotions...

what you do is QUOTE them stories about girls that denied you and got 
canned immediately... mid-date or whatever... they get the picture so that when 
it's time for some action, they know to start packing their fucking bags if 
they don't get with you... they KNOW there is no way that you are going to 
waste any more time with them instead of being with a sexy chick...

I must say though I am mulling over outfoxer's comments and intend on 
replying to them when I get a clear fix on what I think.  his stance totally 
contradicts mine on this issue and I can't see right now which one is the best for 
me.

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On Wed, 15 Dec 1999 02:34:25 -0700, Jake Thomson
&lt;jakethomson@pop.dnvr.uswest.net&gt; wrote:

. A woman would be happy being friends
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;with a mannequin if it had an engaging personality and met</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her emotional needs. And then, if and only if, they like the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;personality, they might switch that object into a sexual</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;being and perceive it as he truly is.</em></span>


Yes, its scary to percieve men as sexual beings unless thtere's no
connection. This explains why assholes get women easily....its not
threatening.
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Most heterosexual men can't or won't do that. We perceive</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;women as sexual beings first and may or may not get around</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;to noticing and engaging their personality. </em></span>


It is incredible to me that its taken me so long to truly realize
this.

We get our
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;primary emotional payoff from sex and a secondary payoff</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;from companionship. We need sex to validate us and allow us</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;to experience loving feelings. Women are wired in the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;opposite fashion. They need loving feelings to validate them</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;and allow them to experience sex.</em></span>


Well, we are paranoid in general about sex because many many men trash
and dehamanize women who have sex with the,. if you guys really enjoy
sex try being cool to the women who sex you.


 Neither way, by itself is
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;good, and both can be degrading, exploitative and</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;dehumanizing. </em></span>


....another thing I never realized....WOW!
I never thought a guy could consider himself &quot;used&quot; in this way and I
had no idea it was so degrading. I don't think most women realize
this, and its a good thing because we'd never talk to any of you
anymore!
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;IMO, the reason the guys turn off and give you the cold</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;shoulder is because you're negating their humanity. They</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;eventually realize that they're just objects with a</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;personality to be exploited for entertainment purposes, and</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;they, rightfully, get a bit miffed about it.</em></span>


If a woman is faithful to one man is she negating the humanity of all
other men she meets thereafter? I don't think so.
Anyway, the attitude above describes the way women feel about sex.

 They're putting
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;out and meeting your emotional needs without getting the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;emotional payoff that's meaningful to them.  Let me ask you</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Kate, how long and how hard would you work for somebody who</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;refused to pay you for your time and effort in a currency</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;that had meaning to you?</em></span>

Not long. The thing is, there needs to be some middle ground.
You guys have to understand that sex WREAKS HAVOC on a woman's brain
and body. I don't think its the same high calibur experience for men
and they can forget more easily. Asking a woman to take significant
emotional risks just to have sex with you first off is alot more than
you may realize.

Kate





From: &quot;Vincent Runza&quot; &lt;blubobbi@ulster.net&gt;
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Dear Alex,
I'm glad I un-killfiled Kate - check this out:

&quot;You guys have to understand that sex WREAKS HAVOC on a woman's brain
and body. I don't think its the same high calibur experience for men
and they can forget more easily. Asking a woman to take significant
emotional risks just to have sex with you first off is alot more than
you may realize.

Kate&quot;

And:

&quot;You guys talk about chick logic all the time. Its really all about
women's total denial that they are going to be involved in a sexual
situation at all. Basically, if a woman faces up to the physical
mental and social implications of having sex she'll end up hiding in
her room for 30 years, so she denies it and then &quot;it just kind of
happenned&quot;.
Now, i for one, never took this approach, but for vigilance I paid in
paranoia. its just not as easy for women. Its never &quot;just sex&quot;.&quot;

Got it?
Regards,
Vince
<span style="color:#397"><em>


&gt; For some reason I was thinking a woman in her 30s wouldn't</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; be afraid to let herself take the responsibility for having</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; sex, but I guess they're not all like that, especially when</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; it comes to first-night sex.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Alex</em></span></pre>]]></content:encoded>
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On 10 Feb 2000 16:18:04 GMT googamooga@aol.com (Googamooga) wrote:
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Hey guys I am new to the dance club scenes and seduction.  What could I say or</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; do to approach women, to dance with them and then take them home?  I have seen</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; men who just approach women who are dancing with a friend or alone, and just</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; dance without asking for any permission from the girl.  Now when I try it all I</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; ever get is a dirty look, what am I doing wrong?  Any dance club advice would</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; be helpful.</em></span>

Often they know the guy already but this should give you a clue as to
what to do.

Approach a woman in ANY situation and act as if she is already your
girlfriend.  That she is very familiar with you and you are over the
shyness and uncertainty of how to act.

What I mean is.  When your girlfriend is out on the floor dancing with
some gals and you want to dance with her, you go right up to her and do
the deal... right?   Do not behave any differantly with woman you don't
know.  Approach woman AS IF they are already are your girlfriend.  If
you dont have this confidence - you CANT do the approach - it will
bomb.  If you do have this mind set, it doesnt matter what the
situation is or who the woman is,  you will be successful in the
initial approach.

The reason for this is due to anchors set by previous boyfriends.  At
some time or another they have had pleasurable experiances with men who
were relaxed being around them.  Men who were thier boyfriends and
ACTED as such.  When you do an approach with the mind set you are
already her boyfriend you will act in the way she is most accustomed to
and wont think your strange.

SO what I'm saying is:  Get in there and have fun!!!  Not just fun. 
ALOT of fun!!!!!!  That's all there really is to it.

greg1
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; </em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; thanks in advance</em></span>


Did you sleep with yourself or... did you turn yourself down because
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Subject: Being obvious you are open to (but not necc. want) sex!
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Subject: Being obvious you are open to (but not necc. want) sex!
Date: Sat, 30 Dec 2000 17:03:52 GMT

Being obvious you are open to (but not necc. want) sex!
001206

Sometimes chicks also are interested in easy sex. (yes, we
already know that). Here is an example though. .

I was debriefing karatebabe, and asking her why she decided
to have sex with me that time she came over to my place.

She said that I had made it obvious that I was looking for
sex, and she hadnt had sex for a long while. She didn't want
all the bullshit that comes before a guy having sex (dates
and shit), because to her (get this!) she says that if a
guy doesn't make it obvious he wants to fuck her, then she
thinks he isnt interested in sex at all (in other words,
chick logic, she is thinking that guys think the same way
girls do, which of course we know is not true!).

This is probably crucial in bar PUs.. (which I am
currently working on, and making a framework for)
make it look like you are offering sex, but not necc.
just want that only (or if you do, already qualify
that that is only what the girl wants (sex w/o dating bullshit
first). .ie, it is a favor for the RIGHT girl, if she measures
up.

And that is today's wisdom from karatebabe!

Constructive comments/opinions welcome!

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From: mrsex4unyc@aol.comedr4d (MrSex4uNYC)
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Date: 02 Jan 2001 18:58:05 GMT
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In article &lt;92jvre$obh$1@nnrp1.deja.com&gt;, maniac_high@yahoo.com writes:
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;The immediate gold to take care of this, is to now make the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;relationship very high stakes for her. I can do this because</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I know that she is into me (from what she said at the dinner),</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;so the idea is to play it that if she doesnt do her job as a</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;chick.. she will lose EVERYTHING as far as I am concern.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Ok, that is the plan, here we go:</em></span>

plan or no plan, essentially, you are telling her the truth.  on a long-enough
timeline, the survival rate for EVERYONE is ZERO.  sooner or later, everyone
you love will either leave you or die.  chicks don't seem to believe in this,
though it is the absolute truth.  they think that they can relate to you
FOREVER, REGARDLESS of what they do or how they act.  you are telling her HOW
she can REMAIN with you and what is going to get her EJECTED.  even though it
takes a long time, so it doesn't SEEM like this... this is what has happened to
EVERY chick's relationship that has gone away.  EVENTUALLY, she was not
fulfilling her womanly duties and her man left her for a <u>  </u>chick (younger,
sexier, richer, swallower...)  EVEN if she IS fulfilling her duties, if her man
like it from another chick MORE, she loses out either in a PERCENTAGE of her
benefits or she gets DUMPED and loses ALL of her benefits.  you are merely
explaining this to her and telling her what she needs to do IF she wants to be
with you... which you have already determined.  you are SELLING, and now you
are screening her to see if she is QUALIFIED and ABLE to buy.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I tell her the rocks/gold story (I love this story, it is</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;excellent for dealing with chick bullshit) and my expectations</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;in relationship. </em></span>

I am getting to the point where I am going to do this.  I never do this with
chicks because I morph into whatever THEY are looking for and hook them that
way.  the thing for me is that being 10 months in with MLTR, she has REALLY
learned how to please me and the time I spend TEACHING her has become minimal
and the time I spend ENJOYING her is increasing :)  it is getting tougher and
tougher for other chicks to get my attention, because anything LESS than what I
have already is BULLSHIT to me.  the time I am spending talking to chicks is
mostly eliciting values and breaking their perceptions... just for fun :)  I
know IMMEDIATELY if I want sex from a chick, and if I don't, she is IMMEDIATELY
LJBF and I use her for practice and NEXT her at the end of the conversation.

I am seriously going to consider moving to a &quot;demonstration of value -&gt; SOI&quot;
model, just because I have lost my patience with LISTENING to these bitches
talking about shit that really doesn't mean anything.  I know I am going to
NEXT them ANYWAY as soon as I realize they can't compete with MLTR, so why
listen to their shit FIRST?  I may as well let them know how great <b>I</b> am and
let them know what kind of woman I am willing to accept, and let them continue
from there.  there is also the cognitive dissonance issue of them KNOWING that
I am going to dump them if they are not sexy and CONTINUING to talk to me and
get to know me.  the more they talk to me, the more I hook them into
interacting with me.  the more they get hooked, the greater the PAIN OF
SEPERATION (credit: RJ) when they eventually get EJECTED.  since they KNOW
ahead of time what will get them ejected and they are still talking, they are
either planning to get in line OR setting themselves up for pain.  either way,
after SOI and their acceptance of the terms, there will have to be some sort of
TEST of their compliance.  even listening to what they have to say after SOI
counts as a REWARD for their entering into a &quot;relationship&quot; with me.  hmm... I
will consider this more.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I go on to tell her that other girls I know also</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;like me, ask me out alot, (doesn't matter if it is true or not,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;but chick 'competition logic' will kick in, and it will scare</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;your mark to act). </em></span>

the reason I don't use this is that MLTR is an integral part of my life.  if I
were to play this &quot;chicks dig me&quot; card, it would belittle the actual
relationship I have with MLTR.  the only problem with THAT is that I am
screening for MORE MLTRs :)  I don't give a fuck about ONS because I can get
laid ANY NIGHT within an hour of talking to the chick I am talking to... in the
WAY I want to with a chick that I WANT TO FUCK :)  a chick offering me ONS is
like a chick offering me a dollar bill.  I already HAVE dollar bills... what do
I want hers for?  of course, there are some chicks that are just so HOT that
you want to try them out, but barring that scenario, ONS can bring you much
more ANGUISH than the satisfaction that accompanies it... PLUS it is the SAME
SATISFACTION that I already get on a regular basis from MLTR. 

