Bagging Ms. Kinky
From: Maniac High's Seduction Website Http://www.pickupguide.com Report by Maniac High; From: maniac_high@pickupguide.com Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast Subject: Outing report (lay report); bagging Ms. Kinky Date: Sat, 29 May 1999 17:39:20 GMT Outing report: (lay report) 990528 Hi all, A few points of news this week. Mr. Smooth and I have postponed our next outing to next weekend due to some OT he?s got to do on Sunday (hey this is Japan ;-). We also decided to try restaurants and coffee shops on some weeknights, so that should be interesting. Reports will come as things happen. In the interest of learning from mistakes, as well as successes, I will post the failures (which there are tons of), as well as the successes. This weekend was mixed, I laid one of the chicks I met last Friday (see 15 phone numbers and 4 kiss closes report), which I will talk about below. As for the others, I called a few, and did notice that waiting 2 or 3 days before calling the chicks doesn?t work for bar chicks. All the interest I built up during the meet in the bar is faded by then, and it is hard to recover, even after I talked about how nice it was that time we were in the bar together (opinions how to fix this anyone?) It seems it is best to make an appointment for the next day right away (I think RJ and Mystery also said this was better), or try and get them out and home that night (somehow bad, because I think this is hard, as Mystery said, and also it means you can?t hit other chicks that night) or call within 1 or 2 days. Looking at my records over the past year, the lay success ratio was much higher with these chicks that I didn?t wait several days (on the contrary to shitloads of dating books out there but that is the stats I made last year). Of the numbers we got last week (smooth and me), about 3 /4 worked (in a couple cases the girls were really drunk and probably forgot, and one I think gave a fake on purpose). I gave none my number who didn?t give me theirs. I made a date with the black hotpants chick from last week for tomorrow afternoon (a very hard girl to reach on the phone, I have been trying all week, and got to her yesterday (I left one message mid week, which she didn?t reply)), we will see what happens. It has been a week, and she didn?t reply the message the first time I left it;and statistically, after this duration, I find chicks often cancel. In the past successes have tended to be with chicks who I meet again within 2 days of meeting them the first time. With one chick from last week, I did do this, and I could lay her pretty easily. From now on I will do this with any chick I meet, and see if results are better. With that in mind, I did get one of the other chicks out for lunch middle of last week, which I also met that past Friday. I did manage to lay this chick (Ms. Kinky) last night at my place. Here is the story. Comments / advice welcome. As usual, constructive comments/opinions on the following always welcome.. Its long, but the details are important I think (rather than "I talked to her, and then I shagged her"), so I will put them all in, from start to end.. Ms. Kinky is an OL (Japanese for ?Office Lady?). Japan is openly sexist; they hire young chicks from 20-30 about to work in companies doing all kinds of clerical jobs. They are all cute (you can discriminate against fatties and uglies here, and no one will sue you), and usually fairly easy to lay, as they are around 50yr old guys all day who are married and have no social skills. Around 30, the chicks get married, and new young ones replace them. I got Ms. Kinky?s number last Friday the same day as my outing with Mr. Smooth, but at another party I went to before. I had talked to her for maybe 15 minutes. I did smalltalk with her, and then talked about her job, asked her what her challenges are at work, and what kinds of things she wanted to be doing a few years from now (the idea that I wanted to get a bit of her core values out about not too personal things right away). We made solid eye contact throughout the whole talk, and I spoke deeply and slowly (seductively?) throughout our conversation (faking warm and friendly). I didn?t do any SS this time though. After our short talk, I told her it was really interesting to talk to her, and that it would be really nice if we could talk some more another time. She said that would be really nice, and asked how we could do that. I asked her her number and she gave it to me, and her email. I gave her my business card, and then I left. The following Monday, I got an email from her saying she had a nice talk, and how about if we go to lunch. I agreed, made lunch for Wednesday. On Thursday, I went to lunch with her, and found out about her interests and her background (what was it like growing up in Japan, what was college in the USA like?, interests (archeology, exercise, jogging, painting). Then I asked her about her favorite movie. From that I went to her favorite actor, and what traits she liked in that person. Then I asked her