Part I : London Special! : Lhasa Babe shouts for the Dalai Lama!
[London Double Feature, Part I Copyright 2001, Maniac High All Rights Reserved www.pickupguide.com ] Lay Report Hat Trick! Lhasa babe shouts for the Dalai Lama!! 010220 This lay happened the next day after that second wifeslave report. I post it, because, it ran very similar to the HB miles lay last month, and shows, that within certain bounds, many chicks will act predictably in the same way (and with the same results at the end ;- ) ). That in itself, is quite interesting. Lhasababe's 'exciting story' (see below) was once on a trip to China, having snuck into the foribidden city of Lhasa, in Tibet, with the communist sympathizers not far behind, pelting the car she was hiding in.. she did get into Lhasa.. but fortunately, it did not take her 7 years to get back out.. ;-) ). Interestingly, I met Lhasababe at the same party I met wifeslave (see next report) at. I did 3 number closes that night, in addition to the first night with Wifeslave. Of those # closes, one I made a meeting with, but she last minute cancelled (see original wifeslave report for what I replied to that chick), another one never returned my call, and then there was Lhasababe.. Lhasababe I rate an 8. She is what I consider an HB 'fixerupper'. Awesome body, cute face, but shitty hairstyle, and awful british clothes that doesn't fit her sexy shapely thin but curvy body. I was surprised how sexy she was after I got the clothes off of her.. That's ok, I can get her to cut her hair, and dye/perm it, and go shopping with her, and make her an HB, like I did with HB Ass years ago.. Lets go right to the first time I met her, at the party which I went to the second day I had been in London. I met her, and told her that I was American, but from Japan. Asked her a bit about London, and things to do here. Her friend was bored, and wanted to go home so she was about to leave soon. I suggested we go for a cup of coffee and talk more about it another time, and how I can reach her. She (like a typical paranoid british chick) rudely says that "well, I am not going to give you my phone number, so you can give me yours". I tell her I don't know my number, I just got here. She says, ok, well I will give you my email then.. which I get. I reply her mail the next day, and tell her I would like to talk with her more, how can I do that? She replied (rudely again), "give me your number, but not a cellphone #" (in the after-fuck debrief, she said she didn't like cellphones because they are expensive to call). I thought this note was just too rude.. so I ignored her, and didn't write back. Then 2 days later, I get another note, this time with her phone number and an invitation to call her. I call her, and make a meeting on Picadilly Street near the coffee shops around 4:30PM. She fucks up, and goes to the wrong place on Picadilly, but I find her anyways and we meet up. [I picked this place and time on purpose. Firstly, a few days before, I scoped out this part of London, because there were lots of coffee shops in a row which all had counter seats (needed to kino the chick), and then a park at the end of the street (Green Park), with benches and which was open at night, so I could take her there for a tonguedown and feel up.. I picked 4:30, because it gives us about 1 and a half hours to talk, so I can run the Maniac Plan on her, and then it would be dark enough (dusk) so that I could then take her to the park for the tonguedown, but still not be too late that she want to run home after the coffee/sandwiches]. We go to the coffeeshop, its crowded, so I direct her to sit down and wait for me (I don't want to get stuck at a table where I cannot kino her), and I buy her coffee, and my tea. For openers, I talk about her job (she is a student, and a tutor), where she lives (alone, on south shore of Thames). So now I got the basics covered. She lives far, so if there is a lay, she will have to be coming back to my place, in the City.. this might be a bit tough tonight timewise? and unfortunately no fuck hotels in London like in Tokyo, so can't do a quickie there either (though had there been, I would have nailed her that first night, because she was READY!). Now, I get into her values (yes, I am following the M.P. here..). I open with 'If you could do life over again, what would you do different?' [I like this, because it sets the frame of what she is missing/wants.. which is better than asking 'so what about your life you want to change?', which the chick would usually reply 'nothing'. The way I do it, already sets the context that she DOES want to change something]. Turns out though, it still doesn't work, and she says she wouldn't change anything if she had a chance to redo life.. Ok, so Maniac takes a different tact now.. and I ask her about British guys, and what they are like. [This is the transition now, to the romantic talk..]