Random tidbits of insight and highlights from the Diary:
These are things I learned/discovered during my research over the
past year, which I noted.
A work in progress, Maniac High
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-->How to become a PUA
-At first, you will suck, totally. Many people will say, 'just get field experience'.
That may work for some people, but it didn't work for me (just you make the same
stalls and fuckups over and over, get more and more nervous, and lose your confidence).
For some people, just 'try' will work, if you already have some natural skill at
PU, or social skills. If you dont (as was my case), this is unlikely to work.
So we will do this differently. We will use the scientific method of research, to
gain skill to become a PUA. Below are the steps:
-First you will read any and all material on PU, that means ASF, pickupguide,
layguide, fs101. Before you can do any PU experiments, you must understand the
subject matter. You will devote your life to this, all of your free time, to reading
lay/fuckup reports, and getting general background that will help you to recognize
situations when you run into them.
-After that, you will go out into the field. At first it is very unlikely that
you will succeed (at all!) in the field. For now, just spend 1 or 2 hours a
day in the field. You will then use the rest of the time for analysis of those 1
or 2 hours, and analyse what you did, what you did right/wrong, and in that situation
(any situation you got that day), how you could have done it better. You will
review it, and learn it. Then you will go out the next day and repeat.
This is important, because if you just PU all day/night without the analysis,
you wont know what you are doing right/wrong, and will just fail in the same way
day after day. The analysis will help you fix that.
Eventually, as your skills get better (it will take several months of going out
every day), the analysis time will get shorter, and actual field time will get
longer as basic field issues wont fuck you up as much, and you will handle things
quicker and more naturally.
I will warn you though, it will take a long time (it took me several years),
however in my case I was seriously socially fucked up retarded.
5/24/2002
-->Logic and feelings
-When doing PU, don't ever do something, and except the chick to
do what is obviously logically in her best interest... SHE WONT.
Chicks will do whatever feels best, irregardless of how good or
bad it may be for them. This is why chicks will go out with playboys
and not with the 'nice guys' who will be honest with them.
Don't do an action and expect the chick to behave 'as one would
expect'.... she wont. You must push the chick *at all times* by
her feelings and 'natural way'. Then you can nail her. If you
expect the chick to go out with you because you are smart, and
can take care of her (versus jerk) who won't... she will pick
the jerk if he is more fun, or more relaxing..
She will look at the feelings, not the tangibles (note, this
will change when she considers to get married though.. then
she will be rational for the husband (while still playing the
BFs on the side, that are more fun).
5/23/2002 Thursday
-->tell sex stories as last resort before blowout (maybe
at cofee shop?), ie artbabe..
blow her out in way that you are still very attractive
even after blowout.
chicks will try to take rocks for free (like guys
like to take gold for free), a la ArtBabe, so need to
defend against it, and call the bullshit right away.
often must enforce with chicks because they are
used to meeting adn talking and 'go slow (means go
not at all) enjoying the free rocks. especially be
ware of chicks to try to lead the date (where to go,
what to do/meet her friends) early on.. that is
a big warning sign that it is this kind of chick.
It could be an HB, or an UG.. but she is
already enjoying the rocks, and doesnt care about
giving you the gold.. she is already using the rocks
you gave her, rather than expecting more.
chicks are not logical.. completely emotional.
So they will do things that are completely self
destructive, because they have not thought it through
at all. (ie. a chick wants you, but will meet you
at 8pm, rather than 7, and then not have time to
fuck.. or will take the rocks, and not realize you
are about to blow her out for doing so, and will
be 'genuinly* surprised when you do, even if you
warned her before... there is no thinking of
consequences of actions when chicks think, nor thinking
of how to connect where they are/what they are doing,
to where they want to be/how they want to feel...
there is no planning.. it is like 4 year old child,
so you must lead all of it. that is why a chick who
insists to lead, is trouble... because she will never
get to where you want to go... she will wander in
random directions (and waste all your time) while
playing with the rocks she's got, and never go in
a dirction (unless she randomly gets there) to give
the gold... she'll never realize either that failing to
do so, means that rocks that she likes so much, will
soon disappear as a consequence, since that requires
logic, and thinking a process through a timeline,
and considering its consequences... chicks CANNOT
do this..
like actions to feeling.. (a tip to bypass this),
what you feel now..