if those were the same traits she wanted in a guy that she would really like. (the traits were smart, handsome, interesting).. Lunch finished in about 30 minutes, and she had to go. I suggest that we didn?t have much time for talking, and how about we go for drinks after work. She said that is nice, and in fact how about if we see a movie next time. I agree, and we go for lunch. Later that day, I email her, and send her that joke (about the American college student in Europe, and the Italian guy who seduces American college girls) which I posted on here last week. I (remembering the experience above, not to wait for interest to wane, and to get that next date right away) suggest that we go out for a drink after work on Friday. She replies fine, and I reply back that I know a good restaurant that has Italian, and we can go there (noticed, how I asked her for a drink after work, but then come back with an Italian restaurant for the place to meet I am sneaky eh?). The restaurant is in Ginza. This is a really ritsy district in Tokyo (in the 1980?s, it was said you could take a US $1000 bill, and no matter how you folded it, the land underneath it would still be worth more..ah the bygone days ;-) ). The place we went to was really reasonable costwise, and I know they wouldn?t rush us, which was important, since I was going to pour on the SS tonight. She shows up, and we sit at the bar as our reservation isn?t ready yet. At this point we make solid eye contact, like the first time, and I start with casual stuff (I found that when you meet a chick again, you cannot just start where you left off the last time, you kind of have to quickly do everything all over again, talk how is the job, and casual stuff quickly, and move into the more personal stuff). So our table is ready, and we get to the table, choose our order, and now we can talk a while. I ask her about her hobbies (she likes painting, so I talk about various painters I know). Then I ask her why she likes painting, and does it make her feel passionate, when she is painting. She says yes, and I have her describe that feeling to me. The doggie dinner bowl look starts to come. I refer to the joke above I emailed her, (see, the joke was a setup, for this conversation, so I can get her talking about guys and relationships, naturally, and right away). I run RJ?s "Can you believe some guys are really like that" pattern, and then move into comparing scumbag guys to guys who are good, and you can really get close to. Then I run RJ?s IC pattern, the fascination pattern, and a bit of the L-vs-A pattern, (I forgot 1 / 2 of it). After that, I ask her to tell me, "if you could have your ideal BF, what would he be like". I probe her answers (ie ".in what way is he caring in what way is he passionate.. :", and have her describe it to me in real detail). Food comes, we eat. Here I lose it a bit, and start talking about her family, background, growing up and stuff, and the most interesting thing that happened to her in the US. The doggie bowl look starts to dissappear..uh oh, .. I quickly revert back to relationship stuff, and follow the stuff that I think David shade said he did his post about his phone conversations after meeting chicks on AOL. So I talk about her ideal relationship (I repeat what she told me before). Then I ask her if she feels a bit alone (she say yes), then I talk to her how bad that must feel like (give examples; you are home alone, nothing to do, no one calls..etc..etc). Then I suggest to her how nice it would be, if you were not alone, if a man cared for you, and called you, and you could feel security and safety with him, and how nice that would be. While I was saying this, I take her hand, which was over the table moving as she was describing the ideal relationship before. I hold on to it a bit, while talking, and then let go. I then talk about how it would also be nice to feel passion with that person, and how he could help you discover new things about yourself. I take her hand again while saying this. I then describe a passionate evening, and while doing so, rub her hand in various gentle ways (the description was a candle lit dinner at home, with food we made together, a darklit room, with soft music playing in the background, and the feeling that as you spend more time with that person, you?d feel closer and more comfortable with that person). Then I asked her if she was a good cook (a setup for a possible at home date, which I would ask for later..but turns out it wasn?t necessary, as I shagged her this same night anyways). I then ask her to tell me what her friends say the kind of person she is. This is a good way to get a person?s self impression, but not sound like a strange question. After she finished, I had her tell me what type of person she thought I was (she said I was intellectual, not playboy type (ha..if only she knew.., but actually, many girls say this about me), handsome etc). Good signs, all positive. The thing to watch here, is when she says it, the tonality and eye contact. The girl will always say