. Then I ask about her experiences with guys (I ask her if she had any non-british boyfriends (she had an American once, and a brit), so I ask her what was the differences between American BF's and British BF's. She said something about how British guys are more 'colder' somehow. Then I asked her what she wants in a guy (reply: usual stuff, honest, trusting..blah blah). Then I ask her 'how do you know you want a guy to be your BF?'. She pauses thinking for a moment, and then I answer it for her.. I tell her that she wants someone that she can feel a deep connection to, someone, that although maybe you've only known for a short time, it seems like you have been so close, and deeply connected to each other for such a long time? She is knodding yes yes yes at this point. I ask her if she is a person who is an adventure, or if she seeks excitement in her life [it's a double bind.. both are the same thing, and is just a setup for the next question] Now I ask her what was the most exciting experience in her life. She recounts the Lhasa story above (apparently it is just as beautiful as it was shown in the film '7 years in Tibet'.. she talked about it for about 15 minutes, what she saw in Tibet, and how much trouble she had to get into Tibet, and then out again, with police, and unfriendly Chinese chasing her, and pelting the car she was sneaking in with rocks? she said she thought she was going to get raped and/or killed by the communist Chinese, when they were chasing her up the road going through one of the towns to the central city of Lhasa, in Tibet)). Now, having learned from wifeslave (that she had a kinky side), I changed my plan a bit, and included the following. I tell her that I had a bi-gf that like chicks and was into SM. I told that this chick would dominate other women SM style [not true, this story is a combination of several chicks I dated, but this way, I can get all the things I want to say, out in the conversation, by always referring to this particular wild chick, and then I can naturally find out what types of weird shit may interest this particular chick in front of my now.. it is far better than asking 'so are you into SM', because if she isn't, it may freak her out, and she may run out the door, so this way is better]. After telling the story, I ask her what she thought about that story. She asked me if I still dated her, and I told her no, she dumped me for one of her women (hahahaa) [Lhasababe struck me as the type that wouldn't be happy if I had another GF, from all the trust stuff she said in the initial questioning above]. Now I tell her the story about the chick in Sao Paolo who grabbed me and kissed me within 10 seconds of me walking into this bar, and then get her comment on that (wow, exciting she says). I ask her if it ever happened to you (no she says).. would you like it to happen to you? (sort of scary she says? [ok Maniac will wait a bit longer]). I then say, she played this game with me after the kiss, lets try it (4 questions, see my webpage). Then I tell her I know another game (strawberry game).. play that. Fence is high, only a few strawberries (I find out after I fuck her, that she hadn't gotten laid in two and a half years.. imagine that!). Now, out of the blue, Lhasa babe tells me a story of an American guy who PU'd her once, but then she didnt fuck him because when he got to her place, he just wanted to fuck her and she started crying, because before this, she thought that he had really liked her, but he didn't fake it well enough when he got to her place, and was too direct for the fuck. (he lost the lay opportunity). I fed all this back to her in different words 'yes, I know how sometimes it can be sad to be deceived, and feel that your trust and openness was betrayed, but other times, maybe you meet someone else (SP [selfpoint]) and find you can trust them, and that there feelings are just so true to what you are feeling.' [Idea is to mirror, re-feed the words, and then neutralize] I continue on this, as it is an opportunity now to get even further into Lhasababe (mentally at least!). I go on to say that yes, for many guys, like that one, sex is just physical act.. but for a lady, sex is part of mental contact, a way of reaching her very deeply in her mind.. and sex is just a way (among many ways) to reach deeply into a woman's mind (kino is heavy here). I go on to say that 'you'd be surprised how few guys understand that basic fact.. because if you remember that fact when you are with a lady, she will crave you, because you understand what sex, and intimancy are really about, and that the job of the guy, is to satisfy the woman not only physically, but mentally, and emotionally as well, and be the man she wants him to be.. in every way.. See.. sex is a mental act.. using physical means to reach the mental soul.. so few men understand that, but when you find a man like that, you want to hang on to him (SP). Lhasa babe is going 'YES YES..' and now massive reverse kino has started! [ok, now Maniac has reached into this chick, and a statement of ability and understanding of what she wants has been made, and understood by the chick] Now I want to set up for the KC [kiss close] which will come a bit later.. I ask Lhasababe, so are you romantic or adventurous? Lhasababe replies 'adventurous'. I tell her, that 