besides... it is OBVIOUS that chicks dig me because here SHE is, liking me
within 20 minutes of meeting me... what about the chicks that have experienced
me for days?  months?  years?  OH, she could only HOPE to be one of those! :)

for you, it is a good tactic though.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Now she starts crying, and saying that was the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;problem with her ex-BF, that chicks always chased him (he dumped</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her last week, apparently).</em></span>

I lost a rap to a low-self-esteem bitch that had a couple of relationships like
this as well.  I mean, I fucked her, but I didn't get to MLTR like I wanted
because she was SCARED that she wouldn't match up to the next bitch and that I
would NEXT her for no reason, like her exes did.  I tried to tell her I wanted
her for more than that, but she wasn't emotionally healthy enough to understand
or believe me.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Ok, now Maniac has reached her head, and I take this deeper..</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I go on to tell her that I dont want just sex, I want rocks and gold</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I can get any girl in roppongi on a Saturday night and fuck her</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;(not exactly true, but she doesnt know this.. goal is just to</em></span>

she KNOWS that it happened to her VERY QUICKLY.  she ASSUMES she was not the
ONLY bitch to fall for you that quickly.  it is like reverse-social-proof. 
fucking a bitch FAST makes them think you can fuck other bitches FAST.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;'confirm' her worst fears so that she acts), but its not enough for</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;me. I want connection, good sex, and romance, with an intelligent</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;woman, and that is why I want to date you (psychicbabe).</em></span>

nice line.  this is another thing I will consider.  talking-up MLTR to them.  
I never considered this either, MAINLY because if you tell a chick what you
want her to do then you never know if she is manipulating you by being that
way, or if she arrived there NATURALLY... on her own.  interesting, LOTS of
style-change material happening right around the new year :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Then all of the sudden, she asks me about HBass (the chick staying</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;at my place over the holidays), and freaks out about it. I tell</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her that she already knows all this, and exactly what is her point</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;here?</em></span>

although I am a GREAT fan of &quot;quoting&quot;, I find that there need to be times to
engage in it and times to NOT engage in it.  this will depend on what you want
with the chick.  it is the same way you can't go from being a CHUMP to a MAN in
a chick's eyes... but you CAN go from being a MAN into a CHUMP :)  if you start
out telling a chick that you have a girlfriend AND that you fuck her, you leave
yourself open for these pot-shots whenever chicks trip the fuck out and go into
their irrational rants from out of left-field.  all a bitch needs to know is
that you are &quot;taken&quot; so that you manage her relationship expectations.  any
more information and she feels like you will give her ALL the information. 
where does it stop?  are you going to tell her that you are fucking her?  that
you fucked her last night?  that you fucked her an hour before coming on this
date?  that you fucked YOUR WOMAN in her ass?  that she LIKES sucking dick? 
WHERE DOES IT STOP?

I ran into this problem with a chick where my relationship to her was BASED ON
trading current sex-stories.  when I got to the point where I didn't want to
tell her any more shit, she was EXPECTING me to tell her, and I realized that
if I wasn't telling her, and she wasn't telling me, then our &quot;relationship&quot; was
OVER.  before that, I had not realized how much I had compromised my position
by telling her CURRENT sex-shit.  think about it, and decide on your own LIMITS
to what you are willing to tell a chick about other chicks... besides, think
about the fact that she is going to KNOW that she will end up as STORIES to
other bitches right after you fuck her.  it will make her VERY self-conscious
about whatever she does with you and that <b>could</b> hinder her emotional states
tremendously.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Then she stops again, and asks me if I am fucking her (maybe I</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;should have said no..., but I had already said yes to her about this</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;the first time I saw her)., she asks me why.. (I tell her because</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I am seeing her! like I told you the first time! I mean what do</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;you expect?!?).</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;She then puts on her bitch face, and talks in a stern voice,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&quot;then call me when you break her up, that is my decision, I am</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;going home.&quot;.</em></span>

THIS is retarded because she ALREADY knew that you were fucking her AND she
fucked you herself.  this is another problem with bitches having information
about other bitches.  they use it against themselves.  IMO, the purpose of her
knowing you have another girl or SEVERAL other girls is so she knows where she
stands in the RACE to be your MAIN BITCH.  if you are single, she has a good
chance at being that to you.  if you are &quot;taken&quot; she has NO CHANCE of being
that to you.  if you are SEEING bitches, then she has to COMPETE to be your #1.
 other than THAT, I think giving information about your other bitches is a
mistake...  I have made the SAME mistake up to this point, so I am not
crisicizing :)  however, I am changing that ASAP and I think you should
consider giving out information on a N2K basis (need to know).

besides, SHE is the one that NEEDS a fuck.  if it is not coming from YOU, a guy
she has fucked ALREADY and she LIKES how you did it or she wouldn't have come
back... she has to get it from a STRANGER whose sexual skills are in question
that might tie her up, fuck her in the ass or sell her to the highest bidder. 
bitches like to FRONT a lot about having ALL these sexual choices, but with all
the 8s, 9s, and 10s <b>I</b> have spoken to on an honest &quot;one of the chicks&quot; level,
they are ALL looking to have an EXCITING time, but not REALLY be in DANGER! 
you, OTOH have pussy AT HOME IN BED WAITING FOR YOU!  the only one to lose out
if she bails... is HER!  knowing that, I would have not even entertained her
bullshit OR called her on it, letting her know that I was getting laid tonight
REGARDLESS of whether SHE fucks or not.  that would take the fucking WIND out
of her sails :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I tell her I am planning to break her up (which is true) later, so</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;it is nothing you should worry about. </em></span>

this, my friend :)  is a COP-OUT!  it is used VERY EFFECTIVELY by married men
to keep fucking their side-bitches, but WE are way above bullshit tactics like
this.  I commend you for thinking of this &quot;on the fly&quot;, but PLEASE, PLEASE! 
hehe  I have MUCH more respect for you as a PUA than to hear some CRAP like
this from you :)  PLEASE think of something better for the next instance of a
chick trying to BLACKMAIL you into trading in a R-E-L-A-T-I-O-N-S-H-I-P where
you are getting EVERYTHING you want from a chick... for a ONS with HER! 
HAHAHAHAHAHA  &gt;:)

I haven't run into a chick STUPID enough to try to disrespect my MLTR for being
with me... chicks have STARTED to say she is dumb for &quot;letting&quot; (as if she has
ANY say in the matter) her man fuck other chicks, and I have BROKEN THEIR
FUCKING ASSES listing the benefits that SHE is getting that they will most
likely NEVER have with a man... EVER!  and CERTAINLY don't have right now, or
they would not be talking to me in a bar... they would be with THEIR OWN MAN
conducting this FANTASY RELATIONSHIP that they are professing that my MLTR
should have :)  I have NEVER run into a chick that has even TRIED to break into
my relationship with MLTR because they KNOW I mean business.  all they can do
is become ANOTHER MLTR... and after they hear the QUALIFICATIONS, they KNOW
they can't even achieve THAT... only ONS and LJBF with me.  if some bitch EVER
suggested that I break up with MLTR in order to ONS her, I would  A) laugh in
her face and  B) immediately demand an EXPLANATION of the reasons why she
thinks she can knock MLTR out of the box AND make her perform ANY AND ALL
SKILLS that she CLAIMS to be better than MLTR at IMMEDIATELY!  put up or SHUT
THE FUCK UP!  the result would be the ONS ANYWAY, and she would still be LJBF
or NEXT because MLTR is NOT about sex... it is about compatability and I
PERSONALLY could not be with some bitch that needs to knock other chicks off in
order to gain status.  I gain status by BEING MYSELF and letting bitches make
INTELLIGENT, EDUCATED decisions to be with me.  any chick that wants to be with
me had better do the same.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;she gets upset, and starts</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;screaming &amp; crying while running down the street, saying how I am</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;just like her ex-bf, getting other girls while dating her, and how</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;all guys just want sex..etc..</em></span>

I would have told her &quot;you wanna calm the fuck down?&quot;  throwing tantrums and
making scenes are expressions of her ability to do ANYTHING in your presence. 
I personally don't tolerate that.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Then she says.. ok, if you let me meet your GF at your house</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;tonight, then I will let you have sex with me. [ha! I got her!]</em></span>

ok.  thank God I happened to read the next line before I started typing this. 
I was JUST going to ask you WHY you are STILL letting her blackmail you into
fucking her... ESPECIALLY when she is the one that needs it and you don't :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I bounce back, and say, &quot;what exactly makes you think I am</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;desperate to have sex with you tonight?! Do you think I am</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;just some stupid guy and you can manipulate me like that?</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;No, you will not meet my GF, it is disrespectful to her to do</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;that. You know the situation, it was clear to you from the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;beginning, and you accepted it. There is no more to talk about.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I am not here only for sex, I can get that anywhere. Sex only</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;of itself is of little value to me, I want more than that.</em></span>

SWEET!  :)  break her fucking ASS maniac :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I then bring out the nuclear weapons! My tonality is very firm,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;and I eye fuck her, while telling her the following. First, I tell</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her that I already told her about my GF, she was clear about it</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;right from the start, and she has NO excuse. Then I go on to tell</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her that her BF got a new chick after he got her, but in my case</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;that did NOT happen. So do NOT compare me to your ex. I am a</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;different person, and EXCEPT better treatment than that if you</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;ever want to see me again. She starts crying more, and hugging</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;again.</em></span>

ugh :/   fucking IDIOTS!   man, the shit some bitches put you through!  does
everyone SEE why we have to study this shit?
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I put her against wall, and tell her not to complain about me like</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I am her ex, I a am different person than he is.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I tell her that she wants everything to be a 'perfect' situation</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;with a guy before she makes a move. She wants him to be ideal</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;with women, skillful, handsome and know how to treat a lady..</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;and still be single!! I go on to tell her that that is TOTALLY</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;unrealistic! And THAT is why she loses! and she always ends up</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;alone!</em></span>

this is a good point.  I like to play it the other way:

ok... so now, you have told me that you want everything to be a 'perfect'
situation with a guy before making a move.  You want him to be ideal with
women, skillful, handsome and know how to treat a lady... WHAT MAKES YOU THINK
HE WILL WANT YOU?   WHAT ARE YOU BRINGING TO THE TABLE THAT IS GOING TO MAKE A
MAN LIKE THAT CHOOSE <b>YOU</b> OVER ANY OTHER CHICK?