-->First coffeeshop shibuya outing (solo)
-Did picture routine (I am doing play, which you like)
-This opener worked very well, 2 out of 2, normal pair, and ko-gyaru pair
-Normal pair chicks were already looking at pictures on the table
even before I opened my mouth
-Should get samba picture (Rio) and normal Empire St. Bldg picture,
and my/Artbabe's art (want 7 sets of pictures total).. can use this to
pace the PU
-Pictures are good because they let me control stalls, and slow down
PU pace so I can think next topic. Eventually, I should be able to
do without the pictures/only talk about her bag..etc/street PU..but
for practice at the beginning, we use the pictures
-Later once talking is more natural
-->Idea for new coffeeshop plan
-Picture opener
-Why you like picture? (1 or 2)
-It is for dance show
-Next picture
-I am artist/photographer
-I took the pictures
-NYC -vs- Rio
-You ever go NYC
-Do you want to go?
-Gaijin friends?
-ARtBabe's art
-You look stylish (get laugh from her)
-What you doing here in Shibuya?
-What are you doing after this?
-Artbabe picture (or adv-romantic picture)
-are you adventurous or romantic?
-Do you like art?, it is way to express/share natural feeling/each other
-..regular newMP (as much as possible today, then close)
-->Chicks and logic
Chicks are about as logical as 8 year goods when planning
strategy. This can be good (because their plans will be
easily obvious (chick: smile.. please buy me a beer,
kid: smile, please buy me a toy), and easy to spot out.
On the other hand, for the same reason, they will think that
these stupid plans will work (maybe with AFC's they do),
and they will try all sorts of stupid shit like this, and
it will just piss you off that they are trying such bone
headed stuff.
-->Chicks and requests
When a chick already asks you favors/what she wants even
BEFORE she has already gone out with you once or twice.
this is a very very bad sign. She is just using you for
something, and is not interested in you at all (if she
was, then she wouldnt risk losing you by trying her
petty shit (ie. I want to go eat at this italian restaurant,
or she brings her friends uninvited, or asks you to get
something for her on the way to meet her, or to meet you
when doing her shopping, or something else equally lame
which is just disrespectful to you..)
-->Chick brings her uninvited friend and says 'she is pretty'
so you will like her, so dont worry.
THis is very bad, it means:
-your target doesnt see you as a man (or she wouldnt risk
losing you to her friend)
-your target doesnt really believe her friend is that
pretty (so she wont be competition if she really does like
you)
-your target is just using you to impress her friend
-these all mean that YOU are not her focus tonight.. you
should call her bullshit immediately, and if that fails
(ie. if she doesnt get the clue/stop the bullshit), then
you should bail ASAP (which is what I did in the case of that
selfish W.S. Roppongi chick). For good measure you can send her
a message saying clearly how she fucked up and how she should
behave for the next guy.
-->HBAss, after I said no, then power balance restored
(ie. she was afraid to lose me) and then would fuck
(well) again.
-->To do multiple chicks at once without getting 'stuck'
to any of them: talk about wanting to be comfortable
and that you never know the future. NEVER promise
relationships (just you want to be comfortable now,
and dont know the future.. follow natural, that is
the right way), then she can dream what she wants
(and will continue that), but back in real life,
things will always stay casual like they were at
first, and never get too deep
-->See a chick once, maybe twice a week, if more than
that you are likely to get stuck with a too deep
relationship with her. If you are not always available
then she will be a bit more uneasy, and behave better
as a chick and fuck better.
-->Some chicks see sex and relationship as seperate
(artbabe). DOnt get too deep with these chicks, or
imply relationship, or they will run!
-->You always want to be in controlled situation (ie. where you
can talk/enter/exit at will with any chick. Any situations which
are not controllable (ie. being with a chick on a train (who is
not target you want to pull off of the train), or within lessons,
is more difficult because in the blank time lags, you will not look
in control, and just look stupid/not talking. You wwant chicks only
memory of you to be when you are in control and making her feel good.
You never want her to be dreaming of other things/people around you,
because of 'down/blanktime' like waiting for trains, in noisy stations,
etc, where there are interruptions.
