Analysis/Comments on the above example
From the archives at: Maniac High's Seduction Website
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Here is Ross Jeffries' analysis of his own NLP in his pickup website!
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From: sandworm@mediaone.net (Ross Jeffries)
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Subject: A LESSON IN PATTERNS: ,I AM ROSSYMANDIAS, KING OF KINGS..GAZE UPON INTROME.COM YE BABIES AND DESPAIR!
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Greetings, Ladies!
Now that the "cat" is out of the bag about introme.com, I have decided,
in my awesome geneROSSity to explain it, phrase by phrase, so that you
befuddled children may learn to do EVEN better!
GAZE UPON MY WORKS YE BABIES AND DELIGHT!
Did you ever instantly know you were going to like and trust someone for a
long, long time?
( A simple use of languaging to get them to recall a feeling state of
trust so that everything else that follows is accepted and acceptable)
Maybe you only knew them for a short while but it seemed that you had
known them your whole life, as if there were a timeless connection
between you.
(A more detailed description to deepen the experience)
As you read these words and remember those amazing feelings,
(Linking ongoing behavior to feelings I wish them to have)
it's
good to know that sometimes life has a way of making us remember those
things, right prior to discovering that we
can experience those feelings again...
( The fact that she IS remembering these things is PROOF that she is
about to experience it again. She isn't experiencing them because she's
reading the languaging..but because she's about to experience it again! It
isn't a production..it is an OMEN! A PROOF!)
With me...in my experience, it's the kind of thing that can't be
forced and no essay or words can create it.
(Therefore her feeling it is NOT because of the fact she's reading
something LOADED with languaging! It MUST be natural..and therefore, not
to be resisted!)
Words and appearances are only expressions, the vehicles that contain
the essence that moves us. It can only happen naturally as the expression
of an energy between two people,
(Again, it isn't a MANIPULATION but a DISCOVERY!)
but when it does...it's just like that feeling of
incredible bonding, when all the barriers melt and drop way, and two
people come together, fused into one spiritual essence,
(more detailed description to deepen the state and the ambiguity of
"come together" begins the process of sexualizing it)
the mingling of energies feeding one to the other, building and increasing
and intensifying, mingling into an expression of aliveness that words can
initiate but never capture fully.
(Hmmm..if WORDS can't fully capture it, then the only way for her to get
ALL the goodies..the ENTIRE cookie..is to MAKE IT REAL WITH ACTIONS!)
It has instead to be indulged inside your
own imagination...dwelled on, contemplated, experienced, deep, deep inside you.
( I want her looping on it....not just reading once and forgetting it...)
I do not know if you are the kind of person
( A challenge..is SHE sharp enough...DEEP enough...GOOD enough?)
that can imagine enjoying that that kind connection, with
someone wonderful who deeply moves you.
(commanding her to imagine it)(and note the ambiguity of "someone
wonderful"..WHICH someone?)
But if you could envision the possibility and feel it opening now before
you, drawing you irresistibly forward, how powerfully could you feel that
urge to read on and learn more?
(linking the feelings to the behavior I want, which is KEEP READING)
If these words have moved you...
Then perhaps you are the special, imaginative, fun-loving woman for me
and perhaps we are already on the way
(PERHAPS...in other words, I am not sure about
YOU ... YOU must prove yourself to ME )
to being able to meet and feel a special connection; a connection based
not just on getting what you want, but moving beyond what you want into
what could deeply fulfill you.
(AHH...this is good: the CONTRAST principle. Introducing the idea that
what she WANTS isn't really what has deeply fulfilled her and
INSTEAD...she must seek something else! Appeals to the unmet need in
virtually EVERY woman! And it is vague enough that SHE will fill in the
blanks and ascribe the answer to that need or needs as being...ME...and
therefore guess who gets to DEFINE THAT FOR HER? ME!)
Me...I am open to that special, adventurous, athletic , in-shape woman
who can show me she has a sense of purpose to her life and a sense of
humor and play to her soul.
(Who can show me....again, SHE must meet MY challenge!)
A woman, not a girl,
(Hmmm..ANOTHER challenge: are you a girl or are you a WOMAN who can decide
for herself what is attractive? Or must you pick someone the other "girls"
would approve of?)
who is open to new learning,indeed even thirsts for it, but also has her
own mind. A woman who longs to share with someone special; someone
who will be her friend and lover, partner and adventurer, who will make
each day together seem like the first and each moment together filled with
that sense of a timeless and indescribable connection.
(deepening and returning to what she will experience with me by further
description)
Do You Remember??
Do you remember when you were a little child and you went to bed
expecting tomorrow to be a rainy stormy day?
(I'm aiming at doing a few things here with this and the next few lines of
languaging: I want to by-pass the cynical adult who may be reading this
and age-regress her to the little girl who can believe in "true love". And
I'm going to use a universal experience to do so.....)