you wanna see some confusion?  you wanna see a bitch get BROKEN?  HAHAHAHA  &gt;:)
 of course, I use this on chicks that I am just practicing on, because it
normally induces DEPRESSION, not horniness.  when they have to GO DEEP INSIDE
and dive BELOW THE SURFACE of their programming, they realize that they CAN NOT
TELL ME WHY A MAN WOULD WANT THEM!  they stall the fuck out dude :)  it's
amazing.  matter of fact, it's documented already.  look at my recent thread
with &quot;telembe&quot;.  I let her say all this bullshit about what she wanted from a
guy in order to give up her virginity, then when she was finished talking about
what she WANTED, I asked her what she was OFFERING to a guy that was going to
give her all this committment and &quot;love&quot; and other bullshit and she said a
whole bunch of shit that ANY bitch can and WILL give to a man she likes.  she
might have THOUGHT she had something to offer a guy that was going to seperate
her from the pack, but she doesn't.  even GOOD PUSSY can't get a bitch any
credit because there are LOTS of bitches that can fuck and suck like pros...
elites AND sub-elites.  telembe NEVER told us what seperates her from the rest
of the bitches that might make a MAN like the one she wants even LOOK HER WAY! 
the reason is that there is NO reason! :)  bitches are programmed that MEN want
them... but they are NEVER told WHY.  the reason is that men like to FUCK and
get their dicks sucked.  they also like companionship and cooking and cleaning
and for a girl to look good on their arm so they can feel accomplished around
their buddies.  chicks THINK they are ENTITLED to a good man... but the GOOD
MEN... are picking GOOD WOMEN!  if they were SHINING like they think they are,
they would have been scooped up already and married or whatever they were
looking for because some guy would have spotted her and said &quot;I'm not going to
let her go for ANYTHING&quot; and she would be happy... at least according to her
programming.  OH, how I LOVE to see a bitch's face while she TRIES AND TRIES to
dig up ANY reason why a guy as great as the one she claims to want would EVER
choose her over any other bitch :)  the JOY the JOY that I feel as this POMPOUS
BITCH breaks the fuck down RIGHT IN FRONT OF MY FACE! :)  of course since <b>I</b>
broke her, I keep talking to her and ease her back to a decent state of being
and let her know that she can take steps to make herself into the woman that a
man would want, but she has to really KNOW HERSELF and KNOW MEN in order to
make an intelligent decision.  I am not into depressing chicks... unless they
TRULY DESERVE IT for all the depression they have caused men throughout their
tenure as FINE bitches :)  also, I have no desire to BREAK bitches and leave
them like that.  that just makes it WORSE for ALL OF US looking for FINE, yet
DECENT chicks.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;she cries, and says that is so true, that is her problem, she never</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;takes the chance and loses out because she doesn't make the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;move on taken guys. Then I run my 'take chances routine' (if you take</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;a chance, in the end, the result is usually good, but if you don't,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;just you get left behind, by yourself).. </em></span>

nice.  I like that one... emphasizing loss and loneliness.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;she cries more, says she</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;needs to take the chance, and doesnt want to be alone.</em></span>

she's done :)  nice work.  land her!
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;She says she has to be careful, that all guys want just sex, and</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;bitches about this for about 30 seconds.</em></span>

as opposed to what?  what does she WANT guys to want?
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Now I start the 'you need me, I dont need you..you think I just want</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;only sex, then you dont understand me at all.. if you think that is</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;what I am only, then you do NOT deserve me.. I do no need you to go out</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;with me if that is what you think I am.. I want connection, sex,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;passion, and closeness.. and if you haven't figured that out about</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;me yet, then get another guy, because you dont understand me at all..</em></span>

OK OK OK... you've CONVINCED me maniac :)  that's some good shit right there :)
 starting NOW, I am pitching for MLTR ONLY.  bitches that want ONS or LJBF will
get what they deserve from me... which isn't much.  I LOVE this idea of dissing
her for claiming that you are looking for ONS... or even just a &quot;bootie-call&quot;
type relationship :)  I love it.  I would feel so PROUD getting on her like
this.  sweet!  EXTREMELY congruent!  nice play!  this is going into my style,
starting RIGHT NOW!  :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I am doing this, because I know the left (logic) and right (emotions,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;passion) are fighting each other..they have been all night. Because the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;left doesn't accept the logic of the situation, but I know the right side</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;dying for a shag,..she is trying to rationaize going out with a taken guy,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;but I have gotten her so excited tonight, that she needs that fuck.</em></span>

THIS is the reason I never learned any of this shit until recently.  my
caveman-kino style before this involved ZERO talking.  totally kino and kissing
and PHYSICAL seduction with domineering EYE-CONTACT.  there was NO INFORMATION
for the left side to process at all.  EVERYTHING went STRAIGHT to the chick's
right side, and her left had to try to process the EMOTIONS and turn them into
a story that she could understand... in the meantime, she is PHYSICALLY falling
for the kino and wanting MORE AND MORE until we are fucking.  I never HAD to
talk to chicks before OR after fucking them because my PHYSICAL ATTACK is so
DEVASTATING!  I would just take them over PHYSICALLY and their right brains
would do ALL the work and the left would struggle to understand, but eventually
succumb to the onslaught!  ARG ARG! :)

thanks for explaining that to me :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;As I touch her side of face, she goes doggy look, I kiss her, and she</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;gets like screambabe, panting. I put leg between her, she widens, goes nuts</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;totally. I ask her she likes me (in a tell her sort of way' you like me..'),</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;she replies 'yes'. I say (stare her down) .. she asks &quot;what should I do?&quot;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I say in a very strn fatherly voice while staring her down 4 inches from</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her head.. you will follow me..that is what you will do.. and you will do</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;what I say. 'she says, 'I will'. I tongue her down more, run her crotch,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;she almost cums right there, then I take her to a love hotel (her first</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;time!), no resistance what so ever.</em></span>

interesting.  what just happened here?  did you somewhere dictate to her that
the terms of her being &quot;your bitch&quot; is that she has to sumbit to you fully? 
are you getting a verbal confirmation of that from her?  or is something else
going on... like she just plain UNDERSTANDS that you can move her to passions
that make her WANT to cum and that you are going to take her there and over the
edge?

another point... what do you guys think of foreplay on a chick.  he mentions
that she almost came right there... do you think it is good to get her to the
EDGE and leave her there so she is so horny, she will do ANYTHING for you to
make her cum, OR to give her an orgasm right there in her clothes to
demonstrate your sexual mastery over her?  personally, I am into the sexual
mastery thing because I notice a newfound RESPECT from a chick that has had
guys on top of her NAKED, fucking her for all they were worth and she never
came from it, and then <b>I</b> am just doing kino on her and fingering her and she
cums from just that.  do you think that making the chick cum on herself makes
her want sex MORE or want it LESS since she just got off?  take into account
that chicks are multi-orgasmic and that they feel sexier after cumming, not
DRAINED like guys.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;As I am fucking her, I am putting things in her head, like D.Shades reports.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I tell her as she is screaming it feels deeper and deeper, closer and</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;closer. She is going nuts will I am fucking her.</em></span>

I need to reasearch this.  is this more right-brain, left-brain shit where her
left-brain is shut down because of the FIREWORKS that are going off in her mind
because of the sex, leaving her wide open to suggestion?  if you have any links
for this, please post.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I stare her down, and I tell her you need me (during sex), she says yes.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;I tell her from now on you will follow me, and do what I say. She says</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;'yes, I will'. I continue doing her, she says &quot;it feels SO good, I really</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;need that, I really want it, i love you inside me!&quot;.. she is fucking like a</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;wild animal, loud voice, shouting and screaming, oh, I want it, give it</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;to me, I want to come!</em></span>

more of the same?
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Then she tells me anything is ok as long as I dont hate her..she doesnt</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;want me to hate her. She wants me to hold/hug her, she cries a bit, then is</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;ok again (seems to be thinking of her old bf she says). I touch her</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;more, face goes totally doggy look, and finger her, she goes nuts, we start</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;fucking again.</em></span>

the &quot;I don't want you to hate me&quot; thing is very important in the D/s
relationship... not that you set this up like that, but that is the MAIN
incentive for her to follow your lead... that she does NOT want you to hate her
and CERTAINLY not to banish her.  when that is TRULY first and foremost in her
brain, she will regulate HERSELF and place herself in-line with your thinking
and what YOU want her to be.  she also won't try to blackmail you anymore
because she KNOWS it gets on your nerves and all THAT will do is get her
EJECTED sooner rather than later :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Her back is on the bed, and I am fucking her missionary, her legs are</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;spread and wide in the air, which I am holding. I tell her &quot;see, I control</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;you, </em></span>

hehe ok... this is a little FAR-FETCHED for me at this point, but I have not
researched it yet :)  I DO like the next line though.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I go deep in your body because it is the one way to reach you totally</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;deep in your mind which no one else can do. </em></span>

interesting
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;By conquering your body, I can</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;conquer your mind (then I drill her a bit more after I finish the sentence so</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;she goes more crazy). I play with your body because it lets me control</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;your mind (then drill her some more..ha, it is like the ultimate form of</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;reward hypnosis).</em></span>

IS there such a thing as reward hypnosis?  links please? :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I ask her, so why you like me. She says she says, you are decisive and</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;sometimes I am indecisive, so you make it easy for me. I want the guy</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;to make it easy for me to decide what to do (important clue here Maniac!</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;maybe most chicks are like this! Maybe this too is where I fucked up</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;with HB Geek!)</em></span>

I have heard this a lot too... only thing is that there is a lot of
RESPONSIBILITY that comes with telling a chick what to do, and if the VALUE of
owning her is not sufficient for me, I don't give a fuck WHAT she does enough
to want to lead her to a good time.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Moral of the story.. keep your ground.. call all chick bullshit DIRECTLY.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Make the chick risk fear losing the relationship if she doesn't capitulate</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;and chances are she will back down, in spite of how it looks (and I could</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;do this BECAUSE I had other choices.. another reason to be fucking</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;several chicks at once). As well, it seemed that she was giving me all the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;bullshit in part because she WANTED me to call her on it, and then fuck her</em></span>
good
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;at the end of the night, which I obliged.</em></span>

chicks give you shit-tests to find out if you are stronger than them and see
HOW you are going to control them.  chicks like the way I control them because
I NARROW their choices for them, but STILL make them choose.  they can choose
the path of ULTIMATE SATISFACTION, or they can choose the path of EJECTION and
being back on the dating scene meeting the SAME LAME GUYS every night :)

you had told her you had a girlfriend, but she seems to have NEEDED to know
that she really COULDN'T have you all to herself and that you really DIDN'T
NEED to fuck her that night or EVER.  you stuck to your guns (after letting her
get to you for a while :-) and she eventually ran out of logic and got
overridden with kino and gave up the fucking pussy like she came there to do :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Constructive comments/opinions welcome!</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Maniac High</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;http://www.pickupguide.com</em></span>

EXCELLENT!  keep up the GOOD WORK dude!  :)

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From: erosla77@aol.com (ErosLA77)
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Date: 30 Dec 2000 20:12:47 GMT
Subject: Re: Re-Lay Report! Psyching out psychic babe! ..a chick bullshit special!]
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Subject: Re-Lay Report! Psyching out psychic babe! ..a chick bullshit</em></span>
special!]
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;From: maniac_high@yahoo.com</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Date: Fri, Dec 29, 2000 10:37 PM</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Message-id: &lt;92jvre$obh$1@nnrp1.deja.com&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;)this chick is a very highly educated, driven, professional</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; career woman and earns likely a big 6 figure salary</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;b)she is very mature, focused and spends all day in her office</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; surrounded by sharks and other pirrhana type scumbag characters</em></span>

 She's got to be in control ALL DAY LONG at work. Small wonder then, with a
man, she wants to fully SURRENDER control and be made to submit.  It's like all
those super-powerful Congressmen and Judges and the like who LOVE going to get
pissed-on and whipped by some Madame Dominatrix. 
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I regroup my thoughts.</em></span>

 I admire your ability to do this in the field, Maniac. As you think about it,
what do you do internally to re-set yourself and keep yourself in a good frame
of mind when all this shit throws your way?
<span style="color:#397"><em>

&gt;I tell her the rocks/gold story (I love this story, it is</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;excellent for dealing with chick bullshit) and my expectations</em></span>
 

   Metahpor is a POWERFUL tool to move folks from a fixed perception to a new
one. Please, share your story!
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; Now she starts crying, and saying that was the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;problem with her ex-BF, that chicks always chased him (he dumped</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her last week, apparently).</em></span>

Ah, she has MIXED emotions. Pain AND pleasure associated with fucking; it feels
good but could lead to emotional betrayal because of the vulnerabilities.  So
when you pull it all away, then she has the fear of loss, which overcomes the
potential fear of potential emotional hurt later on. She's worried about pain,
so you point out the pain if she DOESN'T bang you...the pain of not only losing
out on the pleasure of screwing, BUT the pain of losing you and FURTHER
believing she is doomed to lose. You just take her map and point out that if
she doesn't drive where you want her to, she's going to have an even WORSE
crack-up.