HBAfro, LezCurious, NurseBabe, Artbabe were all pulled in 'party' situations
that I could enter/exit freely. In the case of HBVamp and LezCurious,
I did not pay any particular attention to them first before talking with
them first in a private dance(LezCurios)/beer situation (HBVamp). Chicks
you meet (and talk to) within a lesson you are very unlikely to
make it with. Better to just be seen, otherwise ignore them, and then
make the move to get her to someplace else as soon as you can, and
then ignore her again after the date is made (or leave) if it is a
controlled situation like a lesson or practice where you cannot control
talking without interruption, or entries or exit, where you look
silly walking around/waiting/practising.
-->To get control of reputation in group setting (dance group, work),
so that girls will see you as a guy. The key is to play off the jealousy
of the chicks. So what you need to do is get 1 chick interested in you
(conventionally). Then use her in front of the other chicks, so they
see/hear she likes you (even if only casually.. the other chicks wont
know that, and will suspect the worst). Then joke with the other chicks
about being in the bathroom too long, chatting (embarrassing thing),
or how you need to be protected from other chicks..etc... how they
are short..etc. That will soon play off on that target, and then you
can use her the same way (along with your first one), to finally nab
all the rest, and get them into your psychological 'harem'.
The hardest part is getting the first chick, so try a few (one at a time,
as it turns out they all talk to each other, so if you do simultaneously,
to go slowly with each one..)
5/22/2002 Wendesday
-->Good way to say 'no', to chick bullshit without it being conscience
chick: lets go to this club (I dont want to go to any club, I want to
go to a hotel and fuck her), but I cant say 'no' directly, or she'll
insist to go to the club, then fight.. rather, I wantto go to park
with her, and if she behaves, take her to hotel and fuck her, or
bail... i dont under any circumstance want to go to the club (ARtbabe).
c: lets go to this club after supper
m: its too early, lets go for a walk instead, I dont want to stayu
out too late
(of course, if yu think this through, it means,m there is no way
you go to the club.. cuz, it is too early for club, and you are not
staing out late (unless she drops the pantiesQ!), so = no club,
but not said directly, so no fight. then if she miss behaves in the
park.. say 'sorry, its late as I said, gotta go).
(5/20/2002)
-->Tests for chicks:
-So how do you feel when you xxx (kiss/touch/are touched/hold/hug) me?
(this is set up to do the next step (kiss, feelup..etc)
-->Various 'kino'/body gags you can do (part of relax the chick), usually
in closed group settings. This gets chicks used to you to kino and touching,
and will enable PUs in groups (works in party/bar settings)
Idea is to get her to be used to you to be touched (and then use this in
front of other girls, to get them hooked on it too/wanting it too lest they
feel left out)
-big eyes and smile
-hand grabs in the air
-big waves (with big eyes)
-bump her bottom
-eye squints
-CK gesture with smile
-Hello, my name is xxx (even though she already knows you), can I sit here
(pachi pachi eyes)
-pachi pachi eyes, look at her place/drink (gesture for it).
-Oooh, you are so sweet (yosh yosh on head pat)
-You seem like nice girl, can I sit next to you? (pachi pachi)
-->If a chick is not reacting well to your PU, it just means that you need to
make more effort in the PU (being nice, paying attention and more attractive)...
... TO THE OTHER CHICKS AROUND HER! (that will make her jealous, and then you
can go back to her later).
-->Avoid losing face/glare/freakouts:
The idea is to always test before progress, ie kiss first (then ask to go for the
walk, not the other way around (if you kissed her once before), then feel up,
then take her back to your place.. that way, there is never a chance for you to lose
face..if I ask you to meet me, do you do that? if I ask you to see me later, do
you.. if I ask you to go for a walk do you?
ie: with HBILikeSexy:
-CK
-Do you like me
-KC
-Come outside a short time with me
-Take her
-KC
-Do you like me
-Feel her up
-Do you want to spend time with me?