But you woke up the next morning and to your delight and surprise, you
looked out to see a brightly
shining sun, and not a cloud in the sky? And you realized,
"Hey...this day is MINE to make happen?"
(Here I help her to recapture that feeling that anything can be hers..to
give back the sense of possibility...<NOTE: women eat this example up in
person as well..use it and see for yourself!..they will often COMPLETE the
story for you!)
Imagine sharing those feelings everyday with someone who truly
understands, along with the passions only adults can create and share.
(Two things: Now that she has the feeling, I get her to future pace
enjoying it for a long, but unspecified time(everyday) and also I am
introducing combining this child like sense of wonder with ADULT
passions..creating a NEW possibility! Thus I demonstrate I CAN create new
feeling states in her..the very thing I am claiming I CAN do..so now she
has an experience of the claim being true!)
More About Me...
I'm 6 foot 2, athletic/slender, dark hair, dark eyes and I am very
pre-occupied with stimulating and intelligent conversation;
(Another challenge: do you have a brain with the body and face, honey,
or are you just a dumb bimbo!)
while I love travel I believe the greatest adventure is to explore one's
passions.
(Ah..contrasting exterior travel with the INWARD journey!)
I define true passion as not just lust in the moment
(She's certainly ALREADY had that before with OTHER guys..so she's
following along..)
...it's not even when you are touched so deeply that you find you give all that
you have.
(Wow..really? It's rare for her to even have THAT, but what this guy is
offering is even MORE? I GOTTA KEEP READING!)
It's when you are touched so deeply you find things coming forth from you
that you never even knew or imagined could be there.
(Whoa! You mean love with this guy will TRANSFORM me into someone new and
different? Let me feel things I NEVER could with anyone else? WOW! He's
rare and special!)
Can you feel that.....would be an amazing thing to experience with someone?
(Telling her to feel it)
ME: I'm not a doctor or attorney but quite successful
self-made entrepreneur involved in the human potential movement, so
you'll learn lots from me about spirit and mind as well as body! I must be
with someone
adventurous who LOVES to learn new things and is longing for an amazing
new direction.
(Some fluff and descriptions of me....then I put in the demand that she be
willing to learn new things, which is TRUE and also yet another challenge.
And then the ambiguity about AN AMAZING NEW DIRECTION (NUDE ERECTION)
Someone who can decide on her own what SHE uniquely finds desirable,
magnetizing and attractive based on her own deep feelings and needs.
(Translation: if she DOESN'T find me attractive, it is because she can't
think for herself! ANOTHER CHALLENGE! COUNT'EM, LADIES!)
Not because society would approve. Not because her friends would validate
it. Not even because it is what she is used to or expecting or based on
seeing her "type" or what is "typical", because maybe what is typical
hasn't really made you very happy in the past.
(A truism AND a play on words between "type" and "typical" that will
UTTERLY destroy the "not my type" objection!)
But because she is ready...truly ready..for something beyond what she
really even thought could be possible. Because maybe feeling that amazing
opening is the link between the girl inside the woman, and the woman
inside the girl.
(A way of making her even more open to suggestion: if it is beyond what
she really even thought could be possible, SHE cannot define it,
and must accept things as I structure and define them. Accepting
this creates a "blank slate" of suggestibility. Then the ambiguity about
an "amazing opening"..do I mean "opening" as in Vagina or the act of
opening inwardly.....plus the languaging of linking the girl and the woman
recaptiulates the freedom of the child with the power of the
adult..reinforcing the previous state I evoked!)
What I Like...
I'm strongly into touching, and intense
kissing(electricity)...that first, soft brush of the lips so soft you're
not even sure you're kissing yet, and it's as if all the passion..all the
fire that will be experienced in the relationship is enfolded in that one,
first, soft, special kiss, just waiting to be explored and made real
(Here I am eroticizing things but in an acceptable, poetic way by dwelling
on that first, amazing kiss...getting them to have some nice body feelings
too! Somaticizing it to make it more, even MORE vivid and REAL!)
It's that moment where time stands still and yet in that one moment,
there is an eternity of experience to be explored. It makes your knees
weak and your heart soar and every part of you
comes...alive...awakened...ready for whatever will come next.
(Deepening the state by more describing!)
It's That Moment
It's that moment when you just stop...and look deep
inside yourself and you are able to push aside all the
rules and restrictions that hold you back...you find that you
are free to look at your own desires with eyes
unclouded by the fears of others. You can look deep inside and
see that special place where you keep all your
secrets. Inside is what you desire. You can see your desires
and when you see your desires, you know that what
you want is right there waiting for you to act on your desire.