  Once she accepts this, it's a done deal.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;he gets upset, and starts</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;screaming &amp; crying while running down the street, saying how I am</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;just like her ex-bf,</em></span>

See? The fear of the pain of being hurt just like her ex-BF hurt her is now
rearing its ugly head.  She doesn't seem like a very emotionally stable person
in ANY event, let alone having just been dumped by a guy.  
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Then I go on to tell</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;her that her BF got a new chick after he got her, but in my case</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;that did NOT happen</em></span>

 Sharp thinking. Again, what do you do internally to keep your state solid and
your thinking sharp? THAT process internally is of great value, even more than
the specifics you share.  The specifics are like handing guys fish; good for a
nice meal and of value. But  how you get to the mind-set is TEACHING someone
HOW to fish so they can eat for life. 
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;I  tell her that she wants everything to be a 'perfect' situation</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;with a guy before she makes a move. She wants him to be ideal</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;with women, skillful, handsome and know how to treat a lady..</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;and still be single!! I go on to tell her that that is TOTALLY</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;unrealistic! And THAT is why she loses! and she always ends up</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;alone!</em></span>

 Powerful because it is 100% true. You have accurately described to her her
&quot;ruin&quot; so now that she accepts you as an authority on who she IS she can then
accept you as an authority on who she CAN be and WHERE she can be!  

   Excellent...Maniac, I don't give a damn WHAT my orthodox SS followers say,
this is BRILLIANT stuff and I'd be proud to be your wing or have you as mine,
ANY FUCKIN' DAY of the week! Sir, I salute you!
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Now what I am doing with all the above, is not arguing the logic (too</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;much)</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;of this, because, of course she is right, and I know this.</em></span>

 Actually, you ARE not arguing the logic, but you are USING the logic...HER
logic..HER way of viewing things.....pointing out WHY and HOW she loses and
what will happen if she doesn't stop it.   It's all centered around losing and
WHY she loses, based on what she has told you.  It IS logical, FROM her point
of view.  

 Great, Great stuff...sir, I salute you!


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From: maniac_high@yahoo.com
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Subject: Re: Re-Lay Report! Psyching out psychic babe! ..a chick bullshit special!]
Date: Sun, 31 Dec 2000 12:03:54 GMT

Replies to various people about psychicbabe:

Answers to various questions:

Was psychicbabe british, or Japanese?
She was a brit of Japanese ancestry (ie. she
looked 'j', but thought, acted and had an
english accent like a brit). This in my
opinion made it harder, because brit women
are so fucking <b>F A T</b>, and she was so
slender, sexy and attractive (and she dressed
to kill) compared to all of them. Lots of guys were
hitting on her (and she said she always got hit
on, and hated it.. trick was to not make it look
like a 'hit').

Why not a white chick? Well, I had the chance...
but.. at the conference where I met her, EVERY
brit. white chick there was in serious blimp bulge
territory.. very scary. Why is it so many caucasian
women are so FAT?

It was funny though, because something like 8 guys
(I counted) tried to hit on psychicbabe the night
I PU'd her. One guy was pretty good, the rest were
total AFC's..it was rather funny.

Re: Rocks -vs- gold.. how I use it (yes, it is
Jake's metephor. For RJ, search the original post
on fastseduction.com. It is also on pickupguide.com
someplace (if not it will be there in about 2 weeks,
I am revising the page this week). Basically, I intro
it as follows:
After chick says bullshit about wanting to go to
dinner and be friends or shit for 6 months before
becoming a GF, I say: Actually, I dont go to dinner
or stuff like that with ladies who are not my GF
CHick:  gasps!
Maniac: see, going to dinner, is an important step
in a relationship for me. I only share it with someone
special
chick: Huh?
Maniac: Well, let me put it this way, do you ever
sleep with a guy who is just your friend, or dont
care about?
chick: of course not!
Maniac: well, why do you think a guy should do any
different then?
Maniac: See, let me tell you a story. You ever hear
about 'rocks &amp; gold'?
chick: no? what is it?
Maniac: Well, Relationships are valuable things.
And each partner is looking for something. It is like
diamonds (rocks) and gold. Both are valuable.

But women prefer diamonds to gold (usually), and
men prefer gold to diamonds (usually). Of course,
both are important, especially in a long term
relationship, but if a woman could choose, she would
prefer the diamonds  first, and the man would
prefer the gold  first. right?

chick: yeah, probably

Maniac: And (generally), a man can accept gold
without the diamonds, and a woman can accept
diamonds without any gold.

So in a relationship, a woman is mining for
diamonds, while the man is mining for gold.
While they are in the mine together, the
guy gives diamonds he finds to the woman, and
the woman gives the gold she finds, to the man.

But if you give a woman gold only, or a man
diamonds only.. neither is likely to be
very happy, and the relationship will soon
fall apart. In short, an exchange of sorts
takes place in a successful relationship.

And also, if a man expects just gold (sex),
but doesnt want to give her diamonds
(relationship &amp; the mushy stuff), then she
will dump him fairly soon, because he is
playing/using her just for sex..

And if a woman expects just diamonds (walks,
attention, nice dinners, movies..etc) without
giving some gold (sex), then he (if he has any
clue about how to deal with women, though many
men do not, especially in North America) will
dump her because she is using/playing him just
for his personality.

A guy taking a chick to dinners, buying shit
and giving nice walks without sex is THE SAME
as a guy sleeping with a girl, and then kicking her
out right after the fuck is over. (chick says:
'yelch!'. Yes, thats right, and for the guy,
just dinners and buying shit is 'yelch', with
no sex, and no attention is exactly the same.

Because a woman will go to free dinner with
almost any guy, it has no value to me. But
I am like you, I want attention, and I want
to be made to feel special.

And although a girl will go to nice free dinners
with almost anyone, I also know that a girl will
not sleep with anyone. So I know if she does with me,
then it means she thinks I am important. And if
she wont, then it means she doesnt care about me
at all, so I really dont need to see her again,
I will just go find another girl.


Maybe you might think it is unusual for a guy
to think this way, but it is just my way.

See, I dont want to be played. Guys are always
getting played by girls for nice dinners, long
talks on the phone, and for their personalities.
It is the SAME as a girl being used for sex.
So I am happy to give plenty her diamonds, but at
the same time, I dont want to be played, so
I also expect her to want to give me gold.
And if she doesn't, it means she doesnt care about
me, is using me, or it means I am being played,
or I am stupid.

As well, experience has also showed me that
'friends first' almost NEVER results in a
relationship. I mean how many of your BFs were
your friend first (chick usually replies..uh,
zero).

Exactly, so that is why I never play 'friends
first'. Friends first means diamonds for the
lady, and no gold for the guy. That is like
the guy saying (ok, lets fuck for 6 months,
and if its good, we can go to dinner, and go
out, and you can be my GF). Would you like
that (chick: yelch!!).

Exactly.. so that is why it is far better,
that the lady meet me, get to know me, and
then I expect her to be smart enough to know
to take that chance THEN (or reject it, and I will
go get another lady) when it is offered to her.


So that is why I expect things that way in a
relationship with a lady.

After this, a chick is (usually) quite impressed,
or surprised and doesnt know what to say..

[When I recited this to psychicbabe, she actually told me
she was very impressed, that I understood relationships
so well ;-) ]

Had I been smart, I would have used it on HB
geek, and laid her, but after that failure I
thought about it, and then when the same situation
came up with Psychicbabe this week, I knew what
to do..



Ok, now on to other comments..

RJ writes
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Maniac writes:</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;I regroup my thoughts.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;  I admire your ability to do this in the field, Maniac. As you think</em></span>
about it,
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; what do you do internally to re-set yourself and keep yourself in a</em></span>
good frame
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; of mind when all this shit throws your way?</em></span>

A couple things.. first, this PARTICULAR chick is of no importance
to me, because I am (likely) seeing 3 others this week. So it is
not as risky to me to be firm, and keep my ground.

Another important fact, is the way chick's brains are usually
wired. For a
chick, once she likes a given guy, it is hard for her to immediately
switch to another guy. it is far MORE risky, because a chick (unlike
men), usually cannot switch to another guy, once she ALREADY
likes a given guy (story is different BEFORE you got her to
like you..then SHE has more power than you).

So I play on this, and as a result I dont feel nervous/scared at all,
because there is far more to risk to her, than to risk to me. Because
she is stuck to me, but I am not stuck to her. (this also is why
'jerks' can get away with so much shit on any given chick, and why
she will tolerate it.. because her brain has now got her focussed
on THAT guy, and it is now a choice (in her mind), between him (and
his bullshit... or being alone (sure she can get another guy in 10
minutes, but she cannot build those nice feelings of 'attachment'
in 10 minutes.. that gives us men power, once we realize this).

Two, I am generally a very balanced level
headed person, and dont take any of this personally (as you already
know, RJ). Three (in this case), I had
already laid this chick, so I didnt care really if I laid her again
or not.. I already conquered her, and she (and I) already knew that.

If it is a new chick, sometimes, I get more nervous/fucked up (see
HB Geek). I am trying to keep my senses more when this happens
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; &gt; Now she starts crying, and saying that was the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;problem with her ex-BF, that chicks always chased him (he dumped</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;her last week, apparently).</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Ah, she has MIXED emotions. Pain AND pleasure associated with</em></span>
fucking; it feels

Not sure about this, I think she just simply wanted the fuck, but
wanted to feel she was important to me, and she didnt want to just
get played..
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; good but could lead to emotional betrayal because of the</em></span>
vulnerabilities.  So
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; when you pull it all away, then she has the fear of loss, which</em></span>
overcomes the
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; potential fear of potential emotional hurt later on. She's worried</em></span>
about pain

yes, thats right.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; so you point out the pain if she DOESN'T bang you...the pain of not</em></span>
only losing
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; out on the pleasure of screwing,</em></span>

Not really. I actually made it clear to her that I didnt care if
she bang me or not. The point was that she had to give her mind
to me, and respect me, and follow me (whether that is bang me,
make her take off her clothes in the window for me, or do my
dishes..whatever.. its not the banging that is important, it is
the submission to me that counts, and what she needs to give me
if she wants my attention at all).
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; BUT the pain of losing you and FURTHER</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; believing she is doomed to lose. You just take her map and point out</em></span>
that if
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; she doesn't drive where you want her to, she's going to have an even</em></span>
WORSE
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; crack-up.</em></span>

Yes
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;   Once she accepts this, it's a done deal.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;he gets upset, and starts</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;screaming &amp; crying while running down the street, saying how I am</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;just like her ex-bf,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; See? The fear of the pain of being hurt just like her ex-BF hurt her</em></span>
is now
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; rearing its ugly head.  She doesn't seem like a very emotionally</em></span>
stable person
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; in ANY event, let alone having just been dumped by a guy.</em></span>

No, she is not stable at all. I think though, it is because she
bottles it up all day, to be the 'office bitch' that she has to
be in the daytime. This chick lives for her work. She has no other
life.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;Then I go on to tell</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;her that her BF got a new chick after he got her, but in my case</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;that did NOT happen</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;  Sharp thinking. Again, what do you do internally to keep your state</em></span>
solid and
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; your thinking sharp? THAT process internally is of great value, even</em></span>
more than
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; the specifics you share.  The specifics are like handing guys fish;</em></span>
good for a
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; nice meal and of value. But  how you get to the mind-set is TEACHING</em></span>
someone
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; HOW to fish so they can eat for life.</em></span>

Actually, the specifics are important I think. This is why lay/field
reports with details are so important. I think really shitty on my
feet. I really suck.. bad.