good things about you, but the key is to watch her eyes and expression WHEN she says it. That tells me, where I am with this girl, and how much more work I got to do on the girl, or if I can lay her now or not. If her eyes are at the table, or all over the room, then what she is saying may just be as a courtesy, and I am not yet getting the effect I want with her.. Around this time, the supper is over and it is time to go. I suggest that we go. So we finish up and go back outside. Outside, I remark to her thank you for a lovely and romantic evening. At that point I gesture my arm out, a-la french promenade style (like I did last week, with that see-through pants chick, I picked up with Mr. Lager), and she takes my hand (not my arm!). This is good. I then ask her what are her plans tomorrow (here I am trying to see if I can get her home tonight, or not). It is okay, she is going on a trip, but not working, so she can be out late tonight. I suggest we go to another bar and talk some more (actually, a more casual place, I want to touch her more, and get her to touch me more), than we could do in the fancy restaurant. We start walking around, to go to the place. She is still giving me that look, and is rubbing my hand. I take her to a corner and try to kiss her. She resists, but lets me kiss her cheek instead. Now, I remember the advice from that Australian guy who posted those (excellect) comments about my Mr. Lager night on this newsgroup last week, that I should force myself more, and kiss the chick, even if at first she resists. So, I give her another look, and ask her if she likes me (she says yes). I say that is good, look into her eye, and kiss her. Excellent (thanks, ??? Australian alt.sed.fast poster..that worked). Now we go to a beer hall, and get a beer. At the beer hall, I have her tell me about her past BFs, and what happened for each relationship. She is sitting next to me now, without a table in the way, so I can touch her easily now. When she says something funny, I put my hand on her shoulder. The next time we kid, I put it on her shoulder longer. The next time, on her shoulder again, then slide it down her back. Then I take back my arm, but I move a little closer to her. Now I ask her about where she grew up, and what she was like. She was a farmers daughter, so I joke about that. Then I put my arm on her shoulder, and run RJ?s massage pattern. I move closer to her "to give the shoulder massage". Her legs are against mine now. I finish the massage, and take my hands back. Then, I joke about the other girls in the bar, and ask her to pick out the girls she thinks are the cutest. I laugh at her suggestion, and when I laugh, put my arm on her leg lightly, then take it back, and put it back on her shoulder, and massage her a bit more. She tells me that some of the girls are really country girls though, trying to look like city girls. I ask her which ones. I laugh, and put my hand on her upper leg again, and leave it here longer. She doesn?t resist at all. I tell her that I am not ashamed at all, and will go ask the girls she picked if they are really from the countryside or not. She laughes, and I put my other hand on her back. Then I take my other hand (from her leg), and take her hand, and joke, "no really, I am not afraid, I will go ask them for you)., and then put my arm on her leg, a little higher than last time.Again, no resistance. At this point she puts her face close to mine, and I lightly kiss her on her eyelid. She moves her head to her ear, and I start to kiss it. (Some of the other Japanese girls around us look at us weird, I ignore them..this is the homestrech with this chick..and anyways, they are probably jealous, that I am not all over them instead ;-) ). I then hold her face, and kiss her on the lips again, and go down her throut with it ;-). This pattern (ears, cheeks, lips; repeats another couple times, as we joke about farmers daughters, and what they are like). We finish our beers, and I suggest we leave. We go. We get outside, and start kissing madly against the wall of the beer place. I tell her, that I would like to go somewhere and talk to her more. Then she says she has to take a cab home, and get ready to travel the next day, and that she had a nice night. (I say nothing, as I am intent on spending tonight with her, so I just go with this, and go with her to a cab). She asks me where I live [allright guys, now this is really important, cuz Ms. Kinky now does this the rest of the night ? she will say one thing, and then do another the whole rest of the time. *RECOGNIZE THIS*, cuz chick will sometimes say "take me home and fuck me" with her gestures, while saying exactly the opposite with her words, taken literally. The key here I found, is to read between the lines]. I tell her where I live, and she says its not far from her place; so we can share a cab. I say fine, and we get in the taxi. She tells the cabbie to take her home, and then me. I then take her, and start kissing her again, like before. Now, I go for it (yes, in the cab!), and start