-Meet me at xxx time/place
-->KC'ing HBIlikeSexy (again) in Kobe
-After you want a kiss, it your Bday, I see her again in Kobe
-I get kino started (like before)
-I joke about that guy who likes her
-I ask her if she likes to dance with me (c:yes)
-I ask her if she likes me (c:yes)
-I gesture a few CK's
-I kampai to new year, and debut
-I joke about sexy girl
-I sit by her joke (hello, my name is xxx, you look nice can I sit next to you?)
-I hold her chin a few times (she doesnt recoil) and move close when talking
-I kampai to the new year of success, and take her face and KC
-I dance, and try KC at end.. fails, (was too sudden)
-WHen she leaves, I angry to her for not saying good by, she hugs, and I KC her
again.
-->Lay report, HBDanceBabe
Highlights. She came late, but made it easy for me, by still coming, making
an effort to look nice and offering to take a cab to go back after (time
limit gone). Going to the other Izakaya near river was good, as it got
her away more from the station so she would be less likely to change her mind and
take the train back. The new MP worked basically as stated.. it was clock
work, and the chick didn't need to say much. We got stuck on 'dance' topics
a bit at the start (and near the end before the close), but I could switch
that back to 'understanding people though dance', and how people relate to
each other. I used counters at both places, so kino was good.
I got a few CK's (cheek kiss) when I ask her what she learned about me/thought
about me, and gestured for CKs after a few (got 2 or 3 CKs).
To do the first KC, I said, that you have to follow natural pace, and
people who say 'sex on date 4, kc on date 2', I dont respect. Because I
want them to follow what is natural, if its faster, ok, or if its slower
ok, like if I feel I want to touch you, and it is right for you, then it
is good (do you like to be touched c:yes), so it is natural, or if we want
to hold hand, just do (c: it is nice too), can you understand (c: yes).
She says she liked me, so was happy to go on this date date; I said its
not date, just natural.. no stress, dont call it a date, that implies
checking, thinking, interviewing... just we are out for beer, and if
we are just friends, that is destiny, then just follow that, and if it
is something warmer (step up kino, and hand holding), and I feel
I want to touch you (touch her face), or kiss, then we do naturally (I
gesture a KC, and get it).
You are nice, it feels nice. Then each time she says something nice about
me, or I like her, I gesture another KC.. got about 6 or 7.
used fate, how we see so many things like, it is first time for me
to feel so nautral, comfortable.
To get her home to my place, I said I really want to dance with you,
that is way I can communicate, in a different way besides talk and touch.
Dance is human expression of music, so I want to share it together.
Using 'lets dance for 20 minutes before you leave' was also
a really good move. At home, she was still a bit uneasy, so I did a dance,
then KC, then hug, and against the wall a bit, with more kissing, then
another dance (wash rince repeat), till she would be more calm/easy
to hold me/relaxed. then I did long KC, (no tonguedown, she says she
is bad at kissing.. I told her it is like dance: a form of
communication, so technique and varation is not important, it is
what you communicate which is important and the feeling tied to it).
So that is all that matters (about kiss). Then longer KC, and I went to
the neck (got a bit stuck on lips). this got reaction, and I could outside
feel up body/tits, this went for a bit. Once she was comfortable, I took risk
and unsnap bra.. no resistance.. she got excited when I went for nipples,
did that for a while, and brushed her outside pussy (slight resistance
by arm.. wash rinse repeat 3 or 4 times, and then went inside the stockings
for the kill.. that got her excited alot. Then repeat, fingering her,
then let us 'both fall' to the carpet gently, lie her down, and finger
her/lick nipples/neck, till she is nuts.
Ask her if she like me 'c: I dont know'. ask her if she can follow me/trust
me. (c: I will). She says lightly (its not fair).
do more fingering a bit, condom on while still fingering (no pause in
fignering so she doesnt lose state). I want you to trust me (c: ok),
fingering, and dick in right away, fuck starts..
-Points about her:
-She likes gardening
-She doesnt want to be called 'chan' because she is mother to her friends, leader, top
-she wants to make her own money and be strong
-she likes other woman and want to be their mother
-I think she is a bit S, but for sex, M?
-She likes dance and sees things same way as me.
-She is bad to talk, but easy with me
-she likes piano, jazz ballet
-first sex since a while she says
-she had 'bf' till dec, but he never KC/sex her though (odd! not a bf!)
