Attitude and Desireability
From: Maniac High's Seduction Website Http://www.pickupguide.com Mr. Happy writes about... Pickup Attitudes and Desireability! From: "Mr. Happy" <sorry_not@available.com> Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast References: <7sakeg$6t4$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7sanjn$99h$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7saqai$bio$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7satjt$e5m$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7sb39o$ipe$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7sb50m$k4j$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7sbf98$rvj$1@nnrp1.deja.com> Subject: Re: Well I gave the HB a ride home last night. Date: Wed, 22 Sep 1999 16:54:48 -0500 Lines: 87 X-Priority: 3 X-MSMail-Priority: Normal X-Newsreader: Microsoft Outlook Express 5.00.2314.1300 X-MimeOLE: Produced By Microsoft MimeOLE V5.00.2314.1300 NNTP-Posting-Host: as00.globalreach.net Message-ID: <37e94fd1@news.globalreach.net> Status: R > Well I got the confirmation email of her ditching me: > > ----- > > Sorry Robert, but I can't make it tonite. A friend of mine is taking me > to look for a car and I REALLY need one. I hope you get this message. I > don't have a phone# where I can call you, so I hope you don't come all > the way out here. > C you in class tomorrow, > Camilla > > ----- > > Bitch. You know, if she REALLY wanted to be with me, like if she had a > crush on me, then she would have gone out of her way to study with me > tonight. So what do I say to her in class tomorrow? And should I email > her back saying anything? Is she playing hard to get?? 1) There was a point in time, in the past, when she found you attractive sexually. 2) She no longer finds you attractive sexually. 3) She either thinks that you are a pussy, or that you are not interested in her. Those are the signs you have been sending her. 4) She is NOT playing hard to get. She uses you where she can and she blows you off otherwise. She derives feminine satisfaction from manipulating you. This is one of the BASICS: Once you demonstrate to a woman that she can manipulate you, she loses all sexual attraction for you and designates you as a pawn. Read the above sentence 10 times. One piece of advice that is given here often (when a guy is pining over a specific woman) is for you to go out and fuck 10 other women first and then come back to her. If your skills are not yet up to the level where you can do that, then THAT is the true problem that needs fixing. Asking our advice is useless if you don't follow it. Here are the basic attitudes you must instill in yourself, behave as if they are true even if your emotions mislead you: 1) I make no excuses for my desires as a man. 2) I move through this world without apology. 3) I like to fuck women. 4) I don't need any particular woman, I am not needy. Women are a dime a dozen. 5) I DO NOT SUPPLICATE TO WOMEN BECAUSE THEY FIND IT UNATTRACTIVE. 6) Rejection is a good thing, not a bad thing. The more I get rejected, the more I will get laid. I learn something every time. If a woman rejects me it just shows how stupid she is. My gain, her loss. You need to go out and approach 12 women a day, 4 days/nights a week. That's 48 women a week. Your skills will undergo massive improvement with such practice. You should always be able to blow off any woman to go pick up another one. It is only after you do these things that the original swedish girl will start to find you attractive again. And if she doesn't, oh well, at least you are getting laid. Look I respect the fact that you are posting this shit and trying to improve your situation. But if you don't listen to us and put in the effort, you will not get the results. As Mystery said, if you won't even put in the effort, then you are a pussy and evolution is weeding you out. If you DO put in the effort, you WILL improve and get great results. Do not ever fixate on any one woman, it turns her off. To lay her, she must believe that you like to fuck women, that you would like to fuck her, but that you don't NEED her because you have all kinds of women all over you. Got it? As far as your current situation, she is disrespecting you. It IS a form of test, although she is already assuming that you have failed the test. In order to pass, you