Now, with me...that's quite a powerful thing. When
you see your desires clearly, maybe for the first time, the
excitement and longing you feel is very strong. The
excitement of knowing you can fulfill these desires and the
longing of wanting to share that experience with
someone who so understands how you feel.
(This I confess I took from Odious who used it in a AOL profile. The idea
is to get her to look at her deepest needs WITHOUT shame or fear and to
feel permission to explore this with that one, SPECIAL man...me! Credit
where credit is due, to Odie!)
More For You...
I am willing and able to learn from you just as I am
willing and able to teach you many new things. Moving forward together in
life, longing for this amazing new direction. Feeling totally excited with
permission to not only be who you are, but to totally explore and accept
the person who is even NOW emerging.
(AHHHH...there's the rub....creating TWO of her..the OLD her with her
"fixed" ideas of what is attractive, acceptable, desirable..tasty..and the
NEW her...who she will discover through accepting MY suggestions, feeling
totally alive with the PERMISSIONS I GRANT HER!)
So if perhaps you are this woman, 21-39, with a touch of
poetry in her soul (and a bit of a naughty mind), then maybe you can feel
surprised at how much you'd like to meet and learn more.
(Then again, she may not be surprised at ALL at how much she wants to meet
and learn more!)
Please understand that looks are not enough; I truly seek a person with a
good, strong philosophy of life, a high-self esteem, a sense of fun and
adventure, a love of life and learning and a great imagination(so very
important!).
(All 100% totally true requirements of mine and also MORE tests for HER to
pass! If she responds at all, SHE'S ACCEPTED MY FRAME THAT I HAVE SET
THAT I am the prize and SHE must work for ME!)
Please also have a good sense ofhumor and play, and a love of all
things sensual(if your skill with your lips matches your luck with your
looks then
maybe we already have something amazing in common!)
(A bit of boasting here by asking if SHE can give as good oral as I can...)
Does This Sound Too Good To Be True?
Sometimes in life, we get hurt and let our
disappointments or past experiences block us from holding out hope...hope
that real love with real people can be possible.
(Ok...right about now, I want to destroy/innoculate against the "This is
too good to be true objection"...so I VERBALLY PACE IT FIRST.....this is
usually a great match for what she is thinking and so it ADDS to the power
of what I have been doing! Wow! HE UNDERSTANDS! Ladies: VERBALLY PACE HER
ONGOING REALITY, BOTH EXTERNAL AN INTERNAL AND YOU CAN POWERFULLY
INNOCULATE AGAINST ANY POSSIBLE OBJECTIONS AND INSTEAD USE THEM TO
OVERWHELMINGLY INCREASE RAPPORT!!!! THIS PRINCIPLE WILL MAKE YOU A REAL
"PUA" INSTEAD OF YOU WANNA-BE GINZA BABIES!)
But behind all that...behind all the cynicism and hurt...the let-downs
and the "not quites" is the part and the person who believes.
(Ahhh...the fact that part of her may not believe is only PROOF that there
IS a deeper and MUCH more willing part! The doubt you WERE feeling is the
VERY reason AND signal to go inside and BELIEVE TOTALLY!)
The one who believes in love and being loved for who you are. As you
listen to the message that one is telling you right here, right now...NOW
what
do you feel just might be possible, if you reach out and make this yours?
(Create or re-energize that part and she will, from this alone, feel so
wonderful, alive and NEW that she'll want to jump ya out of sheer
gratitude and how great she feels...note also the command into
ACTION..dont' just feel it, but "reach out and make this yours..by
following the instructions in the next paragraph! So I give the command
and then the specifics of WHAT TO DO!)
Here Is Your Next Step To Take...
Got pics? Well...you show me yours, I'll show you mine".
No pics? Then don't ask! I don't mind younger women(21+) and have
dated/enjoyed a few, but you younger gals, don't write me if you can't
sustain the excitement; thrilled to be your teacher but not looking to be
a babysitter!
(I'm DESTROYING the age objection by telling the youngsters, "HEY..DON'T
WASTE MY time "girls" unless you can be a WOMAN with me!)
So my preference is 27-39, please! (If you're hot and flowing with life, a
few years older won't matter either!) Piqued your interest? Good! How
strong
can you feel that building before you RESPOND AND EMAIL ME at paul@introme.com
(Link the feeling TO THE ACTION! THEY MUST TAKE!)
Of course, you don't have to email me right away; you
might want to take a few minutes to feel the excitement and anticipation
or even read this page over a few times before you email me.
( A false choice...do what I want now or wait a few minutes and DO WHAT I
WANT!)
Then you can look back on it and enjoy the satisfaction you feel as you
look forward to receiving my reply!
(Future pace them feeling great ALREADY HAVING ACTED!)
Got it, ladies? Not a word wasted and all fine-crafted. And ALL of
this language can be used in other contexts and formats.
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