SHe said she was 'kowai' about sex, but didnt physically resist
much, though I did make some pauses to restate that I want her to be
comfortable, and that she can stop me any time and I will stop right away,
just I want us to feel comfortable. AFter that, fuck was easy.
020508 (wed)
-->If you do something quickly/as surprise to chick (ie. a KC), she
will act as naturally programmed by habit (ie. avoid the kc), even if
she really wanted to KC you. So in that case, you go slow, and ask first,
so that she can process, and not do the habit.
This can work to your advantage too, if a chick DOES something she would
ordinarily do, but you use it in an unusual context, where otherwise she
wouldn't have (ie. in romantic setting, do a KC)
-->HBIlikeH
-Looks like 'conservative Japanese girl'
-LIE: SHE FUCKED A GUY FROM A BAR, THE SAME NIGHT IN EUROPE
-SHE DOESNT REMEMBER IF SHE USED A CONDOM
-Said 'I never did anything like ONS'
-LIE!
-Said' I only have long term BF'
-LIE! BRAIN ONE WAY, BODY OTHER!
-DO NOT BELIEVE THIS BULLSHIT... ALL CHICKS DO IT!!
020503 (friday)
-->Phone calls and uncontrolled situations
Everytime you are going into uncontrolled situation, your chance of
losing the chick is very HIGH!
This goes for phone calls, if you do not get her the first time,
at a time she is not busy/with friends/on the train, by chance, then
you are at a very high chance to lose her. Because you don't know
her situation/attitude then, and if it is wrong/situation, you can
do NOTHING to fix it, and whatever you do, you will look WEAK!
So two ways to avoid this.
1: use email to establish the first
contact (she will reply you when she is free). or
2: set the next meeting, when you are at the first meeting/opener
if you can. If you fail, then go to 1: above.
-->What I want from a chick
-sexy body
-height/width match
-thin and pretty
-nice bottom
-likes to look/dress sexy
-likes wierd stuff
-positive character
-good social skill
-confidence in public/can handle people
-likes dance
-nice voice
-likes sex/vibes
-a good wild active fuck, legs apart and in the air
-m'ish girl
-not big spender/stupid shopper
-not selfish/want her own way
-no smoking/drinking problems
-no mental problems/unconfidence/insecurity/snooping/unstable
-not too much time fucking with makeups
-not desperate to be married
-->PU THEORY: THE G.U.T.
->Idea of the opener (the G.U.T. of PU)
Satellites broadcast on the same frequency on 2 polarities (horizontal, and vertical).
Two different channels are there, coming in at the same time. The same is true when
you talk to a chick.
Imagine 'horizontal', is the words you are saying (fluff, a
story, some questions or comments about the weather). This is the conscious stuff
you can type and transcribe.
But at the same time, there is a 'vertical' channel of communication, that most
people arent aware of. This is the channel where tonality, speed/pitch of voice
(and the emotions that those convey, like confidence, fear, anxiety, power,
ego..) are conveyed. This is subconscious, but is present never the less. It is
the communication on this channel, that will determine whether the chick 'likes'
you or not.
basic idea is in first few minutes (5..10), to keep conversation going in any
ways, so your 'atmosphere' conveys via the vertical. Then she will be relaxed, and
conversation will be able to go on its own, then you can use horizontal, to start
leading the vertical (stories about feeling, how you lead, natural way,
differences of people..etc).
Steps in intro PU:
->Opener: first 5..10 minutes
-Opener (horizonal)..keep it going, doesn't matter what you say, because the
real transmission is happening via the vertical (tonality, manner, pitch, speed).
The chick will 'like' you if your tonality and pitch show confidence, authority
and alpha characteristics on this vertical channel. Horizontal is not really
as important what you say, as long as the conversation keeps going, and is
interesting (see my other file), about travel, or places went, or shopping..
A chick will usually (via the vertical communication) mirror your emotional state.
So if your talk is rushed, she will feel rushed, if your talk is nervous she will
feel nervous. If your talk is relaxed, calm, mysterious tonality then she will
also relax/calm/show interest. Same goes for Kino (should have already started by
now).