But if I have had that same experience before (with another chick),
or been in that same situation before, and
either succeeded (or failed, and then thought about how to handle it
right the next time), then I will handle it correctly this time.

I really believe in field experience. I have alot... really alot.
so I have seen many of these situations before. It is like chess,
or a foreign language. If you've been there before, and worked out
a solution, then you know what to do. You MUST get field experience.
It is CRUCIAL. And each time you fail, you go home, and see what
you did right/wrong, and what you would do if the same situation
happened again. This is why I also post the fuckup as well as
the lay reports.. they are very valuable to me in gathering my
thoughts and forcing me to think about what I did right/wrong,
as well as listening to the other's comments about them on this
NG.

I also look at the other's reports as well, and learn about
situations, and ask myself for each one, if it happened to me,
what would I do/how would I handle it. Eventually, after doing it
for a couple years (I have been at this in ernest for about 2
years now), you get better at it. Learning situations in PU, is
like learning the words of a foreign language, and how to connect
them all together.. how to move from a bad situation..to a good
one to get the chick in a horny state..

Also, I keep in mind alot about what MrSex4uNYC says about attitude,
and when I get stuck, I ask myself, what would NYC tell me right
now about this situation. He is very congruent, and if you think
things this way, it is easy to be clear what is the right way or
wrong way.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; &gt;I  tell her that she wants everything to be a 'perfect' situation</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;with a guy before she makes a move. She wants him to be ideal</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;with women, skillful, handsome and know how to treat a lady..</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;and still be single!! I go on to tell her that that is TOTALLY</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;unrealistic! And THAT is why she loses! and she always ends up</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;alone!</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;  Powerful because it is 100% true. You have accurately described to</em></span>
her her
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &quot;ruin&quot; so now that she accepts you as an authority on who she IS she</em></span>
can then
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; accept you as an authority on who she CAN be and WHERE she can be!</em></span>

Yes, basically that is the idea. I am not sure that it means I am
an authority, but its more, to convey that she is clueless, she
is wrong, so to listen to herself will make her fuck up even more..
..so maybe she had better listen to me instead, and then she wont
fuckup as much.. basically that is the idea..
<span style="color:#397"><em>

&gt;    Excellent...Maniac, I don't give a damn WHAT my orthodox SS</em></span>
followers say,

I didn't get this.. What are orthodox SS followers, and I had no
idea they were saying anything about this.. I really dont understand
what you mean here..
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; &gt;Now what I am doing with all the above, is not arguing the logic (too</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;much)</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &gt;of this, because, of course she is right, and I know this.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;  Actually, you ARE not arguing the logic, but you are USING the</em></span>
logic...HER
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; logic..HER way of viewing things.....pointing out WHY and HOW she</em></span>
loses and
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; what will happen if she doesn't stop it.   It's all centered around</em></span>
losing and
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; WHY she loses, based on what she has told you.  It IS logical, FROM</em></span>
her point
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; of view.</em></span>

Yes, basically that is the idea. What I meant was, is that her main
point is that she wants a monogamous BF, and doesn't want to be played.
But, I am playing her, and she (at some level) realizes that, so
in essense, her gut feel about this is totally correct.

But I am playing her desire for the fuck, and her fear of losing
out, which lets me bypassing her gut feel that she is being
played, and then I can get her to fuck anyways.


Good followups everyone!

Maniac High
http://www.pickupguide.com


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From: maniac_high@yahoo.com
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Subject: Re: Re-Lay Report! Psyching out psychic babe! ..a chick bullshit special!]
Date: Tue, 02 Jan 2001 12:10:23 GMT

  &quot;Dohn Joe&quot; &lt;nobody@aol.com&gt; wrote:
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &lt;maniac_high@yahoo.com&gt; wrote in message news:92n7b9$146</em></span>
$1@nnrp1.deja.com...
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; [snip]</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; The more I think of it, the more this seems to be a great PU.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; I think the PU in England is the gist of your piece of work.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;o I'd be glad to see more</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; details on how you picked her up in England, that's the hardest work. How</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; did you stand up the crowd? How did you make it not look like a PU?</em></span>

I was using psychological 'jujitsu' (use the strength of your
opponant, against themself). There is a field report from 2 months
ago, that outlines the PU (check fastseduction.com archives).
Basically, I met her at a conference. I didnt talk to her much.
Then I followed her onto a bus that was taking us to the next
meeting place. A guy was hitting on her, and he sat with her.
I sat on the seat in front bymyself.

She (like most british bitches), started complaining about how
she hates men, and other bullshit. The guy on the bus with her
is taking this/agreeing with it (if I remember right).

I just turned around (and tonality and eye contact here is crucial),
and just tell her in a VERY authoritative voice, slowly.. &quot;perhaps
you have just not met the right man yet, one you understands you,
deeply, and completely. But.. you never know the future.. now do you..
I used killed eye contact, spoke slowly, and continued &quot;perhaps
if you open your mind more, you might find him.. by surprise, without
even expecting it, because often, that is the way it usually is..see&quot;

Psychicbabe went &quot;maybe&quot;, and then started more manhating bitching.

I then described the kind of man she wanted &quot;one you could rely on,
but at the same time, be mysterious, and exciting in some unexpected
ways, because he just knew how to reach you deep inside you, and
your mind.. that is what your looking for..isnt' it?&quot;

Psychicbabe: yes,

{continue PU, bunches of stuff from the ManiacPlan, if I remember
right}

The key here was the tonality and Eye-Fuck contact. That is what
did it more than the words I used. I just totally crushed her
with it..
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; How did</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; you get past her &quot;bitch office&quot; shield? I'm asking especially because, as I</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; picture this woman, it would seem pretty intimidating for me to approach</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; her.</em></span>

I had the attitude that she obviously had never met a man that
knew how to give it to her right, which means that she obviously
needed ME far more than I needed her. That mindset made it easy.
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; I admire your ability to take her from there into total submission.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; existing relationship than guys. That's why many (even HOT ones) find</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; themselves in a dead end - boring or abusive - relationship, love to</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; complain about it to whoever they find to listen, yet are unable to step out</em></span>

EXACTLY!!
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; of it. That's why the first fuck is hard - after that she is bound</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; emotionally to you. You see,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;Women's sexuality is DISSOLVED in them.</em></span>

Yes! you understand it!! (true for most, but not all chicks though,
some just like sport fucking, like we do)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt; GREAT words to remember for all us RAFCs when we feel like beating the walls</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; after a fuckup... I myself am so darn depressed when coming back after an</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; unsuccessful encounter with a chick. Yes, each field experience is one more</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; lesson</em></span>

Yes, do NOT underestimately field experience. It is SO important.
I fucked up TONS (see all the fuckup reports I used to post a couple
years ago on ASF), and I still fuckup alot (see HBGeek, or HockeyBabe).
Over on cliff's list they say it takes 2..4 years to get good
at something, and 10 years to be a master. I TOTALLY agree.
I have only been at this for 2.. 2 1/2 years. And the more I learn,
the more I realize I still need to learn.. There is still TONS that
I dont know yet.

Maniac High
http://www.pickupguide.com

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From: mrsex4unyc@aol.comedr4d (MrSex4uNYC)
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Date: 02 Jan 2001 18:58:08 GMT
Subject: Re: Re-Lay Report! Psyching out psychic babe! ..a chick bullshit special!]

I, for one, am really GLAD to see a post from RJ that has helped me move
forward in MY game :)  not that I am an ingrate hehe... his contribution to all
this is UNDENIABLE to begin with and if I hadn't stumbeled onto his site, I
would have still been using my caveman tactics and my MENTAL seduction game
would still be lacking.  as much as I appreciate his contribution to the
seduction game in general, I had been disappointed with all the flaming and
nonsense that he and others had/have been involved with because I thought that
this NG was BASED on USEFUL interaction between him and the rest of us, but I
found that not to be the case :(  not that ANYONE gives a fuck what <b>I</b> have to
say about this, but I wanted to back up into the PAST to make it clear that I
appreciate RJ's PERSONAL contribution to the NG TODAY.

In article &lt;20001230151247.26801.00001467@ng-fi1.aol.com&gt;, erosla77@aol.com
(ErosLA77) writes:
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;&gt;I tell her the rocks/gold story (I love this story, it is</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;excellent for dealing with chick bullshit) and my expectations</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; </em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;   Metahpor is a POWERFUL tool to move folks from a fixed perception to a new</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;one. Please, share your story!</em></span>

I have been doing this without identifying it:

A) find out her perception (marriage, monogamy, sucking dick VS kissing...)
B) &quot;quote&quot; her a story illustrating a chick that saw things a DIFFERENT way
(the way I want HER to see things) and benefitted GREATLY from it (she is still
with me, she got married to the guy she wanted, she gained inner peace and
self-love...)
C) watch her AGREE with something that she just minutes ago BELIEVED was
incorrect, or not for her.

the most fascinating part is (C) because I didn't realize my powers of
validation, pacing then LEADING had developed so strongly.  this is partially
because I am an empath and can FEEL when a chick moves into different emotional
states so I can relate to her from within her own state and effectively &quot;vulcan
mind-meld&quot; with her, turning the TWO of us into a SINGLE, functioning entity so
that I can dictate for US... to a degree.