letting my hands wander, over her shoulders, and then quickly brush over her tit. She resists, moves away, but at the same time pants a bit, and makes those "chick erotic sounds". That is a good sign actually (it turns out that Ms. Kinky is a girl who like the guy to "take" her, with a little bit of force..not a lot, but just a bit). So I continue, kissing, lips, ears, neck, and my hands wander to her tits again, and I put a hand there, and start massaging. She (lightly) tries to take my hand away, but I resist, and keep massaging it, and she starts to pant more, and make more erotic sounds. [note; I guess in the states, the whole rest of the pickup from here, might be considered improper..because in the USA, "taking a woman" who gives light resistance can be construed as rape through some very fucked up interpretations of the law recently in North America. I am not a lawyer, but if you get a chick this way, and the next day, she decides she doesn?t like you, or her friends give her some femnazi shit, and make her change her mind about you, it might be a problem, even if *SHE REALLY DID WANT YOU* when you took her, and the signs were exactly that. Anyways, what can I say, it is a really fucked up situation in North America legally right now, which is one reason I don?t play the game there..they can all stay single, and it is too much shit to deal with The key here though, is to watch her resistance level. If she resists a lot, it is bad, and this isn?t really what she wants, but if she resists just a little, then it is okay, she really wants more, and is doing it for the ?seductive experience? of being taken by a man. Many girls like this actually (turns out Ms. Kinky also likes bondage, SM and a fanatasy rape experience; which she told me later that night). (Femenazi newsgroup readers how do I know this? I asked her later after I shagged her about this, and that is exaclty what she said her words, not mine). Lots of chicks (expecially, the ones who like fucking as a mental experience, as well as the physical experience (and these are also often the ones who also like bondage and light SM..which is lots of chicks in Japan actually)) will do this to you. They will give resistance, because they want to be "taken". It is just in a woman?s gene. In spite of the shit they teach you in US colleges, "no" doesn?t always mean "no" it really does mean, continue or harder etc SOMETIMES..but just be careful, and watch the eyes, and other reactions. My chick was panting and making all those erotic sounds while resisting very lightly. This is okay. Heavy resistance and a clearly unhappy face is bad, and is a sign to stop. Okay, enough of this topic, anyways, laws in the US are very fucked up right now regarding this, as I said, so be careful. In Japan however..no problem..so the story continues The kissing and tit massaging continues, and she is going more crazy in the cab. The driver (as a good Japanese should), is politely ignoring all this, and taking us to her place. I stop massaging her, and tell her that when I will arrive to her place, I will walk her home. She declines my offer. I then continue kissing her, and get her tit with my hand from under her dress. She asks me then if she can see my place, for just a moment, before going home. I say, it is okay, and we tell the cabbie to stop to my place first. We continue kissing, and tit playing, and then I move my other hand to her front. She resists lightly, but I continue, I put it in her panties. She starts telling me she doesn?t sleep with guys the first night. I say okay, I wont sleep with you tonight. We kiss more, and I reach my hand in her panties. She is holding lightly from the outside. I push (slightly) harder, and reach her hole, and just touch it quickly, and take my hand out. Her erotic jolt makes her jump in her seat. I kiss her more tits more, and go for her hole again with my finger, and do her with my finger. She is getting really excited, but is being careful not to be too loud (in the taxi). This continues, till we get home, a 30 minute ride. She gets home, and asks to see around. She does, and she heads for the bedroom. We start kissing passionately and crazily, and I take her top off. She starts telling me again, that she is not that kind of girl, and not first night girl. I say okay, now tonight we just touch all over. I then do a massage of her top back. Then we kiss and more tit massaging. I ask to touch her legs (she?s got stocking under her skirt), and at the same time pull her stockings and panties off at the same time. I touch her legs, and kiss her, tits, and lightly put my hand on her hole, once she jumps erotically.. Then she says again more not that kind of girl..blah blah..I kiss her more, more tits, and she starts going crazy..I get my fingers in her hole, and start doing her that way, and she is getting more crazy and excited. There is no resistance now to anywhere I put my hands. I get on her now and let her feel be a bit. She gets erotic, and talks more about how she is not that kind of girl..not first night