->Middle: conversation now natural, she could pick up your authority/confidence
in step above via vertical, so now you can start to lead her feelings and show
direction via horizontal (ie. words you say). This is stories, and questions, now
about you, experiences, or her. Kino should be getting closer/better.
Tonality, Kino, speed of voice should continue, along with stories to demonstrate
alpha/personality/kanchou. Be attractive, and not pushy. Then, when it is clear
she likes you (IOI - mystery), indications of interest, then actually make the
pitch (KC, close..). Adding alcohol also works well too.
Basically, idea here is that the fluff at the start *really does not matter*.
Because this (horizontal) communication is not where the important communication
is happening, it is on the vertical side which is why people don't usually
notice it, and how PU seems so mysterious.. but this is the secret.. now it is
all logical and clear.
-->Going from AFC to PUA means changing everything about yourself.
Every little behavior, you have to examine. How you say good morning,
or hello to a classmate or co-worker, (eye contact, tonality, speed,
pitch, body movement), speed of walking, where/what you look at/
what you think when you are alone..etc. Kanchou, or follower/weak
one. A PUA will never put himself in a situation where he is the
follower, or weak (Smooth never will). Through tonality, and mannerisms,
you lead (encourage guys to talk to lonely girls, or to be friends
with each other, but not do so yourself, until your target is ready,
and gone through all the AFCs).
Even when you are not doing PU, you need to think, is the way I talk
now, or walk, or look at someone, congruent with what a PUA would
do. If not, you need to change it. Each time you do something, think
this, and evaluate. After a few weeks your behavior will start to
change. This is important, because otherwise, when you are with a
chick, your 'ingrained' behavior will come out, (which means AFC).
But if you are ALWAYS thinking/behaving/talking with attitude, speed
and tonality of a PUA, then when you DO meet a chick, all this will
work properly, since it is already your natural way around people,
chicks or not.
-->Mr. Smooth and 'yes'..
He never says 'yes', rather it is 'uun', and then he will either ask a question
right away about that topic, or make a comment (his own, not about the
target's thinking, or 'agreement question like 'yes, so you like cake' after
she says cake is good (that is just silly). He will say 'uun, what other
kind of food do you like, or 'did you make it yourself'... to keep the
conversation going, and more important, to LEAD, rather than follow the
conversation).
020417
-->On chick bullshit
If it even remotely seems like chick bullshitm, but you are not
sure if it really is, then act as if it is.. that is the wining
strategy.. why? because
1)there is a 99% chance that you will actually be right, it is bullshit
2)if in the (very) remote offchance you are wrong, and it wasnt totally
(or even partially) bullshit, and you call her on it anyways, that will
make you look uncontrollable/un predictable... which to a chick, makes
you more desireable.... so calling bullshit, is win win..
020414
-->If it sounds like bullshit, it probably is.
This is particularly true. If the bullshit detector, even *slightly*
goes off, then you are almost CERTAINLY dealing with a lie (even if
she INSISTS that it is not after you call her on it). Chicks are
notorious for this sort of bullshit, and will lie way more than men
(in spite of what they might say about honesty being important..blah blah).
Some examples of chick bullshit I encountered recently:
1)
-Chick leaves after 1 hr (I am tired, was up with my friends all night).
(funny, she didn't look tired at all)
-Then no reply/apology in mail/phone later
-Then when I call her on it, she says 'I was not expecting a date, but just
hanging out (bullshit)'.
m: oh, me too, I just meet, and see what naturally happens (good reply M).
It was all a lie though. Probably she (Cinderella chick) didn't know
how to deal with more or less direct talk (maybe still virgin?, she is
still young).. ok, I replaced her in 20 minutes after that.
2)
Meet chick, goes well. want to meet again (was a bit cold though,
but not sure)
Get Email: sorry, I am busy for next 2 months, I am moving (bullshit!).
I call her on it. She insists that this is true (yeah..right it is...!)
Then no reply ever again.. (not sure what she didnt like).. this was
a 4q chick.