must: 1) Show that you don't lose your temper over it. 2) Show that you don't whine like a baby over it. 3) Show that it doesn't really phase you. 4) Show that you DO find it disrespectful and that you don't tolerate that. (4) is the most important point, but you MUST do it in such a way that (1,2,3) are true. o===3 From the archives at: Maniac High's Seduction Website http://www.pickupguide.com Good attitudes for being a better pickup artist! From Cane_69@hotmail.com Sun Feb 13 01:31:38 2000 From: "Cane_69" <Cane_69@hotmail.com> Subject: 10 rules of PU Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast These are collected from the group or my experience (it's basically how to be the alpha male and a few other rules) : 1. PUing follows the FMAC model (Find Meet Attract Close) 2. Have the attitude that every girl wants to sleep with you, it's just a matter of you wanting to sleep with her, having the spare time to do it and giving her the oportunity. Always prepare yourself and assume sucess. 3. Desperation is not something you experience. It's something other guys who aren't PU artists experience. 4. No woman is more important than your pride and your happiness. Another one is hoping to take her place in your life and is waiting right around the corner. 5. PU is a win/win for both you and the woman. But do unto others... 6. Humor is the most import single technique to sucess. 7. Confidence in a relaxed way is the most important factor to sucess. 8. Never get stressed out, discombobulated or worried that things aren't going right or perfect. Always remain calm, relaxed and reactive in possitive way to any challenges. Always act in a slow calm powerful manner. 9. Never appologize or try to think ahead to make life easier for the woman. Never dote. Don't "supplicate". Make her work for it (whether "it" means the realationship, the conversation or the first date) 10. Look, smell and sound your best. Never make it harder than it has to be, and it makes you feel better about yourself. Hurricane -- Free audio & video emails, greeting cards and forums Talkway - http://www.talkway.com - Talk more ways (sm) From bswmgr99@my-deja.com Sun Sep 26 20:45:10 1999 From: JonJuan <bswmgr99@my-deja.com> Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast Subject: Re: Well I gave the HB a ride home last night. Date: Wed, 22 Sep 1999 15:46:10 GMT Organization: Deja.com - Share what you know. Learn what you don't. Lines: 97 Message-ID: <7satjt$e5m$1@nnrp1.deja.com> References: <7sakeg$6t4$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7sanjn$99h$1@nnrp1.deja.com> <7saqai$bio$1@nnrp1.deja.com> NNTP-Posting-Host: 192.58.194.4 X-Article-Creation-Date: Wed Sep 22 15:46:10 1999 GMT X-Http-User-Agent: Mozilla/4.06 [en] (X11; I; SunOS 5.6 sun4u) X-Http-Proxy: NetCache@ecargje2: Version 3.4D8, 1.0 x34.deja.com:80 (Squid/1.1.22) for client 192.58.194.4 X-MyDeja-Info: XMYDJUIDbswmgr99 Xref: news-f.iadfw.net alt.seduction.fast:59564 Status: RO You say the words "player" like it is a BAD thing ;-) It depends how you "play". If you play a couple girls while you are getting NOTHING from them.. then it is OK. Once you get SOMETHING or SOMEWHERE with one, then the ethical questions come into play. Before then, it is all about SURVIVAL. Just ask yourself, do you only apply to ONE job if you are unsure if you will GET the job. Do you only ask for ONE opinion, when you are not sure of the validity or truth of that first opinion? Of course not! Why be any different with women or the friends you choose. Girls play this game all the time, and have whipped guys into submission over the years. It's really that simple. The sad thing is a LOT of girls don't even realize this themselves..and so if you think they are not playing this game with you on PURPOSE.. then you could very well be right. It's all conditioning for THEIR survival. This has become their INSTINCT in helping them find their best possible match. Start worrying about your own. Get in touch with your natural instincts. You're not being an animal.. you're just tapping into your animal instints, and using it to guide your choices. You will be happier in the end, and will be sure that YOU have made the right decision. Just do it with class, style.. and most of all have fun and learn! ONE MORE THING: Once you think you've won her over. Don't