From the archives at Maniac High's Seduction Website:

Mystery writes about NEG HIT Theory!

Mystery wrote:


A 10 is there surrounded by friends. She has put on this BITCH act. Is she
REALLY a bitch? Unlikely. All my girlfriends were wonderful
human beings - beautiful people have it easier because they are beautiful
and often times have better upbringings because of it. BUT - they
need to have a standard with which to uphold when all these NOBODY guys
approach her. So her values are very honed and understood.
When a man walks up and says, "can I buy you a beer?" she WILL be annoyed
by this. While the guy thinks he's doing something nice for
her, she gets this ALL the time. She is desensitized to this. You are the
8th guy TODAY! So she is very good at brushing all these guys off.
Shit, she HAS to be... she isn't going to sleep with ALL of them! So she
may say NO or act annoyed and then the guy thinks she's a bitch and
walks off pissed and feeling like a failure. And that seems to work.
Sometimes when the girl is particularly in a feeling of control (like in a

club where she is PREPARED for the barrage of men - it IS after all
something that occurs so often that when it is GONE she MISSES it)
she will accept the beer and then flake the guy off. Hey, the guys are
stupid enough to buy her one, she might as well take it. When they
take a beer from you, the girl is saying to you, "I don't know you and I
don't care about you. You are just another one of those typical guys
and since I dont respect you, Ill take the beer from you before I snub

I was with my friend Diane (the 10) and her cute friend (an 8.5 maybe I
guess). A guy came up and asked, "I don't mean to bother you but
would you like to dance with me?" The 8.5, not being used to this said,
"ummm, ahhh ..." and the guy gave a puppy dog look and I was
smiling at her knowing how pathetic the guy was so I saw the humor in the
situation and the girl said, "ummm, why not. sure." The guy said,
"REALLY? are you SURE? Wow, I NEVER get girls to dance with me." What a
pathetic loser. She started talking with Diane and the guy
just standing there and they never went for the dance. weird eh? He then
said ... to ME... "Can I buy her a beer?" I said, "you can buy ME
a beer ... but you'll have to ask HER." At this point I knew he was being
a hassle to her, she wasn't interested in the slightest and felt
uncomfortable. I thought is was great to see this occur in front of me -
it was highly educational and more so entertaining. So I say, "Hey,
the guy wants to buy you a beer :)" I'm getting into this now hahahaa. It
was great. The girl goes, "ummm, no thank you." Now Diane (the
10) says, "yes, she'll take the beer." So he buys her a beer. And then he
never talks to her again! Weird eh? Well that's how it went down.

I digressed. oh well, steady stream of text from my brain ... Ill trudge
on (sorry reader) ... since a 10 is so GOOD at snuffing your approach
(nothing ever personal either - it is a strategy that is built over years
of stupid guys approaches EVERY FUCKING DAY, she will do the
same to YOU. That is why SNUFFING THEM is important. You cant INSULT them
because they are used to all the hurt guys INSULTING
them (ahh you are nothing but a bitch!) so this rolls off their back like
water off a muskrats ass. How do you SNUFF them withOUT
INSULTING them? Well, let's say she has long nails which are most likely
fake. Now why do 10s dress so FINE if they don't want the
attention? Because they LOVE the feeling of control sometimes. They are in
a club with friends and they want to be the leader of the circle
(social hierarchy in primates) and so she gets all the attention. The guys
come and buy drinks for them and she gets off on knocking the
guys down. Its all in a days play. Ok, so she is wearing fake nails to
look even BETTER! Most guys will say, "wow you are so beautiful."
BORING, typical and in her mind by now (after years of the same shit)
TRUE. Imagine a guy comes along and says, "nice nails? are they
real?" she will have to concede, "no. acrylic." and you say (like you
didn't notice it was a put down), "oh. (pause) well I guess they still
LOOK good." Then he turns his back to her.