-->Constructing a good BS pattern (like the religious preachers use..
this is how to introduce any pattern/topic in isolation of anything else
being discussed)
you know, xxxx is like yyy. (describe examples of yyy). If you have
yyyy, then yo know you have zzzz (zzz is the feeling you want to imprint
on the target)
Like being intimate, or hugging, is just an example of communication
at many levels, the way you look at each other, and feel that connection
with each other, and how you are held gently, and softly, and feel
completely secure. It is all ways of reaching each other without talking,
and is completely natural. And if that feeling is good, and you know
you can feel that connection with that person, then you know that you
have met someone you can trust..
-->About smooth, new insight:
When trying to PU a girl, don't be pushy to try to KC her or fuck, or hold
her, rather, demonstrate personality (kanchou), till you KNOW she wants then do
it (smooth and married girl).. that will work, even in a group, because you can
demonstrate personality (ie. describe natural way, connection.. usuing right tonality)
to all the people at once (if it is possible to lead conversation, and other
guys are co-operating with you). Then when you know she WANTS (ie. is gagging for
it) to KC, fuck, it is very easy.
020409
-->chicks like playboy AFTER they got him (they dont want to know he is
playboy before they get him.. slut defence logic).. but after they got him..
kakkkoi... I was :taken/caught' by him!
-->HBILikeH
Lay report..
This time got her (3 times!).
-still uneasy
-she later said in morning, she wanted BF because already she knew
english type, american type, and that I was close as latin type.
-She said she never started so fast
-she said she wanted to kiss me friday, and really wanted me on Friday
(would have been hard I think though).. her mood didnt show this..
-Today, she was very close the lips, it was clear she wanted a kiss.. happened
naturally..
-told her (kiddingly) her first impression was bad
-Theme of talk was 'follow your heart, and do what is natural way, it is the
way for my life'. Lots of 'so, can I ask you' type questions?
- why no BF in 3 years (I am not looking (lie, she said her friends she wants
latin BF))
-You like to be touched (start kino)
-she was embarrassed that she touched my face.. but cant describe why she liked
-She couldnt say why she like me
-She worry about alot that I am playboy (just then I kid her, I say 'here
is your drink, just you can enjoy nice evening with your drink and your own
way, and I turned my back to her... each time she would pull be back to her
again)..
-Often I told her to follow natural pace, like the kiss was)
-lost virginity at 16, she sais she doesnt need/miss sex (we'll see)
-When I started sex, she was funny, said 'I feel nothing', and started doing
math problems out loud.. it was very funny.. do her a little harder, and
she would shriek during the math problems
-She said still feel nothing
-2nd sex, drilled her hard, tell her this is revenge for annoying me about the
modem...
-fingered her in the bathroom of the izakaya
-never really resisted anything.. was like MsKinky.. mouth said
no, body said yes ('no, why sex,? then her legs spread open..).. light whine,
kawaisou feeling type.. somehow she wasnt ready, but at the same time, she
was desperate for it too.
-Once, she wanted to stop, at first, so I did.. but then started fingering
again, and got her..
-she likes nipples, and sucking.. rather sensitive
-she doesnt like gossips
-she doesnt know she is popular in the office
-when I got stuck, talk a bit about work stuff, then switch back.
-One thing which worked well, was to follow two minds too, myself. When
resistance, stop cold, but then say 'no sex', while you continue to finger
her, and get her ready (she liked it, it got her excited), then sex was
easy..
020406
-->Met CinderellaBabe .
Disappointment.. she was 'tired' and left after 1 hr. 23yo. From countryside
someplace. BS about missing last train (it was only 8:45pm!). THen not hungry
and not drink, and not want to walk... bye.. It was hard to transition to
the BF stuff she lived in SF for 3 years, then Kobe.. bujt no BF).
I had to use the 'escape hatch' of 5 years future to switch conversation to
BF/GF stuff (I want a nice woman I can trust).. but she ran away before I
could finish it (I got her answer (nice job), but couldnt reply before she
went home mine... I think she just bolted.. not sure if she ever had BF ever..
I think she is a virgin and still scared of men..
-->Random thoughts
Marriage is great for girl, because by law you have to give her rocks. But she
has no obligation to give you gold..
->Random thoughts
A cute chick is not much harder to lay (psychologically) than the ugs.
Just an Ug will be more available/easy to schedule..etc. So focus on the HBs
instead, especially in places where the UG/HB ratio is not too messed up (ie. USA).
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