'perhaps it is by taking a chance, you can discover something new about yourself. It is like taking 2 more steps closer to Lhasa, isn't it.. She replies 'yes it is'. I ask Lhasa babe why she likes me [again, not IF she likes me, I set the frame that she already does like me, and now I am making her think of reasons to justify WHY this is true (this is some of the stuff I learned from the cult psychology brainwash web pages, see post I made last week on this). Making her do this exercise, will further convince her that she does like me, and invent reasons in her own head for this being so..] She replies that she likes me because I am level headed, and not afraid of taking chances for getting better results in my life (I told her earlier, about how I quit my job and moved to Japan, it was a big chance, but I took it, and had great results/rewards/adventure in life). Now I set up the kill.. I ask her if she ever kissed on a first date. She replies yes. I then tell her that relationships are exciting, because they are somehow very cruel yet attractive at the same time [not sure where I saw this quote, but it's a great one!]. The chick replies 'yes!'. There is lots of kino at this point, and excellent eye contact, so I decide to get her out of here, and into the park so I can tongue her down. I tell her 'lets go'. When we are outside, I tell her we still have some time, so lets go for a walk a bit since its refreshing. I then kid 'oh, well we are in Europe, so the gentleman should escort the lady, shouldn't he' and I let out my arm, she takes it (French arm style). Now, when we get to the park, she ices up a little bit, so I cannot KC her yet. So I try to loosen her up with the following: 'I think you are a mytersious person somehow.. if you want to know everything about someone, would you want that?' Lhasababe says 'no, then it is not exciting anymore'. I reply that I agree.. if you know everything about someone, its boring, there is nothing new to discover, the adventure cannot continue. Then I grin,, its ok, I have many many secrets, and it will take you a long time to find them all out, so I am not worried. Then she asks 'you think passion can always stay?, because I dont think it can.. just it fades'. I reply that it depends on the guy you meet.. and that I think passion can stay, it is like dance, the passion is always in the amosphere around you.. although dance is just moving around in a room to music.. really its much more than that, it is that feeling, which is indescribable when the music and rhythm is inside your body, and your mind, connecting you with it? .. a relationship is just like that?'. Now we are wasting time, and I want to get to the KC, so I go back to where we were before.. 'so which is more important to you, excitement or romance [I want to see what she wants here.. a quick fun fuck, like wifeslave, or something more..]. She surprises me though and replies 'arent they the same thing?'. I retort back (because I need to know what to do here), no.. I think romance can be excitement, but excitement is not romance, necessarily. Now I tell her the wifeslave story (but don't say it's the chick that was also at the party) because I want to know if this is what she wants (if so, I will try to take her directly home tonight ASAP.. if not, then a KC, and set up the fuck next time, because its getting late). I tell her I once had this ex GF (wifeslave really), who wanted fun in her life. She was married, but wanted secret fun in her life. We had a lot of excitement together, but I wouldnt say there was any romance at all.. It is just not what we wanted.. as another example, remember I told you about that ex GF I had who was bi?.. she had this girlfriend (see web, this is really that other couple we swapped with, in the 'swing parties' post on my webpage), who had a secret boyfriend, and they would go to swing parties together. But she had kids and a real family, and no one knew about this secret slutty life of hers that she hid behind everyone's back. Somehow, it was so cool, sexy, that she could pull this off, and be the woman she really wanted to be with someone, even though it had to be secret, with no one in her 'regular life' to know. Now I get her to a bench, and say, lets sit and talk somemore, and gesture with my hand for her to sit. She does. Now I move for the KC. First I ask her what is important in a relationship when you are meeting someone. She replies that they do what they say. I mirror/feed it back and say 'So you can trust them, to believe them then when they say/do something'. Lhasababe says yes, that's right. I continue, it is true, because if you cannot trust a person to act as they say, then there is no connection, nothing in the relationship (linking to what I said before about deep connections). But if there is trust, then everything becomes possible, doesn't it (kino here going well). I then ask her what new she found about me tonight compared to the first night at the party. She says that somehow I make her feel very comfortable. Now I ask her if she likes it when I touch her like this (her arm), or like this (her thigh, which I was kino'ing before). She says she prefers I touch her hand, it feels more sensitive. [not good, because the leg is more intimate.. so not time for a KC attempt yet.. Maniac will try more stuff first] Now I move into TPUA's 1 billions people in the world routine (see his HB physics layreport on my page). Then I mention (also from TPUA) how it is funny that although we only have known each other for just a few hours, that we could become so close, and find ourselves trusting each other so much to be alone together, in a place like this, holding hands and being so close. I feel that perhaps it was destiny that we met the way we did, and could have this opportunity to get to know each other more closely. She is getting fairly starry eyed now. I want to confirm/reinforce her feelings of comfortableness with me, so I ask her (in an authoritative way), so you feel comfortable with me (voice goes down on 'with me'). Lhasababe replies she does. Still, she doesn't look ready for a KC.. I am trying to think of other avenues here, so I ask what is her hobby. She says she took a course in giving massage and she is pretty good [this is the opener Maniac!, now she is ready!]. I ask her if she is ever lonely. She says she has friends, so its OK. So I ask her why does she want a guy then (again, I ask WHY, not IF). She then says, that she wants a special person to share secrets she can't with her friends. [note: this is an EXCELLENT retort if a chick EVER tells you she doesn't want a BF because she has friends? thank you Lhasababe!]. Now she asks me what is important in a relationship (her last barriers are coming down here!). I feed her the stuff she told me in the coffeeshop 'trust, discovering about yourself through the other person, becoming closer'.. you do feel comfortable with me, don't you.. (lots of kino). Now she blabbers about not having much time, being busy [more last minute objections!]. I retort with TPUA's 'so you want someone who is there when you need him'. Lhasababe says 'yes'. Now I do the SOI (statement of intent), again from TPUA's HB physics report (everyone should read that report, its on my page, and his close on that chick is EXCELLENT!). I tell her that I think we want the same things somehow, and that we would both miss out on potentially something wonderful if we didn't give each other that chance. I go on to tell her that I am SURE that I can give her what she is missing, and looking for right now, and that we shouldn't miss this chance, that fate has given us today, by being able to somehow feel so close in such a natural and comfortable (her trance word) way. I tell her, 'you are the adventurer, are you willing to take that chance'. Lhasababe says yes.. but then pauses and says 'I think you are good at romance, so probably you can get any chick though' [ha, she's got Maniac figured out.. she thinks!]. I retort, 'well that might be true? buts it's the same for you, isn't it? I mean you can go wear a short skirt, heels and fishnet stockings in the bars in Leichester Square, any night, and bring a guy home that night, probably in about 15 minutes'. Lhasababe says 'yes, I probably could'. I continue.. 'but is it enough for you? Probably not, is it.. you want more than that [I knew that, because she was not looking for 'excitement above, like Wifeslave, but something deeper.. from the interview I did in the coffee shop]. I continue: 'See for me, its the same, sex is easy, I can just go to a party, or a bar, or wherever, and pick up a girl and have sex with her? its true, I can do that [and it is!], but I want more than that, a deeper connection, those special feelings. So maybe I am picky, but if that doesnt happen, then I am not interested in that girl.. [not true, but it matches her belief set so much, that I am sure she will take it in]. Now I try again for the KC. I say 'I have a question, I think we both are looking fort the same thing, and have same values (take chance, adventure, romance), .. and could give each other what we are both looking for .. I would like to try'. Lhasababe replies 'me to' (still holding her hands here). I say 'would you like to kiss me [now tonality here is KEY. I am NOT asking her a question.. I am saying it in the tone of giving her PERMISSION to kiss me, ie, like 'would you like that shiny lollipop for free today Lhasababe', as a store keeper would say to a 9 year old child in the shop]. Lhasababe says 'yes'. Massive tonguedown happens for 10 minutes. We go up for air, and I tell her softly 'you are now two more steps on way to lhasa'. We both laugh and kiss some more. It is getting late now, and there is not enough time to take her back to my place as she has to work in the morning, the other end of town. So I tell her we shall meet again soon, and I would like to try that massage, so we will arrange for that. Then I take her to the bus stop, we kiss more, and both go home. I call her the next day, to make a meeting time to see her again the following Thursday. She gives be some blurry about not knowing her schedule yet, so confirm on Wednesday. I tell her I am busy too, so