a frequent situation is chicks asking me if I am single.  basically, I explain
to them that I am in an &quot;open&quot; relationship.  they practically INVARIABLY
disrespect my MLTR for being stupid. &quot;how can she go for that?&quot; &quot;I would have
dumped you&quot; &quot;I would never let a man see other women&quot;...  sooooo :)  I let them
go on and on and get it all out and completely ENTRENCH themselves in the DREAM
of them being with a man like me AND dumping me or CHANGING me or whatever
their BULLSHIT FANTASIES are at the time.  THEN I go into the BENEFITS of being
MY PRIMARY relationship... :)  when I stack up the LIST of BENEFITS and it
stacks HIGHER than those bitches have in their OWN RELATIONSHIPS RIGHT NOW,
they start thinking.  they think about what LITTLE they really have in their
relationships that MY MLTR is getting.  they think about the TRUST and
COMPANIONSHIP between us that they DON'T HAVE with their borefriends.  they
think about how she is SEXUALLY SATISFIED... DAILY if she wants it.  she has
someone to give her the REAL DEAL on how men are and what we want from
chicks... not someone that's going to keep playing her until he is finished
fucking her.  they ALSO see how the other bitches (like them in the near
future) come and go and MLTR CONSTANTLY receives the benefits of being with a
man that does EVERYTHING for her that she could want... for the MERE price of
NOT bailing because I fuck other chicks :)  once I break it down to them, ALLLL
I see on their faces is ENVY.  matter of fact, they tend to look EMBARRASSED
when I ask THEM about THEIR relationships.  oh, that reminds me... the bitches
that DON'T HAVE A MAN AT ALL fare the WORST in these situations.  my MLTR has
NEVER-ENDING SATISFACTION... they have STORIES of what they WOULD DO... <b>IF</b>
they could get a man AT ALL!  :)

chicks would rather have 20% of a WINNER than 100% of a LOSER!
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;&gt; Now she starts crying, and saying that was the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;problem with her ex-BF, that chicks always chased him (he dumped</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;her last week, apparently).</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Ah, she has MIXED emotions. Pain AND pleasure associated with fucking; it</em></span>
feels
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;good but could lead to emotional betrayal because of the vulnerabilities.  So</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;when you pull it all away, then she has the fear of loss, which overcomes the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;potential fear of potential emotional hurt later on. </em></span>

wow!  VERY powerful :)  I had really considered these to be apples and
oranges... pain of emotions after sex and pain of LOSS of the individual. 
however, discomfort is discomfort.  I quit giving UTILITY to this PIVOT I was
using because I realized she had ZERO self-esteem and not many other redeeming
qualities other than her looks.  she went from LJBF to NEXT overnight.  I had
been using her for a pivot because of her looks, but her lack of personality
started to wear on me and finally, she had to go.  no more hanging out, no more
phone calling, no more help with her love-life... nothing... cold turkey. 
completely FORGOT about her.  about a month or so later, the holiday season
comes around and she  A) calls me  B) tells me she bought me something for
christmas (I bought her NOTHING, not even a CARD and didn't bother to get one
when she told me she bought me something)  C) tells me she wants to bring it TO
my house, and  D) shows up with gift in hand, READY to socialize and spend time
with me.  

this is the SAME bitch that NEVER went in her purse to even OFFER to throw in
money when I used to use her for a pivot.  I didn't mind paying for her though
because the benefits I got from being out with an attractive chick that KNOWS I
am out to get OTHER bitches and facilitates that was well worth it :)  hehe... 
too bad for her, MLTR was over and I received her gift, talked to her for a
while (where she told me her recent &quot;relationship&quot; blew the fuck up in her face
:-) and then ejected her to keep having fun with MLTR.

I have been using outfoxer's style of letting bitches get involved in bullshit
relationships, TELLING THEM the relationships are bullshit then letting them
fall FLAT on their faces and come CRAWLING back to me :)  I just haven't added
the part yet where I get indignant that they are giving sex to CHUMPS that use
them like BITCHES and throw them away.  hehe it is fun enough at this point
just to hear about their FAILURES from the horses' mouths and see the sad looks
on their faces, while I am CONSTANTLY SMILING :)

what you described is BASICALLY what happened to her, except NOT in the sexual
content, but in the companionship content.  she THOUGHT she had a solid
position with me as my pivot, so she didn't feel like paying for anything
because she thought I NEEDED her, not WANTED her.  as soon as I didn't want her
anymore and dumped her from LJBF to NEXT, she was OK with it UNTIL her
relationship BACKFIRED... THEN she decides she wants to get back in good with
ME, which she can't do because I don't give a fuck about her and except for
looks, she can't compete with MLTR AT ALL!

the pain of loneliness overrides the emotional pain of sex without
committment... fascinating :)
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;She's worried about</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;pain, so you point out the pain if she DOESN'T bang you...the pain of not only</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;losing out on the pleasure of screwing, BUT the pain of losing you and FURTHER</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;believing she is doomed to lose. You just take her map and point out that if</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;she doesn't drive where you want her to, she's going to have an even WORSE</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;crack-up.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;  Once she accepts this, it's a done deal.</em></span>

ok, this is interesting too.  &quot;this is why you fucked up with your ex and I
feel the same way about that particular topic&quot;.  you are FORECASTING her
EJECTION unless she changes her ways.  she is still WITH YOU and has a chance
to do the right thing instead of getting ejected.  she already knows how it
feels to BE ejected by her EX and doesn't WANT to go through that pain AGAIN
with you.  you dictate to her HOW she could have avoided it with her EX and she
learns how to avoid it with you and gets in line.  this is another reason why
DICTATING what you REQUIRE from chicks is good, because they have the roadmap
to success or FAILURE with you.  as long as you have demonstrated personality
AND value BEFORE getting to this with her, she will be in a state of &quot;how can I
get my hands on this guy... and KEEP him?&quot; and then you will tell her what she
needs to do to be CONSIDERED amongst your TOP chicks and then is is up to her
to either fulfill her womanly duties or... as you predicted... get ejected and
feel the PAIN OF SEPERATION all over again with someone that she ALREADY knows
she WANTS to be with... WHATEVER the cost.

everyone has their price.  I find, most times, chicks are TALKING with no
EXPERIENCE.  a chick told me that she dumped her borefriend because he laughed
at her.  I told her that the sex must not have been good because otherwise she
would have had to use more than THAT to justify dumping an entire relationship.
 she CLAIMED that sex had nothing to do with her decision and that he didn't
RESPECT her was why she dumped him.  I told her that if the sex had been what
it is SUPPOSED to be... I GUARANTEE her that she would NOT have thrown THAT
away because of some laughing and disrespect.  I also proceeded to laugh at her
AND disrespect her IN HER FACE and told her I don't care because we are not
dating... she can't DUMP ME!   she never ADMITTED that I was right... BUT... by
the end of the conversation, she was asking me WHAT SHE SHOULD DO TO MAKE HER
LOVE LIFE BETTER!  :/  gotcha!
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;&gt;I  tell her that she wants everything to be a 'perfect' situation</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;with a guy before she makes a move. She wants him to be ideal</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;with women, skillful, handsome and know how to treat a lady..</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;and still be single!! I go on to tell her that that is TOTALLY</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;unrealistic! And THAT is why she loses! and she always ends up</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&gt;alone!</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Powerful because it is 100% true. You have accurately described to her her</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;&quot;ruin&quot; so now that she accepts you as an authority on who she IS she can then</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;accept you as an authority on who she CAN be and WHERE she can be!  </em></span>

yes.  I really have not been making the MOST of pacing and leading.  I have
been seeing where they ATTACH THEMSELVES to my way of thinking and see me as an
authority.  I have not used this to MAKE POLICY for them... merely to open
their minds and get them to think more efficiently.  you are right though. 
once you capture them... LEAD THEM!  make SOME efficient use of your new
followers... even if you were only practicing or passing time by capturing them
:)

excellent post :)


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From: mrsex4unyc@aol.comedr4d (MrSex4uNYC)
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Date: 02 Jan 2001 18:58:10 GMT
Subject: Re: Re-Lay Report! Psyching out psychic babe! ..a chick bullshit special!]

In article &lt;92n7b9$146$1@nnrp1.deja.com&gt;, maniac_high@yahoo.com writes:
<span style="color:#397"><em>
&gt;After chick says bullshit about wanting to go to</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;dinner and be friends or shit for 6 months before</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;becoming a GF, I say: Actually, I dont go to dinner</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;or stuff like that with ladies who are not my GF</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;CHick:  gasps!</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Maniac: see, going to dinner, is an important step</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;in a relationship for me. I only share it with someone</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;special</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;chick: Huh?</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;Maniac: Well, let me put it this way, do you ever</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;sleep with a guy who is just your friend, or dont</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;care about?</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;chick: of course not!</em></span>

[lots of good use of Jake's shit snipped]

this is interesting, though I couldn't tell if this is something you are GOING
to do, or something you DID already.  either way, IF you are congruent, this
will serve you well as an alternate form of screening.  most of the time, I
screen by ASKING chicks shit and listening to their answers while watching
their faces and body-language.  another way to do it is to basically DICTATE to
them what I need to even CONSIDER being with a chick in any capacity
whatsoever.  most of the time I don't do this though because I can tell already
that the chick is worthless.  I usually get into DICTATION when she asks me
about myself.  am I attached?  what do I look for in a woman? etc.  THEN, since
she asked, I get into the reasons I have chosen women in the past and why I am
still with them in the present.  as I do that, I lay down my laws WITHOUT
telling the chick I am talking to that she needs to get in line with this shit
or get the fuck out of my face.  I have had a couple of chicks blow themselves
out after this.

I was talking to a chick that I know from YEARS ago that started calling me
again and talking about nothing.  I tolerated her for an hour or so on two
different days  A) because I was bored and  B) because through her speech
patterns and recurring ideas, I was learning if she was worth anything to me at
all, considering I get everything I want or need from MLTR in the first place,
she only had a VERY LIMITED use to me, as GOOD backup-pussy.  MLTR is smarter,
more interesting, more fun, less psychotic... basically TRUMPED her in all
areas, so this chick had NO CREDIT with me whatsoever.  I ended up getting into
PRECISELY what you did in your post.  the KICKER was when I told her &quot;I don't
even TALK to girls that I don't want to fuck&quot;.  since I had not fucked her AND
had not suggested that we get together (she BELIEVES in monogamous
relationships for herself and even if she fucked me one time, it would be
merely to relieve her own personal stress and I am not going to be there for
her for that.  I am looking for MORE MLTRs... anything else can go fuck off.  I
laughed at her way of being AND broke it down to her why it was so stupid AND
let her know in NO UNCERTAIN TERMS that I was not going to be involved in
ANYTHING CLOSE to what she claims to want for herself... she can STAY HORNY for
all I care) she INTELLIGENTLY asked me WHY I was talking to her...  I let her
know that I found her amusing and her way of living ineffective.  I pointed out
to her that in the YEARS since I had spoken to her last, ALL she had to show
for it was a bungh of jibberish about WANTING a monogamous relationship that
she HAS NOT ATTAINED IN ALL THESE YEARS!  I let her know that I had predicted
that she would REMAIN dissatisfied for years to come and my talking to her
allowed me to follow her LACK of progress while, in the meantime, I get laid
EVERY DAY by MLTR :)   I have not heard from her SINCE that conversation...
good riddance.  she knew what she HAD to do if she wanted more of my time.  she
knew what she was going to have to do IF she wanted to socialize with me at
all.  she felt like her DEVOTION to the idea of a monogamous relationship with
a NON-EXISTANT man was more important than getting fucked by a guy that she
KNOWS and LIKES.  she is an idiot, and will remain horny UNTIL she fucks the
wrong guy, then has NO ONE to comfort her because <b>I</b> will not be there because
she had her chance and BLEW IT!

I have ZERO TOLERANCE for chicks that want things their way.  if they LIKE
doing things MY WAY, then they can be with me...maybe... for a while... as long
as they still LOOK HOT :)   when I approach chicks, I ASSUME they will fail the
screen because statistics show that I require A LOT from a chick and most of
them are either distracted by work or other relationships or just are not
QUALITY enough to be with me.  I find it amusing how ridiculous the SAME girls
are that I used to DESIRE to go out with and that I USED TO dislike being
rejected by.

now, I meet and REJECT girls daily.  not actively, just after I meet them, I
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From: maniac_high@yahoo.com
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Subject: ]Crisis Management Report! Containment breach captain!!
Date: Fri, 17 Nov 2000 09:03:14 GMT

]Crisis Management Report! Containment breach captain!!
001117

{..ie. when another chick you are fucking, walks in on you and your
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From: maniac_high@yahoo.com
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Subject: ]Crisis Management Report! Containment breach captain!!
Date: Fri, 17 Nov 2000 09:03:14 GMT

]Crisis Management Report! Containment breach captain!!
001117

{..ie. when another chick you are fucking, walks in on you and your
chick!}

In physics, there is something called a &quot;matter-antimatter reaction&quot;.
It happens when matter contacts with antimatter, resulting in instant
enormous releases of energy, and absolute destruction and then loss
of all the matter and antimatter in the original reaction.