girl; but then she kisses me passionately all over. I tell her I want her, and I kiss her, and touch her all over, and finger her. Then I strip the rest of my clothes, get my condom on, and try to shag her. She puts up more resistance..but again, light. More kissing, tits..finger.. then I get in. Resistance breaks, and I start screwing her. But she keeps putting her hands in the way between her legs as I fuck her. I put her on her belly, and fuck her some more. Hands in the way again, so I take them and put them behind her back and hold them with my hand. I finish fucking her, and then we massage, and then we start fucking again. Her hands get in the way again. She makes another erotic sound when I do this, and gets much more excited (yep: Maniac has found himself a kinky girl I think). I ask her if she likes that and she says yes. I take her stockings, and bind her hands behind her back, and continue to do her. She gets all wild, and I finish fucking her, and untie her. I ask her if she liked me tying up her hands, and she said yes, it was really good in some strange way (she cliams she never did this with a guy before not sure if I believe her though). I ask her if she likes being made to surrender to a guy. She says yes it really turns her on (that explains the resistance in the cab, and before the fuck she wants the guy to TAKE her and now she tells me why,..and gives an explanataion of why it feels nice.). Now I go for the mind fuck too, as I want to have her surrender to me in her mind, and not just her body (for the next time I shag her). I start playing with her hole, and I stop and I ask her did that feel good. She says yes. I ask her if she wants more she says yes.. I finger her more, wait till she gets all excited. I stop. I ask her, what is her most inner sexual fantasy. She says it is a secret. I start to finger her more. I stop. I ask her if she wants more. She says yes. I repeat my question, and finger her a bit more..and I stop. I ask her if she wants more. She says yes I repeat the question. I touch her hole lightly, and ask her again,to tell me. She tells me. She says it is to be tied up and be forced to make love. I tell her I see. I ask her other really intimate questions, and get the answers this way. She gets used to me being in charge now this way. She tells me she never met a guy like me, and that it is really turning her on. (May be true or now, but anyways, its a good sign). I kiss her more, and make out more. Then I take her panty stockings, and tie her all fours, and do her. She goes totally crazy. We finish. Its late, and she starts to get dressed. She puts on her panty, and it is a very sexy t-back. (I didn?t see it when I got the stockings off before). I start playing with her in it, and end up doing her one last time. She finishes getting dressed, and I walk her outside to get a cab. We are walking and kissing and making out more. I touch her bottom, and she gives me the "bad boy but I like it" look. For fun I raise her skirt from the back a bit (she?s just got the t-back on,and no stockings (she forgot them at home, and I still got them..hehehe). The erotic look immediately returns. I tell her, "oh, so you are an exhibitist too..you like to be made to show what you shouldn?t, arent you"..she looks erotic face again, and knods lightly. I take her to a dark corner area (fortunately, tokyo is totally safe, even at night), and raise up her dress, so all she?s got is her t-back and her butt, breezing in the air. I finger her, more, and she gets really crazy. She is a bit noisy, so I stop. I tell her, that I know what she wants, and I will prepare more for her the next time. She looks at me, and tells me she never met a guy like me before who could get totally into her mind, and her body, and bring out exactly what she wanted. That is exactly what I wanted to hear a perfect night for her, and for me, which is always what I aim for. We find a cab, we kiss, and she leaves and I go home. (Oh, I went out tonight with another new wingman since Smooth was busy. It was shitty, our styles are really different and he is really awkward in bars it made me look bad, so we couldn?t get going. He is successful though on his own, just differnet style .so I came home early and wrote this The lesson, interaction between me and my wingman is really important I will be choose more carefully next time) So there you go. Comments, suggestions and opinions welcome. I put a lot of detail in, because many guys ask exactly details what to do to seduce a chick, and find out andgive her exactly what she wants This is as detailed as I could get on this particular one. Hope it was helpful, I welcome any constructive suggestions/comments. Thanks to everyones? suggestions the last few weeks it did make a difference in me bagging this chick. Next time the hot mini shorts date results, and nanpa night sequel with Mr. Smooth, among other things.. Maniac High Sent via Deja.com http://www.deja.com/ Share what you know. Learn what you don't.
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