start gushing over her, getting caught up (too much) in the moment. She may try to TEST you and see if you can take it. She may try to make YOU jealous, by pulling the same game on her. Pretend you don't care. No matter how much it eats away at you.. pretend you don't care. You have to keep yourself in shape to stay on top. The longer you are together, and the more you know her, the more you can start letting your guard down. Do it at your pace. But find a balance. You're new to this and may find your self over compensating.. this could also lead to potentially spoiling the moment with paranoia.. be sure to post here often and listen to what different people have to say. Good luck man!! >From danielt@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au Tue Sep 28 05:13:41 1999 Message-ID: <37F085EF.1A4919F@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au> From: Daniel <danielt@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au> Organization: Remove SPAMSUX to reply. X-Mailer: Mozilla 4.61 [en]C-CONNECTPCW (Win95; I) X-Accept-Language: en MIME-Version: 1.0 Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast Subject: Simple seduction Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Cache: nntpcache 2.3.3 (see http://www.nntpcache.org/) Lines: 51 Date: Tue, 28 Sep 1999 19:10:09 +1000 NNTP-Posting-Host: 203.134.0.92 X-Complaints-To: abuse@telstra.net X-Trace: nsw.nnrp.telstra.net 938509807 203.134.0.92 (Tue, 28 Sep 1999 19:10:07 EST) NNTP-Posting-Date: Tue, 28 Sep 1999 19:10:07 EST Xref: news-f.iadfw.net alt.seduction.fast:60661 I used this a couple of times. IT works. You may add values inside those "patterns", that you have elicited. Fluff talk - 3-10 minutes.. During fluff use humour / tease sequences (when she laughs establish anchors on her arm, hips and tummy and neck), use NEGS if needed (depends on rating). Make sure rapport has been established and the girl has given u signs of interest. BTW KINO on the arm/hand as soon as you say hi (to show her u r a sexual being). Connection(reverse type): You know.. sometimes .. when i meet someone i get this feeling inside (PTS) .. i dont know what it is.. but i know it feels good (PTS).. and i cant help but want to get close to that person and get to know her..(point to her).. do you ever get that feeling when you meet a guy (PTS)? Let her say shit.. if its positive move on if negative do some more rapport building.... Passion: (continuation) Passion and desire (touch her neck) ... the feeling that you cant hold back... you want to touch the person (PTS or if u feel brave take her hand and make it touch your chest).. the desire builds and builds (touch her arm).. your mind goes numb because the feeling is so pleasurable.. (touch her arm) ... your legs get shaky (touch her hips) and your tummy feels weird (touch her stomach) Note: she should be fucking dripping... and if she aint u shouldnt have launched these without establishing anchors and rapport (smile and look in her eyes DONT say a fucking thing for 3 seconds) Passion and desire.. (touch neck and pull her a little closer) (KINO TIME (kiss)) Enjoy the fucking.. use the lines i supplied before to confirm and change venue for a fuck. BTW its more effective if u r both sitting down... -- Hello, below are my net details... my home page -> http://home.primus.com.au/danielt my email address -> danielt@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au Regards, Daniel :) Remove SPAMSUX to Reply From danielt@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au Wed Sep 22 10:59:31 1999 Message-ID: <37E828EC.596688C0@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au> From: Daniel <danielt@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au> Organization: Remove SPAMSUX to reply. X-Mailer: Mozilla 4.61 [en]C-CONNECTPCW (Win95; I) X-Accept-Language: en MIME-Version: 1.0 Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast Subject: Thoughts Content-Type: text/plain; charset=us-ascii Content-Transfer-Encoding: 7bit X-Cache: nntpcache 2.3.3 (see http://www.nntpcache.org/) Lines: 53 Date: Wed, 22 Sep 1999 10:55:09 +1000 NNTP-Posting-Host: 203.134.0.92 X-Complaints-To: abuse@telstra.net X-Trace: nsw.nnrp.telstra.net 937961709 203.134.0.92 (Wed, 22 Sep 1999 10:55:09 EST) NNTP-Posting-Date: Wed, 22 Sep 1999 10:55:09 EST Xref: news-f.iadfw.net