Well, the same thing can happen with chicks too! A chick-antichick
reaction is when you are with one chick, and all of the sudden,
another chick you are shagging makes an unexpected/unannounced
entrance on you and the first chick. The subsequent result is
usually very much like that antimatter reaction mentionned above,..
lots of energy is suddenly released, there is lots of destruction
and then the loss of both chicks results.

The solution to this of course is containment/isolation, and then
maintaining that isolation/minimizing contact if a breach
occurs.. which is the topic of tonight's field report, as this
is exactly what happened last night with screambabe (see lay
report, last week), and HBgeek, a really sexy but slightly nerdy
chick I was already well into the process (ie. deep kino had already
started) in a bar I was in last night.

Lets look at the story, and how I handled it (the story has a
happy ending BTW (well for me and HBgeek anyways, though not for
screambabe), and how I was able (so far it seems) to use the
incident to INCREASE my stature in the eyes of HBgeek.

HBgeek loves the internet (she is a web designer or something),
27, very sweet &amp; sexy in real life (met her on the web). My fuck
up was to take her to the same place that I took screambabe
before the lay last week (a bar near some fuck hotels). I thought
it was safe, because I knew that screambabe's office, and work
were far from this place, so there was very little possibility
I would run into her (or anyone else I know) by chance there.

HBgeek and I get to the bar, and I am running the &quot;Maniac plan&quot;
as posted last week. We are sitting at the bar, and while I am
in stage &quot;S&quot; (the questions game, already into heavy kino &amp;
handholding, however I had not yet done the KC (was only a couple
minutes away from it actually; fortunately), I get a tap on my
shoulder and turn around.

It is screambabe.. It goes like this:

Screambabe: &quot;am I interrupting the two of you&quot;?
Maniac: &quot;well, yes, actually I am busy right now..&quot;
        (I do not lose my cool, and speak in a very slow assertive
         voice, like nothing special is going on)
Screambabe: &quot;I have been sitting in the back of the bar since you
        came in, and have seen the whole thing&quot;
Maniac: &quot;uh huh, so?&quot;
Screambabe: &quot;you didn't see me, did you?&quot;
Maniac: &quot;no, not at all, in fact I wasn't even looking for you..&quot;
Screambabe: &quot;call me tonight, will you call me tonight?&quot; {angry}
Maniac: &quot;yes, I can call you tonight&quot;
Screambabe: &quot;you better..&quot;
Maniac: &quot;yes I will&quot;
Screambabe: {goes back to her seat at the back of the bar..}
Maniac: {turns to HBgeek sitting next to me at the bar, continue PU}
Maniac: &quot;I dated that chick briefly, but stopped seeing her, though
       unfortunately, she still really likes me, as you can see&quot;
       {social proof gambit here!}
HBGeek: Oh, I see, that is too bad for her&quot;
Maniac: &quot;Yes, well, things just didn't work out between us&quot;
HBGeek: &quot;You should have told her&quot;
Maniac: &quot;I did, but she just doesnt get it&quot; {a total lie}
HBGeek: &quot;Oh well, oh lets get more beer (we order)&quot;
Maniac: &quot;So where were we, oh, right, my turn for a question,
         what kind of house would you like to have if you could
         have what you want? {stage 'V' in the ManiacPlan told be
         HBgeek has golddigging tendencies so I am playing on this)

{more questions, I have stopped all sexual talk/kino.., as now I am
trying to look casual until we either finish our beer, or until
Screambabe leaves the bar, initiating more kino with screambabe
still around could be dangerous}

10 minutes pass.. {screambabe realizes that she didn't freak me
out, that I am not leaving, and her tantrum had NO effect on me at
all}

Screambabe returns to my seat, and starts pinching me (which I
ignore.. I say &quot;hi&quot;). Now screambabe is in a tough spot too, because
I am by the bar, and there is lots of staff around.. it looks
like she is trying to get to me, without getting attention to
herself to get in trouble. Screambabe says &quot;call me&quot; and gives me
a real evil look. Then she hits my shoulder, I ignore, say &quot;talk
to you tonight&quot;. Then she hits my shoulder really hard (doesn't
hurt, but the sound of it is really loud in the bar), and she storms
out..

I turn to HBgeek and say &quot;as I said, she really likes me, even
still&quot;.

Now I am safe, and I say again &quot;so where were we, your turn for a
question&quot;..question game resumes. When its my turn, I resume full
kino, and go for the KC like I did with the HB orange lay report
last week. I get the KC (kiss close). She then remarks that I
must be an attractive guy to make a girl react like that other
one did, and would I like to start a relationship (HB Geek tells
me she wants to start a relationship with me, as her question
in the question game). I say &quot;me too&quot;, we finish our beers, and
go outside and make out.

Now I could probably have taken her to the hotel like I did
screambabe the previous time, but I was worried that screambabe
was hanging out by the hotels ready to cause more trouble, so
I decided to just arrange the fuck this coming Monday at my
place instead, which HBgeek agreed to (she wants to see my
PC's, LAN and learn how to salsa). We tonguedown some more
at the train station (its big, so screambabe cannot find us,
we go to an obscure place), and I say goodnight to HBgeek.

--

Ok, analysis time. First of all, I was lucky because screambabe
was afraid to talk to HBgeek, and only talked to me. Also, she
did not say anything about being my GF (which I would have told
her she isn't, because I have only met her twice in my life (then
anti easy girl/slut logic would have started and she wouldnt
have contested that). I was also lucky she didn't start throwing
or breaking things, but as I said there was alot of staff around,
and it was obvious she was aware of that. It was also the reason
I decided to NOT leave the bar once I knew she was there, and
rather wait it out, making it look like she didn't phase me at all,
and also avoiding something on the street, where she could have
been much more out of control. As well, to leave would have shown
I was afraid/hiding something, and supplicative.. better to stay
I figure, and make screambabe leave instead, which is what finally
happened..

I realize screambabe approached when she did, because we had
just finished (the first) drinks, and she was afraid we would
leave. Also, she was with a guy (looked like an AFC coworker
actually.. harmless), and he was getting tired of this and wanted
to go I think. He was embarrassed about how she was behaving I
think too.

Re: handling HBgeek, I thought &quot;social proof!&quot; and tilted
everything that way. As well, I made sure to not lose my cool,
and not make it look at all to HB geek that anything had happened
of any importance (ie. that that other girl was not important
to me, even though I was obviously important to her!). In some
way, I think this massively increased her respect of me, which
led to the &quot;lets start a relationship&quot; question only 5 minutes
after screambabe walked out the door.

Another thing helped alot too, which was that I was following
a script &quot;ManiacPlan&quot;. I totally lost all my concentration each
time screambabe invaded us, but because I could remember where I
was in ManiacPlan, and had the framework memorized, I was able to
go right back to where I left off, and continue. I think this
made a real positive impression on HBgeek, that I just blew off
that other chick, and it look liked it didn't bother me AT ALL,
that I could just continue unphased in spite of what just happened
(though of course inside I was shitting that screambabe would try
something violent, but I didn't show that).

Finally, there was the issue of what screambabe was doing there
to start with. My hunch is that since she was with another guy,
that she was not really stalking me, but just liked the place I
showed her, and decided to take a friend there. To fix this, I
will rotate a few more bars in the selection between chicks,
to reduce the chances of this happening (though I suspect that
one part of the reason she went, WAS to see if I would go back
with a chick).

After saying goodnight to HBGeek and making the monday appt.
at my place, I now had to finish containing screambabe so that
she wouldn't cause anymore trouble. As with anything in
nuclear reactions, the solution is extreme amounts of power and
force.

So I wrote her an email calling her for the bullshit she
tried to pull on me, stalking me, and make her feel that this
was ALL her fault (which it really was), make her feel guilty
for it..etc (I was going to include the message sent in this
post, but seemed I didnt save it).. The goal of the message
was to prevent her from showing up at my place or something like
that and disturbing me yet again.. The note was
written alot in the theme of the Ms. Kinky email I sent when
she tried to give me bullshit about meeting other chicks.

Then, I got a reply back from screambabe today saying that
she misses me now and she would like to meet me (fat chance..).

This actually is the second time this happens to me (first
time was when HBass came knocking on my window at 1am while
I was with energizer babe once night (report in the archives),
and I handled it much the same way. I was able to keep both
chicks after for several months, and still have HB ass even
today.



Look forward to HBgeek.. she is a 9.  ;-)


The end,

Constructive comments/opinions appreciated as usual,

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Subject: More lessons from sales: Closing.
Date: Thu, 26 Oct 2000 15:40:13 GMT


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From: &quot;toecutter&quot; &lt;toecutter@mail.com&gt;
Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast
Subject: More lessons from sales: Closing.
Date: Thu, 26 Oct 2000 15:40:13 GMT


Yesterday I did a brief outline on what was in the sales literature on
handling objections. Today I am going to attempt to address closing (this is
a much more difficult task). It is not an easy thing to write about. There
are whole books out there on this stage of the sales process alone. Suffice
to say that it is by far the most important. You can be perfect at the other
5 steps, but if you can not close, and ask for a call to action then you can
not sell (or get a fuck).

In fact salesmen say that there are 2 types of people in sales: The salesman
(who is better than simply an ordertaker; at least he can so some things on
his own ... if he is good he can generate leads, meet and initiate
conversation, elicit values, support the sale, handle objections, and
attempt to close). The other type is The Closer (he is the man that can
really deliver. He can sell, charm and hold the customer to the deal).
Closing a sale is the most important skill a sales person (or PUA) needs.
You can be charismatic, come up with the best leads, have incredible
presentation skills, but if you can't close, you can't sell (or PU).

There are three steps to closing a sale and they are:

A. Recognising the Time to Close
B. Deciding on Your Closing Technique
C. Making the Closing Statement

In recognising the time to close you need to watch your customer. (Needless
to say, Value needs to have been created first but some customers may know
they need your product before you open your mouth. You can just walk up to
the customer and close ... I have seen guys just walk up take a girl by the
hand and lead her out of a bar without a word ... CLOSERS). You close too
early (value has not been created or objections have not been overcome) you
loose the sale. You close too late, the customer is out of their
enthusiastic state, you will fall flat on your face again. Watch her state
and see the opportunity. In fact the whole time you are with her you should
be looking for that window of opportunity to close. Closing is the only
reason you are even there.

Some relevant closing techniques from sales I will outline below, but there
needs to be a technique. In the PU situation, I would use them for a #close,
or a date close (i.e. getting her out of the bar, or the supermarket queue
into a coffee shop or your home to see whatever it is that you say you want
to show them). It is a call for action. I make the reservation that you
should not use a verbal close to get her answering the question &quot;Shall we go
and fuck?&quot;. This defies chick logic. Just get her to your house.

The closing statement needs to be smooth and delivered with confidence. This
is not a time for Umms and Ahhs. Once you have decided on your technique,
you are ready to make the closing statement. It is time to ask for the order
(or number or to leave together). There are some considerations that you
should understand so that your efforts to close will be successful:

* Stay in your normal discussion mode and tone. Don't telegraph what you are
going to do by a change in posture or tone of voice.
* Remember that you are asking for the order but don't pressure for a sale.
Move slowly but deliberately to the next step in the process, if there is
one.
* Expect your close to fail if you have not provided the value needed by the
prospect. Don't discount the failure, learn from it and do better next time.
* Ask questions if the close fails to determine what went wrong and see if
you can salvage the situation (the more high pressure the close you use, the
more you are going to have to work to retrieve the situation).