when she knows her schedule for sure, we can confirm then. She says lets contact on Tuesday and she'll know then. [in the meantime, wifeslave wanted to see me, and she was free Thursday night (her hubby was out late), so I ended up giving Thursday to her instead]. Lhasababe and I talk on Tuesday (I think I called her), and she says Thursday is OK. I tell her that she wasn't ready to confirm the last time, and I already had another appointment now, but Friday is OK. She says Friday is OK, so we make Friday. I worry about a freakout if I tell her about my place directly, so I just tell her there is a pub I want to go to near my place, so lets meet at my trainstation. She says it sounds nice, and we agree. (see karatebabe, nursebabe reports on my page for why I do it this way.. it lets me gets the chick in state first BEFORE I get her to my place, where she might be frosty, if I just took her there directly as soon as I saw her) Fuck day comes and she shows up on time. She has a backpack on. I ask her where she came from (I don't remark about the backpack), she says from home. This is an excellent sign, because it means that she is planning to spend the night, and has brought all her shit with her. (turns out this was so.. she had a lot of shit with her too, curlers, new clothes..etc). I say lets go to the pub. Its close, we walk there, get a beer, and talk about communication at many levels, and how many people don't understand this (I get her hand, hold it). I ask her how much she missed me (again, not IF, but HOW MUCH). Kino and eye contact is great.. no more work needs to be done. We finish the beer (she is slow on hers, so I ask if I can have some of it, I am thirsty, and I finish hers), and just head back to my place (I don't say where we are going, just I take her.. ). As soon as we get in, tonguedown,. I take her hand to the bedroom.. kiss more, on the bed, pull off her top, suck titties, off skirt, panties..finger her, on condom, (just I stop fingering her, I be quiet, get condom, and put it on.. I say nothing).. fucking starts and goes all night till the morning.. Shes great. Awesome sexy body, her clothes didn't do her justice.. The next day, I debrief about why she chose me after 2.5 years. She said because I made her feel very comfortable, the way others didn't, so it felt natural [good romance engineering there Maniac.., like riding in a Lincoln!]. After another morning fuck was I was still inside her, her on her back, legs in the air..I then stopped and kidded her and asked why she didn't want to first give me her phone number. Then said 'maybe you just wanted to be careful, maybe you were afraid that you'd end up in bed with some strange guy, with your panties on the floor (I look at her panties on the floor), you on your back, with your legs spread wide up in the air (I look at both her legs, one each side of me, spread wide up in the air), and him inside fucking you (then I drill her some, and she starts shrieking in pleasure), then I stop and say 'so was that why'? She laughs and says 'stop it!'. I don't, and start drilling her again and stop and say 'see what happens when you are not careful.. what happens to you?', and she makes me a pleasureable, but helpless smile..[end fuck torture] then I drill her some more, till we both come. We rest a while, and I kid about it again 'not giving the number, because she was scared of stranger guys' and then she said that she realized that she has to be less 'afraid' of taking chances, and try to take more chances.. because she was surprised that nothing bad happened, and she lost nothing from the experience..it was all really comfortable and wasn't sure why she was afraid to do sex at all (she briefly mentioned in the debrief she thought sex was immoral, so I retorted.. what gave you that crazy idea? Sex is wonderful! (at that point I drilled her more), and she loved it, and finally agreed). We slept a few more hours, then I walked her to the station in the morning, hugged and kissed her some more, and promised to meet her again. THE END Ok, things I learned (first of all, the title: a hat trick is a term in hockey, when a player scores 3 goals in a game, the spectators will throw their hats on the ice as a gesture, as this is so difficult to do). This lay was #3 in a total elapsed time spent in London of around 15 days, and without making really that much effort. I honestly find it an EASIER field to play than Tokyo, where I usually live, with a much better success/fail ratio.. mainly because language is not an issue here, and I can use FAR more sophisticated language patterns and psychology on chicks here than I can in Japan. In that aspect, London has been really good for PU practice, and is more straightforward. Add to that the fact that the guy competition here, though there are tons of handsome guys all over, seems to be rather weak in PU skill and ability, makes it easier as well for guys like me. Constructive comments / opinions welcome! Maniac High http://www.pickupguide.com Copyright 2001, Maniac High All Rights Reserved
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