What does this do to her? Well, he didn't treat her like shit and INSULT
her. He complimented her but the result was to target her insecurity.
She thinks, "IM HOT IM BEAUTIFUL (especially in that emotional state of
control as in the public)... but I didn't win this guy over. IM SO
GOOD at this. ILL just fix that little smear on my image that he has of
me." then you continue to show disinterest in her looks as you give
her a neutral topic like the Elvis script. During this her intention is to
get you to become like all the other guys so she can feel in control
and snuff you and you then give her another NEG HIT like this ... "is that
a hair piece? well, its neat ... what do you call this hairstyle? The
waffle? :)" Smile and look at her to show her you are sincerely being
funny and not insulting. You are pleasant but disinterested in her
beauty. This will intrigue her because she KNOWS guys. And this isn't
normal. You must have really high taste, or be used to girls or be
married or something. These questions make her CURIOUS. So this keeps
happening and is known as FLIRTING. She give you little neg
hits and these tests are qualifiers. You pass them by neg hitting her
back. After all, you aren't like the others showing interest. But ... why?

To get control again she says, "will you buy me a drink?" notice how she
is trying to get you now! BUT, she only wants to sucker you in
enough so she can SNUFF you. That is all she is about - this strategy is
all she knows and it's not working for you so she is trying to do
damage control on the situation. But at the same time she doesn't quite
understand WHY you don't think you are great. After all, her nails
ARE fake. You say, "ahhh, thats so funny ... you nose moves when you
speak... (pointing and being cute) look there it goes again ... its so
... quaint ... hheeeee looky" :D She'll say, "ahhh, stoppp! :) *blush*.
Now she is self conscious and having her in this state is where you
want her. You have with 3 neg hits successfully created INTEREST
(curiosity) and removed her from her pedestal (removed her bitch
shield.) You were humorous, you had a smile, you dress well, you are
confident and everything she would want in a man.

You didn't take her shit. OH, and when she asked you for a beer, you said,
"no. I don't buy girls drinks. but you can buy ME one." You are
qualifying HER now. If she buys you a beer, this is symbolic of her
RESPECT for you.

If not you say, "pleasure meeting you" and turn your back to her again.
DONT walk away, just turn your back. You are neg hitting them
again just when they thought she was negging YOU. That is teasing each
other. That is the first step to flirting. This is all textbook
psychology. Simple stuff and it works enough for me to have had 58 girls
in 6 years.

A NEG HIT is a qualifier. The girl is FAILING to meet your high
expectations. It's not an insult, just a judgement call on your part. The
better looking the girl, the more aggressive you must be with using neg
hits. A 10 can get 3 neg hits up front, while an 8 only 1 or 2 over a
longer time. You CAN go overboard if they think you are BETTER than them
You can drop the self-esteem right from under them (just like
most 10s do to guys) and this isn't good. You have to get as close to the
breaking point as you can without crossing the line. Once you have
gotten her RIGHT THERE, you can start appreciating things about her (NEVER
LOOKS). There is a mutual RESPECT now. Something most
guys never get from the girl.

This is how you remove a bitch shield. 3 neg hits oughta do it within 2 or
3 minutes of neutral chat. Once it is down, you can from a mutual
respect place, seduce her.

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I would honestly say that this is the best NEG to date!

When you see a HB and she snuffs you ... tell her you think think her dress is
very nice (something she has heard before) and then tell her you remember
seeing her at a club before and she was wearing the same dress.  It IS nice
though. :)

Whether or not you ever saw her before, you can ASSUME she HAS been social
before and that she was wearing the dress before.

This deflats her INSTANTLY and puts you in control.

I will use this this week on the HBs that are worthy of it :)

Good one.

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Subject: Re: Neg Hits (again)
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Guy: What do you do?
Gal: Oh, I'm a model.
Guy: Oh, like a hand model or something?

oh god, BRILLIANT.  I love giving an idea and people FINALLY PERFECT it.

This one is fucking incredible.  love it.  will use it.

I meet so many 'models'.

Remember to say it straight faced like you have no clue you are offending.

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