Okay, now for some of the techniques. See my post &quot;Field report: A killer
#close including overcoming BF objections&quot;
http://www.fastseduction.com/cgi-bin/search.cgi?action=retrieve&amp;grp=1&amp;mn=970
26921569650 for a field report using many of these techniques. I know the
close is far from perfect, but you can see my sales training shining through
in it. It includes the yes ladder, an invitational close (crossed with the
puppy dog, &quot;try me, I am free&quot;), fear factor close and pre-emptive objection
strike (I'll be discrete). I reckon that I got the fuck largely on the
strength of this close.

The main reason customers say &quot;no&quot; is a fear of making a decision. They say
&quot;no&quot; even if they want to buy from you. So, when a customer says &quot;no,&quot; you
must re-sell by creating more value, or building up the required state and
close again. In order to do this, you must have more than one close to use.
Otherwise, they will leave and go fuck your competitor. Here are some:

The Power of Suggestion Close (called in NLP, time distortion) Help your
customers to see themselves using your product. Speak to them as though they
already owned it, and tie in a hot button benefit to its use: &quot;When you use
these vitamins and herbs, after only a few weeks you'll notice that you have
more energy and that you feel healthier.&quot; or from in a pattern &quot;Imagine us
at the coffee shop laughing together and having a good time, and later you
being at home feeling that you had a really good time and enjoyed yourself
spending time with me over coffee. Now when you think about what I am
saying, and all those feelings that I am talking about, doesn't it just make
sense that we go and have coffee together now?&quot;

The Direct Close. (high risk, she could say &quot;no&quot;, then she owns that no, and
you have to prove her wrong.) The obvious and most frequently used close is
the direct approach of asking for the order. Once you are sure in your mind
that you have done everything possible to overcome objections, and if you
feel that you can fulfill the prospects need, go for it. &quot;If we want to
continue this conversation another time, I will need your phone number, here
is my pen.&quot;

The Invitational Close. If you want it, you have to ask for it. Don't just
wait for the customer to say, &quot;I'll take it.&quot; They don't. Create the value,
then invite them to do it. Say, &quot;Why don't you give it a try? Go ahead and
do it.&quot;

The Option Close. The more options you give someone, the better your chances
to close.&quot;Our truck is in this area twice a week, do want delivery on
Wednesday or Friday?&quot; &quot;Do you want this charged to your Visa or MasterCard?&quot;
&quot;I'll be in your area on Tuesday and Wednesday evenings, which would be a
better night for us to catch up and have coffee?&quot; These choices require a
commitment and &quot;no&quot; is not offered as an option.

The yes ladder close (TokyoPUA calls this one the yes-set). The yes ladder
close builds a chain of &quot;yes's&quot; to questions the salesperson asks to help
lead the customer into saying yes to the sale. To put the customer in the
habit of saying yes, ask questions you're sure will get affirmative answers.
See that field report for an example.

The Puppy Dog Close (also called the Free Trial close) This close gets its
name from the pet store closing technique of letting customers hold the
animal they want to make it harder to resist, and even let them take it home
for a week. This close lets your buyers see for themselves your product's
quality. Make sure your customers hold, taste, feel, wear, try out your
product, take it home for a week even and bond with it. Let the prospect use
your product or service for a specified period of time with the
understanding that you will pick up a signed order after the trial period.

The Fear-Factor Close. This is very powerful because you are playing on
people's uncertainties, insecurities and fears. People want products and
services which minimize their risks whether it is personal or property
related. &quot;This water purifier will protect you and your family from some of
the deadliest forms of bacteria in the water.&quot; Hard to implement, but I did
it with that $5 close in the field report.

The Readiness Close
This close checks the client's &quot;buying temperature.&quot; With it you can also
find out if you are on the right path with your presentation or if you need
to change course. The great thing about this close is that it doesn't end
your presentation but instead tells you what direction to go.
A. &quot;Does this make sense to you?&quot;
B. &quot;How do you feel about this so far?&quot;
C. &quot;Is this what you wanted?&quot;
D. &quot;Is this an improvement for you?&quot;
Not sure how to implement this last one, and have been thinking about it
because it is so LOW risk. Any ideas?

Comments / suggestions / applications / more closes are welcome.

Toecutter.

P.S. There are guys out there in this group who obviously can not close (Ray
is the perfect example ... his Foxhunting crap I have read, but his handling
of objections only delays his need to close by dragging the thing out. He is
scared as shit of this step in the process, the call for action, and works
out complex strategies so that he feels like he is doing something, but it
never leads to the close. Realise that you NEED to close, and it is the only
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[Tom and 'Regular' talk about why chicks like &#34;jerks&#34; and
why it helps to act more like a &#34;jerk&#34; if you want to be 
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Sound astonishing? Well, it is.. so read on.. and you'll
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[Tom and 'Regular' talk about why chicks like &quot;jerks&quot; and
why it helps to act more like a &quot;jerk&quot; if you want to be 
more successful with women. 

Sound astonishing? Well, it is.. so read on.. and you'll
see why its true.

Then the rest of this site to learn more about being 
the kind of guy that women love (in spite of what they
might tell you)!]



From tom_bc@hotmail.com Wed Oct 13 04:28:56 1999
Newsgroups: alt.romance,alt.seduction.fast
Subject: Re: How women fuck over other women
Organization: @Home Network Canada
Xref: news-f.iadfw.net alt.romance:292992 alt.seduction.fast:62779

great post.
I think there's one reason behind all that : Ultimately all women like to be
controlled or 'taken' by someone I should say. So they resist a little, but
they like the feeling of being pushed and when you're nice you don't do
that.
&quot;Jerks&quot; are pushy by nature, so I guess that's why it works.

[stuff deleted]

Tom

Anonymous &lt;nobody@neuropa.net&gt; wrote in message
news:199910110724.HAA12150@berlin.neuropa.net...
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Somehow, most women seem to go after all the wrong</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; guys for all the wrongs reasons.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; To completely end the mystery that perhaps many of</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; you men in the group may have been wondering about</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; for a while, most women absolutely DO go after jerks.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; But to say &quot;jerk&quot; is not a truly accurate description</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; of the type of men these women go after. You might just</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; say that they go after men who are incredibly self-confident</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; with women. But that would not be completely accurate either.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; You could say that they go after the man who is not afraid</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; of their pussy (please forgive the blunt language), but that</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; too, would not be totally accurate.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Well the truth is this. Women, more times than not, don't</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; even know THEMSELVES what it is they are after. Very</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; seldom do the ever stop to sit down and think of what kind</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; of guy they would really like to have in their life.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Their idea is ambiguous at best.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; So it comes down to this. Women just plainly and purely end</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; up going after the guy who can make them feel the best.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; Period. The WAYS in which they are made to feel good by</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; the guy(s) they ultimately select are irrelevant.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; That's where, and why, they get into trouble.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; In an instant gratification society, they just go after</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; what turns them on the most, first. This is where the so-called</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &quot;nice-guy&quot; loses out (which is not an accurate description also).</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; The so-called nice guy is generally not a smooth-talker. He does</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; not come-on like he has loads and loads of great feelings and</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; highs to spare, and generally not extrememly outspoken. From</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; women's viewpoint, this is taken in all sorts of erroneous ways</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; that it probably shouldn't be taken. But that's life, and the</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; legacy of the poor &quot;nice-guy.&quot;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; In passing, it should be noted for the record, that not ALL</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; women go after the so-called &quot;jerk&quot; types. Do you want to know</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; which women do? Only the women you want. So in that light, you</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; may as well say &quot;all&quot; of them, right?</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; So how does what I have said relate to the subject of this</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; post.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; When women continue to fuck-over the guys they really should</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; perhaps AT LEAST consider giving more of a chance to, these guys</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; eventually, and usually quite quickly, begin to realize what</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; kind of men the women they would like to have are going after.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; The result is that one day something just snaps inside of them,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; and they begin to emulate and become like the &quot;jerks&quot; that &quot;most&quot;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; women seem to love so much. In order to become that kind of man</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; effectively, it usually has to be taken all the way to the end,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; for the &quot;jerk&quot; mindset would not be truly established if it were</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; not. What that amounts to is becoming the &quot;jerk&quot; that smooth</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; talks women and turns them on in many ways by showing that they</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; have loads and loads of great feelings and highs to spare all for</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; the woman. And in the end, after they have been promptly fucked,</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; the guy dumps them. Why? Because that is the jerk's, and the women</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; who go after jerks, legacy.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; So when women inadvertently, or purposely, create so-called</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; &quot;jerks&quot; out of so-called &quot;nice guys&quot;, they are just inadvertently</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; fucking over other women, their own kind.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; For the curious:</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; My experience comes from dealing with women professionally as</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; a &quot;nice guy&quot;, and as a &quot;jerk&quot; for over 15 years.</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt; The Long Time Regular</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span>
<span style="color:#397"><em>&gt;</em></span></pre>]]></content:encoded>
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From: Svengali &lt;Svengali_here@use.net&gt;
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Subject: Svengali issues a group challenge based upon his last post
Date: Thu, 14 Dec 2000 17:38:26 -0800

Here's my challenge to everyone who is (a) afraid of meeting women,
and/or (b) not getting any women, or (c) not getting enough women.

This simple little challenge will (a) eliminate your fear of women, (b)
show you that you don't have to play any tricks to get and have them.

Ready?

Tomorrow, or Saturday, or Sunday, groom and dress yourself real nice. 
I'm <b>not</b> asking anyone to put on any suits, or ties, or jackets
(unless that is your comfortable style), but rather dress in your own
comfortable, natural way, wearing clean and at least reasonably pressed
clothes.  Then drive to the nearest shopping mall/center and walk
around looking and damn near everything.  As you're doing so, say &quot;hi&quot;
and give a smile to every woman who passes you by, and who is next to
you, and who is in front of you, or whatever.  The smile doesn't have
to be this big cheesy grin, but whatever is your normal, comfortable
way of smiling.  {Any kind of smile shows you're not depressed, nor
someone to be afraid of.}

Doing <b>nothing</b> else but giving a simple smile and &quot;hi&quot; to everyone,
you come back here on Monday and tell me that not <b>one</b> woman stopped
dead in her tracks to say some things to you after you did nothing more
then smile and say &quot;hi&quot;.

A simple smile and &quot;hello&quot; to everyone.  Cost nothing, takes no time,
won't hurt anyone.  Yet I'll bet most of you will <b>rationalize</b> out
some reason(s) why you can't do this, and/or it's not good, and/or all
kinds of other things, and then come back here looking for that magical
pill advice, that will bring you all the women you want.

Guess what?

I just gave you the &quot;magical pill&quot; advice.  If you can't or won't say
&quot;hi&quot; to everyone with a smile (so they quickly see they have nothing to
be afraid of), NOTHING Ross Jeffries gives you, Maniac gives you, NYC
gives you, Mystery gives you, I give you, or whoever, will work.

Now get out there and prove me wrong.  I dare you!

-- 
If you don't know in the first twenty minutes whether or not you're going to
have sex with the woman you just met, and whether or not you even want to,
you're not a seductionist.

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