alt.seduction.fast:59440 Status: O When I think about my style, i realise its mental masturbation, thats right!, i am mentally masturbating them which often follows into physical. They cant help but have their attention on me, the good feelings of laughter and the ego trap of the tease gets them hooked (although there comes a time when even a tease is highly pleasurable even if not straight away). Love the basic human psychology, you make the girl feel good, she will naturally reciprocate, except her instincts tell her to please the man sexually. I love the little gem by mystery where he said to neg a girl before kissing her, now how devious is that? You make her feel self conscious and then you relieve the very feelings you caused. hahah Daniel's cookbook of speed seduction..... 1) NEG hits to disarm initial bitch shield (if needed) 2) Small Talk 3) Tease.. Humour Sequences ...Sprinkle several sexual innuendos (Extreme Moderation is the key word here) 4) Wait for any sign of her sexuality building... (prolonged eye contact, open body language towards you etc etc, Shouldnt take longer than 10 mins tops) 5) Then go for a string of humour sequences (no teasing at this stage, use more frequent sexual innuendos though BEING SUBTLE IS VERY IMPORTANT SO AS NOT TO MAKE HER FEEL SELF CONSCIOUS)..... 6) NEG HIT... (destabilise her, make sure its still in the right format, in that its covered in humour) 7) Get onto her right there! Fuck her in any convenient private or public (hehe) place. Done. Whole process shouldnt take longer than 20 mins. Also, if she starts calling you names early it means on a gut level she is finding your powerful method overwhelming.. Leave the girl alone. This will work on a majority so dont worry. NB: The last neg hit part will be unnecessary in most situations anyway. Some HBs will require it though. -- Hello, below are my net details... my home page -> http://home.primus.com.au/danielt my email address -> danielt@SPAMSUXprimus.com.au Regards, Daniel :) ---- From nathan@metabork.fr.eu.org Sun Feb 13 01:21:37 2000 From: nathan@metabork.fr.eu.org (Nathan SZILARD) Newsgroups: alt.seduction.fast Subject: Re: I just got tested... what to do? On Fri, 11 Feb 2000 16:30:49 GMT, Feisal Keblawi <fskeblawi@worldnet.att.net> wrote: | Thats more or less what I was saying. But when women test us like this, | are they CONSCIOUSLY testing us, or is it all in the subconscious? Are | they doing it on purpose, just to see if they can jerk us around, or did | they really "honestly" forget for whatever reason? I don't think they test as in "let's see in this guy is a whimp". I think it goes more or less like this: "Damn, I'm not sure I want to see that guy ... well he's cool BUT ... nah I don't want to see him this time maybe I'll see him later and I'll know how I'll feel" From what I've 1- read in female magazines 2- read in psychology textbooks 3- heard from female friends when this kind of situation arises, it's exactly where they are positively impressed by a strong will. In the words of Vicky (formerly featured in the "home made porn" section of the lounge), when she's not sure she goes for the guy who appears to desire her the most. Does that seem to contradict what we have established WRT women not desiring NEEDY types? Indeed, it might appear as contradictory ... but as Alain Soral puts it .. it's about showing that you WANT her, as opposed to NEEDing her. DESIRE != NEED Hmm ... that's interesting, as I type that, I'm starting to understand exactly how I fucked a few times lately. Well, bottom line is, it's been shown that women fall for men who show persistance. Be persistant. Quite the opposite of what Ray teaches ... One and done my ass. Persist. And persist in showing strong will. Do not abdicate. Accepting her BS is being weak. Backingoff is being weak. Persisting is being strong. Then there is that line where stalking begins ... obviously, "stalking" falls in the "needy" category. -- Before either asking me seduction question, or posting them to the group, be sure to check the following GREAT websites: <URL:http://www.pickupguide.com/> -- non commercial <URL:http://www.fastseduction.com/> -- non commercial <URL:http://www.ut.ee/~anton/layguide/> -- non commercial <URL:http://www.seduction.com/> -- commercial
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